niceguy43OPisle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK34 posts
why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
niceguy43: why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!
niceguy43: agreed but i been hurt just as bad not only women that get hurt or shed a tear took me a very long time to get over it and try again
I've been in the same boat before as well. No it's never easy to get over when you get hurt. But the important thing is that you're over it and willing to try again. You still have hope or you wouldn't be here. Best of luck to you in your search! Be patient. When the timing is right it will happen again for you.
niceguy43OPisle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK34 posts
yes i understand that but have had chats where some think you fake after a minutes talk but also built a great friendship with a female here who took the time of day to learn me even though it only be to entertain each other with laughter on the site at night .wish others took long enough to learn the person inside
niceguy43: yes i understand that but have had chats where some think you fake after a minutes talk but also built a great friendship with a female here who took the time of day to learn me even though it only be to entertain each other with laughter on the site at night .wish others took long enough to learn the person inside
You just haven't met the right one yet. By the way, if you will hit the quote button on the person you are responding to it helps.
niceguy43OPisle of wight, Isle of Wight, England UK34 posts
yes it would me 2 but we all not like that and i could say the same bout some i talked to but im still gonna try and find that special lady for friendship or romance and after all we on a pac not like you gonna get hurt to much by talking and finding the time of day to learn about one another .
niceguy43: why do the niceguys get no replys i know there are a lot of fake men out there that pretend there nice . i really am and its frustrating to the good guys like me that people think were fake. at least one lady has had the decency to reply and we have hours chatting and laughing shame theres not more of you out there to try and find out. what is it about decent guys that you feel you dont want to respond. awnsers on a post card please!
Sometimes we get lots of flowers and emails it is hard to respond to all of them. I just hope they continue to communicate. Some ask questions and some just say Hi. Those who require a response sometimes get it. I have chatted with lots of chatters. Some have found the ONE, so just keep on, keeping on. Best wishes to you in your search.
niceguy43: well yours is the sweetest awnser so far that gives me a bit of faith thankyou.x
can i suggest you click on the quote button on the post you are responding and it will include it, then we know who you are answering ( bottom right hand corner)
well i cant speak for all women but its hard to trust men when time and time again when you trust the man in your life and your constantly let down. the more you do for them the worse your treated. its gets very tiring and you think why go through all the heartache again. I do belive there are good men out there but its trying to find them is the hard part and you get wore down searching and run out of energy and think why bother.
starattax: well i cant speak for all women but its hard to trust men when time and time again when you trust the man in your life and your constantly let down. the more you do for them the worse your treated. its gets very tiring and you think why go through all the heartache again. I do belive there are good men out there but its trying to find them is the hard part and you get wore down searching and run out of energy and think why bother.
That's exactly what I used to think too. And just as I quit looking, I found the ONE.
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