Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner? ( Archived) (21)

Apr 24, 2009 10:50 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
This got me thinking though: When your ex starts to date again, do you prefer him to upgrade or downgrade his partner? I see benefits to both. Say your ex starts dating a girl with no job and no motivation or someone you would dub as being a really bad catch. You can play it off as him having bad taste in women and he obviously didn't appreciate you for all you're worth. He doesn't know what he's missing! Now, on the other hand, if he starts dating some beautiful women who is extremely successful and talented, who you actually would respect and look up to you can say, "OK, I get it, she's cool. Good for him. He obviously has great taste." Perhaps that's taking the high road.

share your reasons why not if no

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Apr 24, 2009 10:51 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
romeo22: This got me thinking though: When your ex starts to date again, do you prefer him to upgrade or downgrade his partner? I see benefits to both. Say your ex starts dating a girl with no job and no motivation or someone you would dub as being a really bad catch. You can play it off as him having bad taste in women and he obviously didn't appreciate you for all you're worth. He doesn't know what he's missing! Now, on the other hand, if he starts dating some beautiful women who is extremely successful and talented, who you actually would respect and look up to you can say, "OK, I get it, she's cool. Good for him. He obviously has great taste." Perhaps that's taking the high road.

share your reasons why not if no



can ex be friends again?
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Apr 24, 2009 10:52 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
NO grades, just happy. He if the father of my child. We just want all to be happy.
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Apr 24, 2009 10:52 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
lol i dont give a hoot what he does dunno grin
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Apr 24, 2009 10:54 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
Dunno, I don't care much about what my ex's do, but I do wish them the best of everything and hope they'll find happiness with someone else. (I guess I don't have really awful ex's roll eyes )
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Apr 24, 2009 10:54 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22: This got me thinking though: When your ex starts to date again, do you prefer him to upgrade or downgrade his partner? I see benefits to both. Say your ex starts dating a girl with no job and no motivation or someone you would dub as being a really bad catch. You can play it off as him having bad taste in women and he obviously didn't appreciate you for all you're worth. He doesn't know what he's missing! Now, on the other hand, if he starts dating some beautiful women who is extremely successful and talented, who you actually would respect and look up to you can say, "OK, I get it, she's cool. Good for him. He obviously has great taste." Perhaps that's taking the high road.

share your reasons why not if no
Upgrade or downgrade? It depends on when the warranty expires.
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Apr 24, 2009 10:54 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
sasseez: lol i dont give a hoot what he does

Life goes on.
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Apr 24, 2009 10:57 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
sasseez: lol i dont give a hoot what he does


why you do not care about what he does? cant you forgive and foregt?
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Apr 24, 2009 10:57 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
romeo22: why you do not care about what he does? cant you forgive and forget?
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Apr 24, 2009 11:07 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
romeo22: why you do not care about what he does? cant you forgive and foregt?


Isn't that just what it means - that the poster has forgotten them?

Why would I keep being interested in someone who turned out not to be what I needed in my life?
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Apr 24, 2009 11:12 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
romeo22
romeo22romeo22Bangkok, Central Thailand Thailand54 Threads 2 Polls 132 Posts
AudrysSis: Isn't that just what it means - that the poster has forgotten them?

Why would I keep being interested in someone who turned out not to be what I needed in my life?



the correlation between your forgiveness and forgetfulness to your future partner is important else you love to the other person will be tainted.. to have a clear mind and start afresh
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Apr 24, 2009 11:28 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta29 Threads 5 Polls 1,305 Posts
What if there is nothing to really "forgive"? laugh Then what's left is just "forget", no? dunno
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Apr 24, 2009 11:50 PM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
There's a reason why they are called EX'S.
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Apr 25, 2009 1:56 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
tainogirl: There's a reason why they are called EX'S.
wine What she said.
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May 5, 2009 7:38 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Godslave
GodslaveGodslaveNowhere, North Carolina USA7 Threads 106 Posts
tainogirl: There's a reason why they are called EX'S.


Good one, taino. romeo, you've obviously never been married! rolling on the floor laughing
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May 5, 2009 7:43 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
sasseez
sasseezsasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1 Threads 3,150 Posts
romeo22: why you do not care about what he does? cant you forgive and forget?

well i have forgave as much as i can but its not that im angry i truly dont care what he does simple, its his life now. and if u knew what he did u wouldnt expect me to forgive.
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May 5, 2009 9:24 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
sasseez: lol i dont give a hoot what he does


romeo22: why you do not care about what he does? cant you forgive and forget?


I agree with Sasseez...and it's because I've moved on, and what he does has no impact on my life anymore, so I just don't care who he dates. That's for two of them. For the father of my children, I could care less as long as she treats our sons well...they're in their teens, so it's not like they need another mother-figure, but she's got to treat them with respect.
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May 5, 2009 9:32 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
No1knows1
No1knows1No1knows1Rockhampton, Queensland Australia182 Posts
Don't really care who the Ex dates, But for myself
I shall be upgrading or nothing!!! Why the hell
would I want to downgrade from the partner I had!
as that sure as hell didn't work.
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May 5, 2009 9:34 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
haha.. My ex husband shuuure upgraded from that last few GFs he had. He is dating the sister of one of the 'Celebs' .. haha!

Obviously he down graded from me.. snooty

hahah!.. I'm joking.. he's okay. wink
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May 5, 2009 9:40 AM CST Do you prefer your ex to upgrade or downgrade his next partner?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Upgrade all the way!dancing heart wings
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