Can't live without love ( Archived) (11)

May 11, 2009 3:56 PM CST Can't live without love
jersey64418
jersey64418jersey64418pennsauken, New Jersey USA8 Threads 16 Posts
I had a party this weekend, and I was talking to a buddy of mine. We were talking about love, he said he could honestly tell me he has never expierence real love, and that he didn't want to , because everyone that falls in love ends up hurt. He could even point out a handfull of people in the room, that say they were in love, and then ended up bitter after they got hurt. But I told him it is impossible for anyone to have this love thing figured out(somebody tell me you’ve got love figured out,lol) Love is just dam messy, for everyone. But I guess it’s always been that way, and the way it is always going to be. Wanting to be loved, to find somebody that makes your heart ache in a good way.. to feel understood. So.. if your one of those people who has never expiernced love, or never want that feeling to exsist for them; well... you missed it... and I feel sorry for you. 'Cause as far as I can tell, that’s what it’s all about. And that’s what I know it should be about."
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May 11, 2009 3:59 PM CST Can't live without love
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I've had that feeling in my life, and I agree that I want to find it again. It's a beautiful feeling. Can I live without it? Yes. But life is richer and fuller when you do find it.

Good post. wine
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May 11, 2009 4:00 PM CST Can't live without love
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
I have never had that feeling, and I can not wait to have it.
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May 11, 2009 4:07 PM CST Can't live without love
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"We all need love in our lives,whether it be from
family,from friends.But,having someone love you
for you and only you is worth the effort in
finding love.Love is a splendid thing."

heart wings
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May 11, 2009 4:10 PM CST Can't live without love
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
I've had that feeling & it's great. Sure, we all get hurt. That's just part of life. But as I've said several times, we control our own moods. There is a time to mourn. But then you need to pick yourself back up & learn from the experience. Everything happens for a reason. And we learn from experience, right?

I wouldn't have missed that feeling for anything!
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May 11, 2009 4:20 PM CST Can't live without love
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
druidess6308: I've had that feeling in my life, and I agree that I want to find it again. It's a beautiful feeling. Can I live without it? Yes. But life is richer and fuller when you do find it.

Good post.


Yes I can live without love.... but even though it hurts and it is messy, life with love is so much more interesting. What would life be without taking risks?

wine
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May 24, 2009 10:22 PM CST Can't live without love
mello5
mello5mello5longisland ny, New York USA1 Threads 28 Posts
SORRY TO SAY YOUR BUDDY IS WRONG AND THEIR IS SUCH A FEELING FOR BEING IN LOVE AND WE ALL WILL FIND IT SOONER OR LATER.HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF. TAKE CARE.laugh
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May 24, 2009 10:39 PM CST Can't live without love
lrrh77
lrrh77lrrh77college station, Texas USA5 Threads 1,451 Posts
"Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." A well used line I know but very accurate. Your friend just sounds afraid of the hurt. Can't live life in fear...it's too short.
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May 25, 2009 5:34 AM CST Can't live without love
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
its true we cant live without love, lonely,same as empty box ,no life,need someone to be our inspiration,life is hard with out that...sigh
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May 25, 2009 7:25 AM CST Can't live without love
Dusty45
Dusty45Dusty45Louisville, Kentucky USA54 Threads 2,642 Posts
joy There's a spiritual flavor to Love. Smile, give it away. It expands.
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May 25, 2009 7:31 AM CST Can't live without love
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
lrrh77: "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." A well used line I know but very accurate. Your friend just sounds afraid of the hurt. Can't live life in fear...it's too short.



How I hate that saying, sorry but it just doesnt make sense to me. How can feeling the pain of losing love be better than not having felt it?

I know people say it is worth it, but personally, for me, its not.
Why put yourself in a position to feel that hurt? To me nothing is worth that.
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