what exactly attracts us to the oppossite?? for me individually it's the inner beauty that counts most.But yes most of us look at a person's physical appearance.but that physical beauty will only please your eyes...nothing more. Inner beauty will please your heart and soul..
finding that in a person will make u fall in love because not everyone possess that inner beauty..but it's the most beautiful and amazing part of our being,look for that and you will never go wrong..
I think there has to be something that attracts us initially if there's any hope for a relationship to come out of any encounter. It may not be great looks or beautiful eyes.. though it often is. Sometimes it's the way someone makes us laugh, or the way they carry themselves, or how they react to something that you witness.. For me, if someone can make me laugh, they can own my soul!!
well that makes perfect sense.. but u should also realise any woman can be beautiful from outside..that is to say beauty is sold in the shops..but what a person is inside can never be bought right?
Physical attraction is what initially draws me, but inner beauty is what will win out in the end.although I always try to give everyone a chance most of the time.
The longer I know someone the less i notice how they look. I just start to see them as who they are. Mike, Ann or who ever. I dont really see them physically as I did when I first met them. Their personality is always being judged as we feel it as they communicate with us. If the communication is negative they get uglier and if its positive we tend to like them more.
Yes, no doubt inner beauty is important but no one will ever convince me that it's not physical attraction numero uno then comes everything else(everyone's attraction to each their own)
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Big_John: I've changed my mind: this inner and outer beauty stuff is a pile of crap!!!! We either like someone or not. Most of us don't know why.
There's something to that, yes.Love is the only magic I know, that cant always be explained to the letter.Its more of a feeling than a rational decision.
In response to: what exactly attracts us to the oppossite?? for me individually it's the inner beauty that counts most.But yes most of us look at a person's physical appearance.but that physical beauty will only please your eyes...nothing more. Inner beauty will please your heart and soul..
finding that in a person will make u fall in love because not everyone possess that inner beauty..but it's the most beautiful and amazing part of our being,look for that and you will never go wrong..
"Have you ever viewed someone's profile who didn't have a pic?Would you think that he/she could be the one? And,what if they were the one? Looks are,for the most part,important in finding that special someone.But,it's not everything.".
Of course physical attraction is the draw initially. There has to be that attraction, though later it may turn out that it is not enough to sustain a relationship. There is more to it than that at the end of the day.
In addition, as others have said, we all have our own idea of physical attraction, so nobody should feel they are on the eternal shelf.
Some people believe in league tables. When I was younger, friends would often berate for me for having the hots for guys who they perceived as out of my league......what nonsense!!!!
Today, I am the same. I am physically attracted to all kinds of men, regardless of whether they are deemed as classically handsome. It is all down to individual preference. Everybody gets a shot.
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for me individually it's the inner beauty that counts most.But yes most of us look at a person's physical appearance.but that physical beauty will only please your eyes...nothing more.
Inner beauty will please your heart and soul..
finding that in a person will make u fall in love because not everyone possess that inner beauty..but it's the most beautiful and amazing part of our being,look for that and you will never go wrong..