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May 21, 2009 9:32 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
My daughter is dating a great guy and he wants us all to move in with him. How long should she wait before she takes the chance and move in with him?
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May 21, 2009 9:34 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
wow All of you? thats a big thing Kitty, what would you be giving up to move in? wave hug
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May 21, 2009 9:35 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
keep your own place in reserve just in case you didn't say how long they been dating
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May 21, 2009 9:38 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
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May 21, 2009 9:42 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
approach with caution sound kinda odd after 1 week, and a prenup, first i don't believe in them unless i have millions but that would be for her protection, don't sound like this is the case
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May 21, 2009 9:52 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kitty01: They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.
Don't mean spoil things kitty but, a week is just not long enough for them to know each other, and the kids they need to get to know him and him them.

I really would urge caution, i think it's way to soon

jmo teddybear hug bouquet
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May 21, 2009 10:04 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5: Don't mean spoil things kitty but, a week is just not long enough for them to know each other, and the kids they need to get to know him and him them.

I really would urge caution, i think it's way to soon

jmo



ABSOLUTELY, This is not NEAR ENOUGH TIME....... Sound like he just wants someone to pay his bills and a little on the side,,,,, AND SINGING PRENUMPT,,,,,, NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, ONE WEEK??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? To Scary........ It take Months and years to know someone...........This sounds like a SCAM FROM H3LL......




THIS IS A NOTTA, NOTTA GOOD IDEAteddybear teddybear
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May 21, 2009 10:06 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
Tater
TaterTaterspringfield, Illinois USA45 Threads 3 Polls 3,326 Posts
I can't anwser that...?????dunno I don't now how anyone can except for those two...sorry..dunno
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May 21, 2009 10:11 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
She told him yesterday that she wants to go to school and take a course that is 6 months long. She wants to wait until after she is finished before moving in, he is the one who wants it now.

The prenup is because he had to fight his ex to keep the house and does not want to lose it. He lives in a small town and she does not drive so she also wants to get her license first as there is no buses there.

She sounds more sound than I would have been as I meet and married my first husband within 3 months.We were living together after a couple of weeks.
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May 21, 2009 10:16 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
kitty01: My daughter is dating a great guy and he wants us all to move in with him. How long should she wait before she takes the chance and move in with him?


how long have they been dating?
u all moving in! confused
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May 21, 2009 10:17 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
kitty01: She told him yesterday that she wants to go to school and take a course that is 6 months long. She wants to wait until after she is finished before moving in, he is the one who wants it now.

The prenup is because he had to fight his ex to keep the house and does not want to lose it. He lives in a small town and she does not drive so she also wants to get her license first as there is no buses there.

She sounds more sound than I would have been as I meet and married my first husband within 3 months.We were living together after a couple of weeks.



It is only my opinion, but she should wait the 6 months....... And I BET MONEY he is nowhere to be found in 6 months....... Im not a know it all, I am not a spring chicken eithersigh scold laugh
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May 21, 2009 10:19 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
whaaat: how long have they been dating?
u all moving in!
wave now come on ! professor keep up! rolling on the floor laughing hug bouquet teddybear
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May 21, 2009 10:25 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: now come on ! keep up!


hi morgan,

nice to see u here again bouquet
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May 21, 2009 10:26 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kitty01: I am the impulsive one, always want to hurry things. I thought it was so nice of him to say I could move in too as he has alot of space. I must be getting bored to even try and convience her.
i can be like that too and i know how much you want to se your daughter happy and settled hug but i do think she is doing the right thing bouquet
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May 21, 2009 10:27 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
whaaat: hi morgan,

nice to see u here again
me i'm like a piece of furniture round here ! NO not the saggy sofa rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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May 21, 2009 10:31 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
kitty01: They have seen each other for a week now every day, and talking on the phone many times a day. He has a 5 bedroom house but wants her to sign a prenuptial before she moves in. She lives in low income housing now with me and her kids and we would have to give it up if we move in as he will pay the mortgage and we will pay the bills. We could not afford to keep this place.


sorry for previous post, didn't read all the post way down. now i get the idean!

A week is way too short to take that decision (just my openion).
it all sounds rosy now, but give it sometime before making any impulsive decisions.

u have had different openions/advise from different people, but at the end the decision is yours, do what feels right. teddybear
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May 21, 2009 10:33 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
morgan5: me i'm like a piece of furniture round here ! NO not the saggy sofa


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

hug u are really missed, when your not online teddybear
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May 21, 2009 10:36 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
whaaat: how long have they been dating?
u all moving in!




laugh sounds u came from dating?rolling on the floor laughing grin
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May 21, 2009 10:46 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
morgan5: me i'm like a piece of furniture round here ! NO not the saggy sofa


I am the saggy sofa .... need repairing.laugh
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May 21, 2009 10:49 AM CST How long Should You Wait Before Moving In
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
kitty01: I am the saggy sofa .... need repairing.
nah start to worry when ya springs have gone uh oh uh oh laugh
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