I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS ( Archived) (123)

Apr 19, 2009 8:13 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
If the person you met here lives in a different country, you talk for a while, then you meet, everything is all you dreamed it would be.

Would you up sticks and move to another country?

How would you cope with leaving family/job/friends?

How would decide which one should re locate?

Just i have done it, i am happy with my life, but i miss my family so much, and its not always that easy to visit because of money.

Do we really think about everything when we make this kind of decision?
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Apr 19, 2009 8:15 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
Sounds like someone is regretting something.


blues
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Apr 19, 2009 8:16 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
To be completely honest, I'm very curious to hear what some have to say.

CS has opened my eyes to alot of things.



wow
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Apr 19, 2009 8:18 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
drivenbysound: Sounds like someone is regretting something.
No but i do miss my kids. My life is good but think there is alot to think about, and when we are in love do we always do that.

See so many couples on here saying there together, but is it real if they are in a different country and how do people really feel about moving?
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Apr 19, 2009 8:18 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
morgan5: If the person you met here lives in a different country, you talk for a while, then you meet, everything is all you dreamed it would be.

Would you up sticks and move to another country?

How would you cope with leaving family/job/friends?

How would decide which one should re locate?

Just i have done it, i am happy with my life, but i miss my family so much, and its not always that easy to visit because of money.

Do we really think about everything when we make this kind of decision?


Hi Morgan..........wave

Hope your well.

I personally would move. It would be easier for me than a lot of other people because of family ties, career and so on.

hug
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Apr 19, 2009 8:19 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
morgan5: If the person you met here lives in a different country, you talk for a while, then you meet, everything is all you dreamed it would be.

Would you up sticks and move to another country?

How would you cope with leaving family/job/friends?

How would decide which one should re locate?

Just i have done it, i am happy with my life, but i miss my family so much, and its not always that easy to visit because of money.

Do we really think about everything when we make this kind of decision?


good question. i'm sure that it will get alot of interesting replies
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Apr 19, 2009 8:20 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
drivenbysound: To be completely honest, I'm very curious to hear what some have to say.

CS has opened my eyes to alot of things.
I'm truely not knocking anyone, but i have realized it is a hard call
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Apr 19, 2009 8:20 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
I have recently met someone. On CS, yes... but not on the Forums. He is in the UK but a fair distance away.

Still, its early days.... so we'll see? batting

wave
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Apr 19, 2009 8:21 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
I would not be able to leave my children behind, i brought them for the most part up on my own and i have already lost my 19 yr old daughter to a car crash so there,s no way i could leave my sons behind.
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Apr 19, 2009 8:21 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
ojoverde88
ojoverde88ojoverde88Javea, Valencia Spain22 Posts
morgan5: If the person you met here lives in a different country, you talk for a while, then you meet, everything is all you dreamed it would be.

Would you up sticks and move to another country?

How would you cope with leaving family/job/friends?

How would decide which one should re locate?

Just i have done it, i am happy with my life, but i miss my family so much, and its not always that easy to visit because of money.

Do we really think about everything when we make this kind of decision?


Hi to all. I´m going to live 4000 miles away from home, because i found the love of my life. No risk, no fun!!! peace
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Apr 19, 2009 8:22 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
morgan5: No but i do miss my kids. My life is good but think there is alot to think about, and when we are in love do we always do that.

See so many couples on here saying there together, but is it real if they are in a different country and how do people really feel about moving?


Are you in a relationship now? If so, are you living together?
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Apr 19, 2009 8:22 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
bestat45
bestat45bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada8 Threads 1,169 Posts
sasseez: I would not be able to leave my children behind, i brought them for the most part up on my own and i have already lost my 19 yr old daughter to a car crash so there,s no way i could leave my sons behind.
sad flower
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Apr 19, 2009 8:22 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
vinny1967: Hi Morgan..........

Hope your well.

I personally would move. It would be easier for me than a lot of other people because of family ties, career and so on.
Hi vinny wave i realized how hard it was when my Grandaughter died, and i wasn't there.

Don't get me wrong i am with a great guy, but it doesn't stop the feelings of missing my family.
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Apr 19, 2009 8:23 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
roseofsharon: I have recently met someone. On CS, yes... but not on the Forums. He is in the UK but a fair distance away.

Still, its early days.... so we'll see?


Crash and burn, baby..crash and burn.






tongue
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Apr 19, 2009 8:23 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
roseofsharon: I have recently met someone. On CS, yes... but not on the Forums. He is in the UK but a fair distance away.

Still, its early days.... so we'll see?


crying crying crying

mumbling

moping
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Apr 19, 2009 8:24 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
drivenbysound: Are you in a relationship now? If so, are you living together?
yep, and im happy but the wrench being away from my kids although they are grown up can make me sad blues laugh
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Apr 19, 2009 8:24 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I would move. I have been on CS less than a year, but if I met somebody, and I was in love with them, and loved them. (I would need both to move) I would relocate. And I thought about this for a long time before I joined this site.
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Apr 19, 2009 8:24 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
Ah, ive been in this position too.

Circumstances have kept me stuck in the UK, and it wasn't fair of me to expect anyone to wait endlessly on me being able to up sticks and move abroad.

One day however when the grief is over, i can concentrate on things, and then get out of the country i will move abroad and then start all over again.

My plans the same as it was, but the time-scale i just don't know, so the most honest thing i can tell people is my life just isn't my own at the moment.

Think of it as "A State of Flux".

Won't always be this way though.grin
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Apr 19, 2009 8:24 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
morgan5: Hi vinny i realized how hard it was when my Grandaughter died, and i wasn't there.

Don't get me wrong i am with a great guy, but it doesn't stop the feelings of missing my family.


I undestand its not easy, but its like weighing the advantages against the disadvantages Morgan and reaching a decision.

We wont really know until we try it.

wine
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Apr 19, 2009 8:25 AM CST I Am Really Curious...... To The Couples Who Met On CS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
ojoverde88: Hi to all. I´m going to live 4000 miles away from home, because i found the love of my life. No risk, no fun!!!
will you be leaving family?
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