sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
I would not be able to leave my children behind, i brought them for the most part up on my own and i have already lost my 19 yr old daughter to a car crash so there,s no way i could leave my sons behind.
bestat45saint john, New Brunswick Canada1,169 posts
sasseez: I would not be able to leave my children behind, i brought them for the most part up on my own and i have already lost my 19 yr old daughter to a car crash so there,s no way i could leave my sons behind.
I would move. I have been on CS less than a year, but if I met somebody, and I was in love with them, and loved them. (I would need both to move) I would relocate. And I thought about this for a long time before I joined this site.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
Ah, ive been in this position too.
Circumstances have kept me stuck in the UK, and it wasn't fair of me to expect anyone to wait endlessly on me being able to up sticks and move abroad.
One day however when the grief is over, i can concentrate on things, and then get out of the country i will move abroad and then start all over again.
My plans the same as it was, but the time-scale i just don't know, so the most honest thing i can tell people is my life just isn't my own at the moment.
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Would you up sticks and move to another country?
How would you cope with leaving family/job/friends?
How would decide which one should re locate?
Just i have done it, i am happy with my life, but i miss my family so much, and its not always that easy to visit because of money.
Do we really think about everything when we make this kind of decision?