its not just women that get hurt! ( Archived) (14)

its not just women that get hurt. i lost my kids my wife because she didnt want to remain faithful.its been a while now and im over it . as hard as i try to talk to people on here all women seem suspicious and i hardly get a reply. let me assure you im a good guy. with a good heart . and us men can hurt just as much as you ladys .i done the crying bit for months and not ashamed of it either. just posted this to see if i got more comments back here then i do in my mailbox! any one wants to mail me and not comment here feel welcome to . im a good listener and a good talker. and would talk to anyone that wants to .maybe some of you will comment why you feel so afraid to awnser theres a lot of scammers and a lot of men after one thing but not me . im after finding my soulmate and dedicating my life to her . so after reading this have a good day all . and lets get some replys or my mail box going lol !

From number1guy to niceguy43. 99% of us have been there. Some breakups, are harder than others. It rips your heart out. The first 6 months is the hardest. But like you said its over with. Its always going to hurt, especially when kids are involved.

Take some advice from someone who's been there. Dont bring it up, right away. The last thing women want to here about, is another lady. Most people are on here because, they had a relationship that ended also. Of course, once you meet them it will come up. They want to feel special. Not a re bounder! All the best to you niceguy43. And I hope you find someone who makes you happy! Joe

being hurt from our marriage life is a kind of wounds thats hard to erase until we didnt found the right one or someone can heal to our bleeding heart,but just think always there is hope for tomorrow and dont ever give up or close your eyes....hope u found her one day and be happy forever..

Hello and welcome to CS

You do sound like a nice guy.

"not just women that get hurt"? Of course not. Who whould argue that statement.

It doesn't change ppl's experience though. Everyone proceeds at their own pace when getting into a new relationship.

Also, lack of responses does not mean distrust. Different ppl have different reasons to reply or not to a specific email. Some check your profile and find themselves simply not interested for many reasons including (possibly) a marital status. It's normal.

Wish you the best of luck to find "the one".

Thank you Laura25.. well i thought about the name but it seem to fit. Besides how much more positive can one be then get up and dust yourself off from that and look forward to a new life for my sons and I..

I wish the best of luck to you to get yours and your son's lives back on track.

It's just that this handle will always remind you - subcontiously.

I'm sorry that it happened to you, but what else can you do but move on.Right? By the way, to Username: Number1guy-you are hot!!