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May 13, 2009 4:12 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
I was talking to a close friend the other day and also reading another thread this morning on Marrage. And I was wondering , how many would marry again? And if you have never been married,would you? I used to say up till maybe 10 years ago that I would never marry agian( I have been married only once 25 years ago)But I have changed my thinking, if the right girl came along and wished to be married I think I would. But it is not something I would require. Just wondering. Oh and sarcastic remarks are welcome and expected as well are real ones.
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May 13, 2009 4:14 AM CST Marrage
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Hi jesse wave No i wouldn't if it doesn't work out to stressful to go thro a divorce and damn expensive
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May 13, 2009 4:28 AM CST Marrage
readyornot0
readyornot0readyornot0stratford- on -slaney, Wicklow Ireland49 Threads 3 Polls 1,242 Posts
morgan5: Hi jesse No i wouldn't if it doesn't work out to stressful to go thro a divorce and damn expensive
me too morgan in any case I think I have gone right off wedding cake
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May 13, 2009 4:34 AM CST Marrage
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
Morning All............wave

I have thought about this Jesse and while Marriage is not a priority for me........way down the list actually, I would get married if my partner realy wanted to.

cheers
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May 13, 2009 4:34 AM CST Marrage
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
readyornot0: me too morgan in any case I think I have gone right off wedding cake
rolling on the floor laughing we'll probably be viewed as being old and cynical wine
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May 13, 2009 4:41 AM CST Marrage
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Can I join the "old and cynical" club pls.

I am with Vinny on this, marriage is not neccessary for me again
but if it meant the world to a new partner then I would go down the isle again, but my arms would be in a plaster cast I reckon after all that twisting laugh
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May 13, 2009 4:41 AM CST Marrage
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I'd have to ask,

whats in it for me. dunno



grin
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May 13, 2009 4:42 AM CST Marrage
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
bodleing: I'd have to ask,

whats in it for me.


Not as much as would be IN IT for her.........laugh

wave
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May 13, 2009 4:44 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
morgan5: Hi jesse No i wouldn't if it doesn't work out to stressful to go thro a divorce and damn expensive
Hi morgan ,you are pretty as ever..grin So to you marrage is smiply to expensive and stressful, hmmm I would think that there is no limit on love ,but you maybe right.
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May 13, 2009 4:45 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
vinny1967: Morning All............

I have thought about this Jesse and while Marriage is not a priority for me........way down the list actually, I would get married if my partner realy wanted to.
I feel this way as well Vinny...wave
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May 13, 2009 4:46 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
RDM59: Can I join the "old and cynical" club pls.

I am with Vinny on this, marriage is not neccessary for me again
but if it meant the world to a new partner then I would go down the isle again, but my arms would be in a plaster cast I reckon after all that twisting
that makes three then...wave
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May 13, 2009 4:47 AM CST Marrage
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
I've never been married i did ask one of my ex's 3 times i had always seen it as a piece of paper but to others they see it as total commitment so i would never say never i wouldn't just marry someone to let them have a British passport thoughbanana
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May 13, 2009 4:48 AM CST Marrage
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
jessejess47: that makes three then...


Does that make me the number 4 then?yay

The things we do for love or to keep the peacepeace
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May 13, 2009 4:49 AM CST Marrage
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
vinny1967: Not as much as would be IN IT for her.........


I'll have to ask next time I bump into her.


wave
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May 13, 2009 4:53 AM CST Marrage
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 951 Posts
bodleing: I'll have to ask next time I bump into her.


ill have to find her frist to ask her,,,, but after a few nights with her... i think, can i wake up to that in the morning for the next 200 years, nah!!! past!!! next...cheering banana
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May 13, 2009 5:00 AM CST Marrage
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I think marriage as an institution has changed
over the years.
When I was young there was quite a stigma attached
to divorce. People just didnt split up or divorce,
nor did they live together 'in sin.'
These days its become totally acceptable to divorce
and marriage to me represents a financial arrangement
and little more.
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May 13, 2009 5:02 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
geminiman61: Does that make me the number 4 then?

The things we do for love or to keep the peace
yes it does , and "never say never" is one of my favorite sayings as well
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May 13, 2009 5:04 AM CST Marrage
geminiman61
geminiman61geminiman61nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK3 Threads 759 Posts
bodleing: I think marriage as an institution has changed
over the years.
When I was young there was quite a stigma attached
to divorce. People just didnt split up or divorce,
nor did they live together 'in sin.'
These days its become totally acceptable to divorce
and marriage to me represents a financial arrangement
and little more.


Some people still see it as a death till we part thing but they are few and far between at one time of day women were seen as dirty or used if they had a child out of wedlock but that was then and this is now never say never unless it's with the ex if it didn't work the first time it hardly ever works the 2nd 3rd or 4th time no matter how much you want it toocheers
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May 13, 2009 5:06 AM CST Marrage
jessejess47
jessejess47jessejess47ogdensburg, New York USA35 Threads 1 Polls 3,886 Posts
bodleing: I think marriage as an institution has changed
over the years.
When I was young there was quite a stigma attached
to divorce. People just didnt split up or divorce,
nor did they live together 'in sin.'
These days its become totally acceptable to divorce
and marriage to me represents a financial arrangement
and little more.
interesting, I can see how it would maybe a financial arrangement as in insurance, but it can also be the biggest commentment to someone and should never be taken lightly,IMO
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May 13, 2009 5:07 AM CST Marrage
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
I definately want to get married again. I wouldn't have said that 5 years ago but like you Jesse Ive chnged my mind.

I knew I was doing the wrong thing when I was walking down the isle the first time but at 19 I was too young and scared to stop it. 19 years later I got divorced lol

So next time I want to be absolutely 100% sure lol


grin
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