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May 8, 2009 4:53 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
tellytots5
tellytots5tellytots5groningen, Groningen Netherlands3 Threads 15 Posts
what exactly attracts us to the oppossite??
for me individually it's the inner beauty that counts most.But yes most of us look at a person's physical appearance.but that physical beauty will only please your eyes...nothing more.
Inner beauty will please your heart and soul..
heart beating
finding that in a person will make u fall in love because not everyone possess that inner beauty..but it's the most beautiful and amazing part of our being,look for that and you will never go wrong..

peace peace
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May 8, 2009 4:57 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
To me this is a two part issue:

First I find I need the physical external attraction to the lady. I find I look into her eyes and then look for the smile.

Second comes the personality, traits and intelligence that must be there.
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May 8, 2009 4:59 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
tellytots5
tellytots5tellytots5groningen, Groningen Netherlands3 Threads 15 Posts
well that is also well said
it depends entirely on an individual hug
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May 8, 2009 5:05 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and that goes for inner beauty just the same.

My preference goes out to someone who is on the same level,in and out.

So if I rate myself as an 8 I would look for an 8,
But since women always posses more beauty i could do with a nine too.

I dont think i would feel comfortable with a 10.

does that make any sense?
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May 8, 2009 5:08 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
NeWildflower
NeWildflowerNeWildflowerScottsbluff, Nebraska USA15 Threads 2 Polls 754 Posts
I think there has to be something that attracts us initially if there's any hope for a relationship to come out of any encounter. It may not be great looks or beautiful eyes.. though it often is. Sometimes it's the way someone makes us laugh, or the way they carry themselves, or how they react to something that you witness.. For me, if someone can make me laugh, they can own my soul!!
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May 8, 2009 5:10 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
TLC69
TLC69TLC69duncannon, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 270 Posts
Physical beauty will catch my eye, but there has to be inner beauty.

There are many ugly, beautiful people around.
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May 8, 2009 5:13 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
YewEye
YewEyeYewEyeRacine, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 388 Posts
TLC69: Physical beauty will catch my eye, but there has to be inner beauty.

There are many ugly, beautiful people around.


I hear you there...
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May 8, 2009 5:14 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
tellytots5
tellytots5tellytots5groningen, Groningen Netherlands3 Threads 15 Posts
well that makes perfect sense..
but u should also realise any woman can be beautiful from outside..that is to say beauty is sold in the shops..but what a person is inside can never be bought right?dunno
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May 8, 2009 5:15 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
tellytots5
tellytots5tellytots5groningen, Groningen Netherlands3 Threads 15 Posts
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May 8, 2009 7:06 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
ihateusernames
ihateusernamesihateusernamesForestville, Maryland USA2 Threads 375 Posts
Physical attraction is what initially draws me, but inner beauty is what will win out in the end.although I always try to give everyone a chance most of the time.
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May 8, 2009 7:32 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Paradox67
Paradox67Paradox67Collegeville, Pennsylvania USA9 Threads 5 Polls 1,170 Posts
Both.
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May 8, 2009 7:33 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Good4U2
Good4U2Good4U2Gallatin, Tennessee USA15 Threads 1 Polls 929 Posts
The longer I know someone the less i notice how they look. I just start to see them as who they are. Mike, Ann or who ever. I dont really see them physically as I did when I first met them. Their personality is always being judged as we feel it as they communicate with us. If the communication is negative they get uglier and if its positive we tend to like them more.
conversing professor handshake
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May 8, 2009 7:35 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
bamma882
bamma882bamma882baltimore, Maryland USA10 Threads 270 Posts
Inner, as long as I can look you in the face without getting turned off, I'm happy.
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May 8, 2009 7:42 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I've changed my mind: this inner and outer beauty stuff is a pile of crap!!!! We either like someone or not. Most of us don't know why.
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May 8, 2009 7:49 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
Yes, no doubt inner beauty is important but no one will ever convince me that it's not physical attraction numero uno then comes everything else(everyone's attraction to each their own)
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May 8, 2009 7:56 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
Big_John: I've changed my mind: this inner and outer beauty stuff is a pile of crap!!!! We either like someone or not. Most of us don't know why.
There's something to that, yes.Love is the only magic I know, that cant always be explained to the letter.Its more of a feeling than a rational decision.thumbs up
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May 8, 2009 7:59 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
mexikanska
mexikanskamexikanskaCancún, Quintana Roo Mexico55 Threads 3 Polls 963 Posts
from the view comes the love.....confused
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May 8, 2009 8:05 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
In response to: what exactly attracts us to the oppossite??
for me individually it's the inner beauty that counts most.But yes most of us look at a person's physical appearance.but that physical beauty will only please your eyes...nothing more.
Inner beauty will please your heart and soul..

finding that in a person will make u fall in love because not everyone possess that inner beauty..but it's the most beautiful and amazing part of our being,look for that and you will never go wrong..



"Have you ever viewed someone's profile who didn't
have a pic?Would you think that he/she could be the one?
And,what if they were the one?
Looks are,for the most part,important in
finding that special someone.But,it's not everything.".

JMO



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May 8, 2009 8:09 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Of course physical attraction is the draw initially. There has to be that attraction, though later it may turn out that it is not enough to sustain a relationship. There is more to it than that at the end of the day.

In addition, as others have said, we all have our own idea of physical attraction, so nobody should feel they are on the eternal shelf.

Some people believe in league tables. When I was younger, friends would often berate for me for having the hots for guys who they perceived as out of my league......what nonsense!!!!

Today, I am the same. I am physically attracted to all kinds of men, regardless of whether they are deemed as classically handsome. It is all down to individual preference. Everybody gets a shot.
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May 8, 2009 8:13 PM CST inner beauty or physical beauty
omg2008
omg2008omg2008bucks, Buckinghamshire, England UK13 Posts
Big_John: I've changed my mind: this inner and outer beauty stuff is a pile of crap!!!! We either like someone or not. Most of us don't know why.


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