I had a party this weekend, and I was talking to a buddy of mine. We were talking about love, he said he could honestly tell me he has never expierence real love, and that he didn't want to , because everyone that falls in love ends up hurt. He could even point out a handfull of people in the room, that say they were in love, and then ended up bitter after they got hurt. But I told him it is impossible for anyone to have this love thing figured out(somebody tell me you’ve got love figured out,lol) Love is just dam messy, for everyone. But I guess it’s always been that way, and the way it is always going to be. Wanting to be loved, to find somebody that makes your heart ache in a good way.. to feel understood. So.. if your one of those people who has never expiernced love, or never want that feeling to exsist for them; well... you missed it... and I feel sorry for you. 'Cause as far as I can tell, that’s what it’s all about. And that’s what I know it should be about."
I've had that feeling in my life, and I agree that I want to find it again. It's a beautiful feeling. Can I live without it? Yes. But life is richer and fuller when you do find it.
"We all need love in our lives,whether it be from family,from friends.But,having someone love you for you and only you is worth the effort in finding love.Love is a splendid thing."
I've had that feeling & it's great. Sure, we all get hurt. That's just part of life. But as I've said several times, we control our own moods. There is a time to mourn. But then you need to pick yourself back up & learn from the experience. Everything happens for a reason. And we learn from experience, right?
druidess6308: I've had that feeling in my life, and I agree that I want to find it again. It's a beautiful feeling. Can I live without it? Yes. But life is richer and fuller when you do find it.
Good post.
Yes I can live without love.... but even though it hurts and it is messy, life with love is so much more interesting. What would life be without taking risks?
SORRY TO SAY YOUR BUDDY IS WRONG AND THEIR IS SUCH A FEELING FOR BEING IN LOVE AND WE ALL WILL FIND IT SOONER OR LATER.HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF. TAKE CARE.
"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." A well used line I know but very accurate. Your friend just sounds afraid of the hurt. Can't live life in fear...it's too short.
lrrh77: "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." A well used line I know but very accurate. Your friend just sounds afraid of the hurt. Can't live life in fear...it's too short.
How I hate that saying, sorry but it just doesnt make sense to me. How can feeling the pain of losing love be better than not having felt it?
I know people say it is worth it, but personally, for me, its not. Why put yourself in a position to feel that hurt? To me nothing is worth that.
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