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May 20, 2009 4:15 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!
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May 20, 2009 4:17 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Because men give them reason.....dunno confused
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May 20, 2009 4:18 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
agreed but i been hurt just as bad not only women that get hurt or shed a tear took me a very long time to get over it and try again
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May 20, 2009 4:19 PM CST why are women so distrusting
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
niceguy43: why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!


Well frankly , iv been here some 4-5 months

and had 3 messeges

1- CS welcome

2- CS warning

3- some dude who liket my smile


grin
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May 20, 2009 4:20 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
can take longer then that just wish they give u time of day
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May 20, 2009 4:24 PM CST why are women so distrusting
brownieeyes83
brownieeyes83brownieeyes83Quincy, Illinois USA1 Posts
If they are into you, they will reply... if they are not that into you, they wont.. has nothing to do with fake or nice you seem.
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May 20, 2009 4:25 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
niceguy43: agreed but i been hurt just as bad not only women that get hurt or shed a tear took me a very long time to get over it and try again



I've been in the same boat before as well. No it's never easy to get over when you get hurt. But the important thing is that you're over it and willing to try again. You still have hope or you wouldn't be here. Best of luck to you in your search! Be patient. When the timing is right it will happen again for you.

tip hat
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May 20, 2009 4:25 PM CST why are women so distrusting
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

...that wasn't me!...lol


BOBANBOBAN: Well frankly , iv been here some 4-5 months

and had 3 messeges

1- CS welcome

2- CS warning

3- some dude who liket my smile
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May 20, 2009 4:26 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
yes i understand that but have had chats where some think you fake after a minutes talk but also built a great friendship with a female here who took the time of day to learn me even though it only be to entertain each other with laughter on the site at night .wish others took long enough to learn the person inside
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May 20, 2009 4:26 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Lagoona22: ...that wasn't me!...lol






rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 20, 2009 4:28 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
niceguy43: yes i understand that but have had chats where some think you fake after a minutes talk but also built a great friendship with a female here who took the time of day to learn me even though it only be to entertain each other with laughter on the site at night .wish others took long enough to learn the person inside



You just haven't met the right one yet. By the way, if you will hit the quote button on the person you are responding to it helps.
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May 20, 2009 4:30 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
yes it would me 2 but we all not like that and i could say the same bout some i talked to but im still gonna try and find that special lady for friendship or romance and after all we on a pac not like you gonna get hurt to much by talking and finding the time of day to learn about one another .
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May 20, 2009 4:33 PM CST why are women so distrusting
JaniceJoplin
JaniceJoplinJaniceJoplinLondon, Greater London, England UK4 Threads 83 Posts
oh yes, i forgot, his father is indian and his mother is from malaysia AND java in indonesia...interesting geographical diversity...
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May 20, 2009 4:34 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43: why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!
Sometimes we get lots of flowers and emails it is hard to respond to all of them. I just hope they continue to communicate. Some ask questions and some just say Hi. Those who require a response sometimes get it. I have chatted with lots of chatters. Some have found the ONE, so just keep on, keeping on. Best wishes to you in your search.
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May 20, 2009 4:34 PM CST why are women so distrusting
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
posting on the forums is a good way to makw friends, and for people to get to know you hug wine
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May 20, 2009 4:35 PM CST why are women so distrusting
niceguy43
niceguy43niceguy43isle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK4 Threads 34 Posts
well yours is the sweetest awnser so far that gives me a bit of faith thankyou.x
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May 20, 2009 4:36 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
morgan5: posting on the forums is a good way to makw friends, and for people to get to know you



Indeed it is!heart wings
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May 20, 2009 4:38 PM CST why are women so distrusting
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
niceguy43: well yours is the sweetest awnser so far that gives me a bit of faith thankyou.x
can i suggest you click on the quote button on the post you are responding and it will include it, then we know who you are answering wine ( bottom right hand corner)
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May 20, 2009 4:38 PM CST why are women so distrusting
starattax
starattaxstarattaxcarlow, Carlow Ireland6 Threads 181 Posts
well i cant speak for all women but its hard to trust men when time and time again when you trust the man in your life and your constantly let down. the more you do for them the worse your treated. its gets very tiring and you think why go through all the heartache again.
I do belive there are good men out there but its trying to find them is the hard part and you get wore down searching and run out of energy and think why bother.sad flower
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May 20, 2009 4:41 PM CST why are women so distrusting
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
starattax: well i cant speak for all women but its hard to trust men when time and time again when you trust the man in your life and your constantly let down. the more you do for them the worse your treated. its gets very tiring and you think why go through all the heartache again.
I do belive there are good men out there but its trying to find them is the hard part and you get wore down searching and run out of energy and think why bother.



That's exactly what I used to think too. And just as I quit looking, I found the ONE. gift
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