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Mar 30, 2009 11:12 PM CST Disabilitys
thetallone1
thetallone1thetallone1West Footscray, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4 Posts
why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys
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Mar 30, 2009 11:15 PM CST Disabilitys
spicey1
spicey1spicey1St. Louis, Missouri USA16 Threads 873 Posts
This is your second thread in as many minutes on the subject.

I do not think the disability is the problem, there are plenty of people on this site with disabilities. That is not the problem. You need to talk about other things as well, and while it should be something you tell a potential mate, it shouldnt be "Hey my name is ______ I have a disability"
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Mar 30, 2009 11:17 PM CST Disabilitys
loverboy690
loverboy690loverboy690East Jordan, Michigan USA84 Threads 7 Polls 3,729 Posts
Many have disabilities don't worry about them unless they affect you personaly?grin
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Mar 30, 2009 11:19 PM CST Disabilitys
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
What IS this disability you speak of? You appear to be standing upright on 2 legs, and I swear I see 2 arms also... so what's the problem? Many women have disabilities also, do you respond to or message them? Maybe you need to meet some women with whome you have a common frame of reference? IDK. dunno

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!") sad flower
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Mar 30, 2009 11:20 PM CST Disabilitys
spicey1
spicey1spicey1St. Louis, Missouri USA16 Threads 873 Posts
Michael211_2000: What IS this disability you speak of? You appear to be standing upright on 2 legs, and I swear I see 2 arms also... so what's the problem? Many women have disabilities also, do you respond to or message them? Maybe you need to meet some women with whome you have a common frame of reference? IDK.

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!")


While I don't agree with the women bashing thread here, I must say not all disabilities are "visible" so be careful there!! professor
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Mar 30, 2009 11:21 PM CST Disabilitys
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
thetallone1: why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys



u are wrong thetallone,We are all dissability here ......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing grin
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Mar 30, 2009 11:47 PM CST Disabilitys
webbs
webbswebbsLexington, Michigan USA3 Threads 283 Posts
thetallone1: why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys


Unless it is obvious (and all disabilities are not obvious) how would a woman know any man has a disability when deciding whether to reply or not?
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Mar 30, 2009 11:52 PM CST Disabilitys
krisha: u are wrong thetallone,We are all dissability here ......




Yea we are all missing something, or we wouldnt be herethumbs up
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Mar 30, 2009 11:55 PM CST Disabilitys
loyal123
loyal123loyal123Warren, Indiana USA6 Threads 6 Polls 41 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yea we are all missing something, or we wouldnt be here
confused ....HMMM I'm missing something...dunno
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Mar 30, 2009 11:58 PM CST Disabilitys
loyal123: ....HMMM I'm missing something...



Yea , see u missed it, Ka put, sala v dunno uh oh uh oh mumbling laugh
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Mar 31, 2009 12:01 AM CST Disabilitys
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
HotrodLarrys: Yea we are all missing something, or we wouldnt be here



u are right,cutie larshead banger grin
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Mar 31, 2009 9:53 AM CST Disabilitys
clara1956
clara1956clara1956Punta Arenas, Magallanes Region Chile37 Threads 1 Polls 1,426 Posts
thetallone1: why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys


I don`t think it has to do with a disability. If I may suggest, I`d say go over your profile,may be there`s something to modify there.Just my opinion. Good luck to you and have a great day!thumbs up
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Mar 31, 2009 9:58 AM CST Disabilitys
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
thetallone1: why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys
After reading your profile, I'd say it has more to do with the negativity of statements like "I'm a poor ex-truck driver" that would turn women off, than anything to do with your disability.

There are ways you could phrase that, and other parts, to be honest but not seem so negative. Negativity is much more of a turn-off than lack of income or shaky hands.
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Mar 31, 2009 9:59 AM CST Disabilitys
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
In response to: why do woman hate to reply to men with disabilitys


... and some use the excuse of disability for not being attractive to women due to their personality....
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Mar 31, 2009 10:04 AM CST Disabilitys
RicoWest
RicoWestRicoWestlos angeles, California USA52 Threads 1 Polls 612 Posts
druidess6308: Negativity is much more of a turn-off than lack of income or shaky hands.


No wonder so few people are meeting each other!rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 31, 2009 10:18 AM CST Disabilitys
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
thetallone1,

I read your profile.

You said you had an operation and your hands shake. Is that your disability?

The thing that bothered me more than shaky hands was what you said in your "What I'm Looking For" section.

You said if you didn't get what you are looking for in a woman (hugs, etc), you would "stray and find it elsewhere"

That isn't very encouraging for women here to know that dunno

Plus, sorry to say, your gut shows prominently in your picture.

Try a new picture, cut out how poor you are and how you might stray and you'll be all set.

grin
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Mar 31, 2009 10:21 AM CST Disabilitys
spicey1
spicey1spicey1St. Louis, Missouri USA16 Threads 873 Posts
arabella: thetallone1,

I read your profile.

You said you had an operation and your hands shake. Is that your disability?

The thing that bothered me more than shaky hands was what you said in your "What I'm Looking For" section.

You said if you didn't get what you are looking for in a woman (hugs, etc), you would "stray and find it elsewhere"

That isn't very encouraging for women here to know that

Plus, sorry to say, your gut shows prominently in your picture.

Try a new picture, cut out how poor you are and how you might stray and you'll be all set.


I was thinking the same thing!!thumbs up
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Mar 31, 2009 10:46 AM CST Disabilitys
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
Given that people who've read his profile still can't quite figure out what this disability is, I'd suggest that disability has no bearing on the matter. roll eyes

I too used to be in the heavy trucking industry, though I didn't drive them I owned the big rigs and managed and often worked on them. Admittedly, it was not a profitable business and I finally had to end it and sell my Peterbilts about 3 years ago... I still miss them, though I don't miss all the headaches and expenses that operating them brought me! Ughhh! It's a very tough industry to be in, impossible even. doh

But I digress.... I can't see where the OP has actually come back to read the posts he's started, or at least he hasn't responded to anybody on his posts. confused

- Michael ("American by birth, Texan by the Grace of God!") sad flower
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