What would you do ?.........Need advice. (67)
vinny1967: Normally I post and when I get a response that I find demeaning to me, I know how to react. Whether its right or wrong I react.
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Hi Vinny.
I would ignore it. He has posted some things about me. Obviously somebody that knows us.
That is of course, assuming it is a 'he'
Ignore it.
------ This thread is Archived ------
vinny1967: Normally I post and when I get a response that I find demeaning to me, I know how to react. Whether its right or wrong I react.
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Just laugh at him.....I did...Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
------ This thread is Archived ------
In response to: Normally I post and when I get a response that I find demeaning to me, I know how to react. Whether its right or wrong I react.
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
"If he doesn't know you,he didn't have that right
to judge you.But,that's the reality of the forums,
people are free to post...even if they don't have
a brain to think with..".
JMO
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sommerauer71: Hi Vinny.
I would ignore it. He has posted some things about me. Obviously somebody that knows us.
That is of course, assuming it is a 'he'
Ignore it.
I would ignore it. He has posted some things about me. Obviously somebody that knows us.
That is of course, assuming it is a 'he'
Ignore it.
Hi Sommer.
Yeah I responded in his thread in a concillitory manner but something told me I should have tried to rip him/her a new one, which Im not very good at......
I do think your right and its someone ''who thinks they know us''
------ This thread is Archived ------
vinny1967: Normally I post and when I get a response that I find demeaning to me, I know how to react. Whether its right or wrong I react.
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?
Hi Vinny ,
I saw what he said to you, was going right in there but thought that you didn't need help in that situation at all. You are more than capable of standing up for yourself.
I was going to tell Dub that you do not pretend anything .
You are who you are on here and in FL too.
I would ignore him , maybe he has been
so I would let it go. He doesn't know you , a lot of us have had the pleasure of meeting you IRL ,so I would just let him ramble on.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Polarbutterfly: "If he doesn't know you,he didn't have that right
to judge you.But,that's the reality of the forums,
people are free to post...even if they don't have
a brain to think with..".
JMO
to judge you.But,that's the reality of the forums,
people are free to post...even if they don't have
a brain to think with..".
JMO
Hi PB.........
I understand the free to post opinions and I repect that.......honest I really do. I also think people form opinions of others here from reading threads, which is fine too.
But would you report it or ignore it or enter into an argument with someone like this.......
------ This thread is Archived ------
kathy12345: Just laugh at him.....I did...
Always the Lady.......
Maybe Im a bit tired tonight Kathy.........
------ This thread is Archived ------
vinny1967: Hi PB.........
I understand the free to post opinions and I repect that.......honest I really do. I also think people form opinions of others here from reading threads, which is fine too.
But would you report it or ignore it or enter into an argument with someone like this.......
I understand the free to post opinions and I repect that.......honest I really do. I also think people form opinions of others here from reading threads, which is fine too.
But would you report it or ignore it or enter into an argument with someone like this.......
"Well,for me,I'd ignore it.Why waste
your energy on someone who doesn't
KNOW you just to get his kicks off....?!".
------ This thread is Archived ------
I think he may have a crush on you vinny.... 
------ This thread is Archived ------
jessejess47: I think he may have a crush on you vinny....
but really just ignore it we all know who you are 
------ This thread is Archived ------
I don't know the man but if he really got hurt, everyone reacts differently to situations. I am not by no means justifying some of his responses but when you're heart overrules you're mind it becomes very difficult as we probably experienced in our life at one point or another. It "SUCKS" to say the least. I believe that anger should be directed at that person who did it. One bad apple should not spoil the whole bunch.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Vinny I would,nt lose sleep over it ......
could have been worse your friends here luv ya just the way you are ,,
you cant please everyone ... I learned that
just keep beening your charming self
.....cat
could have been worse your friends here luv ya just the way you are ,, you cant please everyone ... I learned that just keep beening your charming self .....cat------ This thread is Archived ------
drbombay: I don't know the man but if he really got hurt, everyone reacts differently to situations. I am not by no means justifying some of his responses but when you're heart overrules you're mind it becomes very difficult as we probably experienced in our life at one point or another. It "SUCKS" to say the least. I believe that anger should be directed at that person who did it. One bad apple should not spoil the whole bunch.
Similar but a longer version of what I was trying to say over in the other thread.
The poster there did not want my thoughts... Said it would drag onto long and that I post to be popular.
I love it when people tell me how I am. That have never even met me. Quite a skill one thinks.
Hello Doc!
------ This thread is Archived ------
hiya vinny...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
------ This thread is Archived ------
sharina: hiya vinny...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
------ This thread is Archived ------
livinglarge: Hi Vinny ,
I saw what he said to you, was going right in there but thought that you didn't need help in that situation at all. You are more than capable of standing up for yourself.
I was going to tell Dub that you do not pretend anything .
You are who you are on here and in FL too.
I would ignore him , maybe he has been so I would let it go. He doesn't know you , a lot of us have had the pleasure
of meeting you IRL ,so I would just let him ramble on.
I saw what he said to you, was going right in there but thought that you didn't need help in that situation at all. You are more than capable of standing up for yourself.
I was going to tell Dub that you do not pretend anything .
You are who you are on here and in FL too.
I would ignore him , maybe he has been so I would let it go. He doesn't know you , a lot of us have had the pleasure
of meeting you IRL ,so I would just let him ramble on.
Well in fairness LL you know me, and you know something like that would not hurt me in any way.
I just got thinking that maybe Im wrong in replyin the way I do.
In fact the only time I feel here is when one of my buddies gets attacked.........
Hope your well and had a good weekend........
------ This thread is Archived ------
sharina: hiya vinny...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
you know i dont normally comment on the intl forums..i usually get ignored....
anyhow....
i havnt a clue who he/she is..as you and i know it could be anyone...
he doesn't know you ..his opinion is unjustified..
ignore him hes just looking to stir it up...
Hi Sharina
I agree with you completely
I won't go on about me coz this is about someone being rude to Vin. What I usualy do is stand my ground . But some aren't worth
me getting my knickers in a twist over.
------ This thread is Archived ------
vinny1967: Well in fairness LL you know me, and you know something like that would not hurt me in any way.
I just got thinking that maybe Im wrong in replyin the way I do.
In fact the only time I feel here is when one of my buddies gets attacked.........
Hope your well and had a good weekend........
I just got thinking that maybe Im wrong in replyin the way I do.
In fact the only time I feel here is when one of my buddies gets attacked.........
Hope your well and had a good weekend........
I know that Vin. You are one in a million and I have to say that
you are class personified , don't allow a clipe like him to
get you down
The only problem I have with you is that I eat a bigger dinner
than you
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
Trump Elementary
Democrats destroyed America
The Real Stormy Story
s*xual skills
Kultur-multur
I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
who shaped your life?
biggest lie
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
Why is this shameful?
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
1,657 Views
66 Comments
in Advice
Created: May 2009
Last Viewed: 14 hrs ago
Last Commented: May 2009
0 Likes
Unfortunately tonight I actually am stumped.
I posted in a Thread tonight in what I thought was a nice way and I received this response
I am a dub so if that
makes a difference please tell me do you ever cheat or because you seem to be a nice guy as everyone thinks you don't lead women on Vinny I don't think you are man you pretend to be. No offence just my op.
What would you do ?
I would just like to clarify that I dont know this person, nor have I seen him and am unsure how they would have formed an opinion in this way, but there you go.
Was he doing it just to be patronising to make him look good ?