They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
approach with caution sound kinda odd after 1 week, and a prenup, first i don't believe in them unless i have millions but that would be for her protection, don't sound like this is the case
kitty01: They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
Don't mean spoil things kitty but, a week is just not long enough for them to know each other, and the kids they need to get to know him and him them.
I really would urge caution, i think it's way to soon
morgan5: Don't mean spoil things kitty but, a week is just not long enough for them to know each other, and the kids they need to get to know him and him them.
I really would urge caution, i think it's way to soon
jmo
ABSOLUTELY, This is not NEAR ENOUGH TIME....... Sound like he just wants someone to pay his bills and a little on the side,,,,, AND SINGING PRENUMPT,,,,,, NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, ONE WEEK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? To Scary........ It take Months and years to know someone...........This sounds like a SCAM FROM H3LL......
She told him yesterday that she wants to go to school and take a course that is 6 months long. She wants to wait until after she is finished before moving in, he is the one who wants it now.
The prenup is because he had to fight his ex to keep the house and does not want to lose it. He lives in a small town and she does not drive so she also wants to get her license first as there is no buses there.
She sounds more sound than I would have been as I meet and married my first husband within 3 months.We were living together after a couple of weeks.
kitty01: My daughter is dating a great guy and he wants us all to move in with him. How long should she wait before she takes the chance and move in with him?
kitty01: She told him yesterday that she wants to go to school and take a course that is 6 months long. She wants to wait until after she is finished before moving in, he is the one who wants it now.
The prenup is because he had to fight his ex to keep the house and does not want to lose it. He lives in a small town and she does not drive so she also wants to get her license first as there is no buses there.
She sounds more sound than I would have been as I meet and married my first husband within 3 months.We were living together after a couple of weeks.
It is only my opinion, but she should wait the 6 months....... And I BET MONEY he is nowhere to be found in 6 months....... Im not a know it all, I am not a spring chicken either
kitty01: I am the impulsive one, always want to hurry things. I thought it was so nice of him to say I could move in too as he has alot of space. I must be getting bored to even try and convience her.
i can be like that too and i know how much you want to se your daughter happy and settled but i do think she is doing the right thing
kitty01: They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
sorry for previous post, didn't read all the post way down. now i get the idean!
A week is way too short to take that decision (just my openion). it all sounds rosy now, but give it sometime before making any impulsive decisions.
u have had different openions/advise from different people, but at the end the decision is yours, do what feels right.
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