Friends ( Archived) (66)

May 10, 2009 9:49 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?
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May 10, 2009 9:51 PM CST Friends
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?
wave not yet
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May 10, 2009 9:53 PM CST Friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Hi Greg -- how are you tonite?

I've never experienced this -- guess you have to make a decision - would revealing your true feelings damage the friendship if they aren't returned? dunno Only thing I know is ... I have no advice for you...sorry pal, but here's a hug from a new friend (I hope) hug
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May 10, 2009 9:56 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
Charli15695: Hi Greg -- how are you tonite?

I've never experienced this -- guess you have to make a decision - would revealing your true feelings damage the friendship if they aren't returned? Only thing I know is ... I have no advice for you...sorry pal, but here's a hug from a new friend (I hope)


Thanks Charli,

It started about three years ago. We have both expressed those feelings, but we work at the same place.

Nice to see Jesse on line
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May 10, 2009 9:57 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
Where is Lela?
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May 10, 2009 9:58 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
And Dru!
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May 10, 2009 9:59 PM CST Friends
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?


Nope...

You should communicate this to her. What's stopping you?
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May 10, 2009 9:59 PM CST Friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
LOL....I know...we had our own little group last nite -- it was nice! and don't forget Stan .... group hug
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May 10, 2009 10:00 PM CST Friends
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Where is Lela?
Hello Here I am.wave hug

Hey that sounds really cool. That is what I want to find a real friendship and then fall in love with him. I met my exhusband thru work but we worked different departments. Some day I will find my best friend and fall in love too.yay
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May 10, 2009 10:00 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
Charli15695: Hi Greg -- how are you tonite?

I've never experienced this -- guess you have to make a decision - would revealing your true feelings damage the friendship if they aren't returned? Only thing I know is ... I have no advice for you...sorry pal, but here's a hug from a new friend (I hope)


Ahh, the hugs, they are the things that make me keep going on. So much comes from an innocent hug and kiss!
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May 10, 2009 10:00 PM CST Friends
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?




Oh!! my , my.... I'm in love to.... I want this man, but he live to far from me???.....heart beating
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May 10, 2009 10:02 PM CST Friends
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
No advice for you but I can give you a welcoming hug!


hug
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May 10, 2009 10:02 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
StressFree: Nope...

You should communicate this to her. What's stopping you?


Hi S,

Well, if she comes back to work, I would be he back up supervisor. Not recommended where I work.
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May 10, 2009 10:03 PM CST Friends
Charli15695
Charli15695Charli15695Dallas, Texas USA22 Threads 1,223 Posts
Well, one thing I can tell you from a woman's pt of view - I'd rather be in a romantic relationship with someone who is also a good friend - and all that comes with it - unconditional and non-judgemental friends - thru good times and bad times - that's a good mate. handshake
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May 10, 2009 10:05 PM CST Friends
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?




Talk to her....conversing
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May 10, 2009 10:06 PM CST Friends
Dmire
DmireDmirekingston, Kingston Jamaica20 Threads 2 Polls 508 Posts
In response to: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?


thumbs up thumbs up
Man, may your dreams come true

cheers
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May 10, 2009 10:07 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
prairiewoman: No advice for you but I can give you a welcoming hug!


See, it was this kind of thing that I was trying to get to the other night. I feel thankful every time I read a note from you lovely ladies, saying you would just like to give a hug. In my mind and experience, that is where it all starts.
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May 10, 2009 10:10 PM CST Friends
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
I have a male friend-the best friend I have ever had. There is nothing I can't tell him and vice versa. We did everything together but drew the line at dating for fear we would lose the most precious thing to us-friendship. I like him like a brother but I heard from friends he liked me for more and wanted to ask me out but the friendship thing was getting in the way. I met someone and was with them for 16 mo during which time this friend and I chatted once in a blue moon. The only way I could communicate with him was through email. My bf would not permit me to continue the way I had in the past.(he was jealous and controlling) Well..my friend wrote how lonely he was (so was I actually) and man did I feel terrible. Once I truly saw what my bf was like, I broke it off and went back to the life I had before him. My best friend calls and we do things but he is keeping his distance for fear I might find someone else...so....I have no advice to offer but perhaps you need to tell how you really feel. My guess is that she knows....good luck....teddybear
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May 10, 2009 10:10 PM CST Friends
SeriouslyFun
SeriouslyFunSeriouslyFunLondon, Ontario Canada23 Threads 1 Polls 247 Posts
mylifewithu: Hello Here I am.

Hey that sounds really cool. That is what I want to find a real friendship and then fall in love with him. I met my exhusband thru work but we worked different departments. Some day I will find my best friend and fall in love too.


Hi Lela,

I is always so nice to see you here, with you beautiful smile!
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May 10, 2009 10:11 PM CST Friends
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
SeriouslyFun: Hi All,

I am lucky as I have at least a half a dozen true friends (male and female). The problem is that I have fallen in love with one of them (female). However, she is one of the closest people in my life, a go to friend at 3am, and one that never judges, and I never judge her. Man I wish I had her in my arms right now.

Do any of you have similar experiences?
I do want to say congratulations and hopefully some day things might work out for you both. Maybe she will take another job or something so you two can be together. We never know what the future holds. So if you love her then some how it will all come together, if she also loves you.wine wink
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