IF WE ARE ALL HERE FOR THE SAME REASON WHY CAN,T WE MEET SOMEONE (23)

your right mate i read what woman want in there profiles i think to myself we have similar interests etc e mail them and you get nothing back its down to looks i think most people look different in pics than face to face i dont know what to do keep trying i guess or put fake pic up ha ha

Actually, from personal experience. I have also come to realise that physical attractiveness goes hand in hand with financial status. I wouldnt think of myself as an ugly looking bloke because I have gone out on quite a number of dates with some really nice women off different sites, CS inclusive. They appeared to have been so keen on meeting up after a few days chat plus given that we had connected very well over net/phone. But honestly, after the dates they didnt even answer my calls. I dont know if its me being honest about what i have and dont have plus cmn lets be honest here, if you turn up for a date in an absolutely old banger while the pretty young woman is driving a new car, owns her house and also has a decent job. Then when she asks do you own your house, you say no I just rent it. what do you expect. at the end of the day, it dont even matter if you have a good job because.(This saying of "the car a man drives says much about him" is actually true) Beleive me looks wise we had clicked but from observation, I managed to pick up a few clues from their conversations, and I knew that they wanted to go into relationships where they had some financial stability. I cannot blame anyone especially at these hard financial times people are having to go through. So (Kindatheart), just be patient because good tidings always come to those that wait.

I dont think its true that most men on here are players or that most women on here are money grabbers.. although the site sure has its fair share of both of the above!
Why do people seem to get all bent out of shape when they have been IM'ing someone and then they dont " click" when they meet in person...you go through the process.. if it works it works and if it doesnt then surely you would just move on... why take it personal. What idiot would fall in love and make commitments to someone they had only spoken to online and never met in person. Meeting Mr or Mrs Right on these sites must be like winning the lottery.... somebody has to .. you got to be in it to win it!! So, Kindatheart... dont take it all to heart, enjoy the forums and let your personality shine through and who knows... you may just get the 6 numbers up.

You have got alot of issues mate ask most women what they would rather have money or happiness?
This is true i met someone on new years eve she had been seeing this multi millionaire and she said to me Neil if i put you and Mark side by side i would pick you,you have given me so much more so i know for definite it's NOT all about money try coming on these sites with a little more possitiveness and it might surprise you mate women don't like people who beat womankind all the time and tar them with the same brush.
I got cheated on by two women but it doesn't mean all women are alike look for the good in people mate

i think to many act to quick and decision made to quick and people who do that to me im glad as i dont need that sort of person i want lots of conversation and a lot of learning each other i dont want a beauty but she turns out to be a monster inside . i want a person with a warm heart and not to bothered bout looks inner beauty better than outer beauty. and those that dont give you time of day to chat are just shallow minded people.

The negative responses written by defeatists reeks of desperation, and no one wants to date a man or woman who acts like that.....
Like every walk of life there are individuls who are money/wealth motivated disregard what the person looks like as long as they have cash to flash there will be people willing to get it spent on them....
Flip side there are those of us who just want to meet someone we click with (and remember the chemistry has to be there for anything to develope)
Others are happy to play games,they really just want to chat online and when the time comes to meet they back away....
It shouldnt be taken seriously if you meet someone and they dont want to meet again,,,it might be nice if you are given a reason as to why they dont want to see you,,,but put it down to experience,,,if that happens a few times,,,Change direction... chat to someone outside your normal range of peole you "go" for and who knows You might just find "the one" that is good for you

HEY,SWETY, I GUESS YOU ARE A WOMAN.I AM A MAN.DON'T WORRY, IT IS A NUMBER'S GAME-SEND AS MANY AS POSSIBLE.AND PUT A SMILING PICTURE, NOT A SAD ONE.I LIKE YOU, GOOD LUCK!

Probably because local means a plane ride away?