ONE NIGHT STANDS ( Archived) (63)

May 27, 2009 11:05 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?
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May 27, 2009 11:06 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
tainogirl: What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?


Why are they called 'stands' when you spend most of your time laying down?
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May 27, 2009 11:10 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
ladyfingers: Why are they called 'stands' when you spend most of your time laying down?


laugh I guess because you were standing up first before you asked them to go lie down.
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May 27, 2009 11:17 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
tainogirl: I guess because you were standing up first before you asked them to go lie down.



Who's gonna argue with a stick that size ?

Is that you having to beat guys into submission

to get a date these days T ... hee rolling on the floor laughing
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May 27, 2009 11:35 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
ImInMishawaka
ImInMishawakaImInMishawakaMishawaka, Indiana USA11 Threads 96 Posts
tainogirl: What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?


In the past, I had some. My life changed 19 years ago and stuff like that doesn't happen for me any more.
Quite honestly, what I thought was going to be a one night stand turned into the woman that was my first true love. I saw past what she and I had both done and we eventually married...
Unfortunately, while I made a change for the better, she stayed a partier...
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May 27, 2009 11:43 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
tainogirl: What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?


I would rather not put myself to that position. Yes i've heard stories of people who started with one night stand and ended up getting married.

Its just not for me
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May 27, 2009 11:45 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
ladyfingers: Why are they called 'stands' when you spend most of your time laying down?


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing good one
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May 27, 2009 11:46 AM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
It happens and yes they can go onto meaningful relationshipswine
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May 27, 2009 12:11 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
Do we always know that it's going to be a one-night stand? Conversely, how can we be sure that the first time we sleep with someone will automatically lead to a second, third, or more?

I've had one night stands. I don't set out for a basic hit-and-run, but sometimes it happens. I'm not going to lose sleep over it. (Well, not the next night, anyway!). If I bring a man to my bed, I want him there. It's not a lifestyle by any means and it's not random or casual, but there's never a guarantee of a repeat performance. I have to accept that possibility from the beginning and I have to be ok that the end result may be that we only have one night together. Since I wanted to be with him, I will remember it as a lovely night of pleasure. No sense in berating myself over what other people might think.

It hasn't happened often in my life, but it has happened. And so what?
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May 27, 2009 12:13 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
YewEye
YewEyeYewEyeRacine, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 388 Posts
jlb684: Do we always know that it's going to be a one-night stand? Conversely, how can we be sure that the first time we sleep with someone will automatically lead to a second, third, or more?

I've had one night stands. I don't set out for a basic hit-and-run, but sometimes it happens. I'm not going to lose sleep over it. (Well, not the next night, anyway!). If I bring a man to my bed, I want him there. It's not a lifestyle by any means and it's not random or casual, but there's never a guarantee of a repeat performance. I have to accept that possibility from the beginning and I have to be ok that the end result may be that we only have one night together. Since I wanted to be with him, I will remember it as a lovely night of pleasure. No sense in berating myself over what other people might think.

It hasn't happened often in my life, but it has happened. And so what?
thumbs up wine
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May 27, 2009 12:15 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
"A one night stand on a night stand sounds
like an idea...". devil

tongue
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May 27, 2009 12:18 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
guess they are alright but i myself would prefer a relationship first to much stuff out there now a days not like when i was youngerdunno
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May 27, 2009 12:18 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
catlynn04
catlynn04catlynn04Hartsville, South Carolina USA2 Threads 21 Posts
I don't do one-night stands at all. Never have and I doubt I ever will. It just wouldn't feel right to me. ..in fact, the idea of it feels pretty creepy and cheap, to be honest. I'm not sure I'd be able to respect myself the next morning. Also, I was raised to be pretty traditional, so I would have to have known the person for quite awhile and really care about them.. maybe even be committed to them before I slept with someone.
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May 27, 2009 12:19 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
YewEye
YewEyeYewEyeRacine, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 388 Posts
Polarbutterfly: "A one night stand on a night stand sounds
like an idea...".

Heh. Almost as confusing as a sentence I constructed the other day:
"Am I living in the future tense of a past present?" laugh
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May 27, 2009 12:22 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
YewEye: Heh. Almost as confusing as a sentence I constructed the other day:
"Am I living in the future tense of a past present?"


"Confusing it is..". uh oh

laugh
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May 27, 2009 12:23 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
AcousticBill
AcousticBillAcousticBillBensalem, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 141 Posts
I really don't see anything wrong with one night stands among consenting adults as long as both understand that it is what it is and no one gets hurt.

Yes, I would consider a relationship with a one night stand if I was drawn to that person.
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May 27, 2009 12:25 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
In response to: What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?


At the age i am now i would not consider a one night stand so i dont think ill ever find a serious relationship that way..wave
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May 27, 2009 12:26 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
tainogirl: What do you think about them? Would you ever have one or are you against having them and why? Would you ever consider someone you had a one night stand with for a more serious relationship?


I have 2 night stands....one on either side of my bed.rolling on the floor laughing
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May 27, 2009 12:29 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
YewEye
YewEyeYewEyeRacine, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 388 Posts
wixomwizard: I have 2 night stands....one on either side of my bed.


Afternoon Wix. Is it what lies between those two-one-night-stands that counts??laugh confused
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May 27, 2009 12:32 PM CST ONE NIGHT STANDS
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
YewEye: Afternoon Wix. Is it what lies between those two-one-night-stands that counts??


That covers a big area.wave rolling on the floor laughing
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