lovingheart2OPMadrid, Madrid, Madrid Spain492 posts
Hello everyone...
Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?
Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....
I wouldn't ask for proof as even an online relationship requires an element of trust. But where there is hesitancy, say, for a meeting or if he/she is demanding more than you feel comfortable giving at this point, you can pretty well tell where you think the relationship is going. I say, follow your own instinct but don't make yourself vulnerable.
You can't be too careful about guys you meet on these dating sites,there are guys that will sweet talk you into anything,especially if they know you a single mom and know that you don't too much without your kids. Us single mom have to be extra careful, Believe me ladies I just had an experience of been sweet talked by a guy on this site and got burned bad.
Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?
Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....
Thank you....
Len
It is impossible to tell online who is really sincere, because there are lots of smooth operators around. Trust your instinct at all times.
Hazeleyes36: You can't be too careful about guys you meet on these dating sites,there are guys that will sweet talk you into anything,especially if they know you a single mom and know that you don't too much without your kids. Us single mom have to be extra careful, Believe me ladies I just had an experience of been sweet talked by a guy on this site and got burned bad.
sasseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia3,150 posts
I am in a serious on line relationship at the moment...Apart from all the obvious ones that he tells you about himself his life ..dosnt hold back...
If you can be honest and maybe disagree but the feelings are still there ...
If he is willing to show his love for you to others for instance if your on the forums and he acknowledges to others he is with you.... Thats a major sign of honesty...Also if you do the same
If both parties put on there profiles they are not looking because they have found someone another sign thats its true.
Jun 15, 2009 8:38 PM CST How do you know if the man\woman is serious in an online relationship?
sensualintellectTrent Hills, Ontario Canada35 Posts
sensualintellectTrent Hills, Ontario Canada35 posts
lovingheart2: Hello everyone...
Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?
Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....
Thank you....
Len
You never "Know" as we are not responmsible for others actions.
It may feel right, it might be a great time with incredible interactions on all fronts, so just go with the flow and enjoy.(Marry or don't whatever both desire)
As soon as you bring boundaries of any kind(needing to know) in your mind you are now hoping, meaning there must be some negative thoughts involved.
Since the realization that we cannot control others actions, so they can not hurt me life has been seamless, incredibly joyous and doubt doesn't exsist. Now just to find someone else comfortable enough in their skins to believe the same thing.
lovingheart2OPMadrid, Madrid, Madrid Spain492 posts
I just thought that maybe once the person is showing himself or herself proofs of different things, he or she is being true to you and sincere...Even though in the past, there was some misunderstanding becoz of cheatinng online...or can you call it cheating if it is happening only online?.... ...
Hi Lovingheart, I came across this article a few years ago about cyber relationships and it has some interesting points called "The Psychology of Cyberspace". If you or anyone else is interested in reading it I will provide the url below:
Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?
Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....
Thank you....
Len
I never know if the online relationship is serious or not. Usually time gives me an answer.
You develop a feeling for who is fake, and who is real.
And yes, I like the idea of having a proof of her identity.
I can’t possibly know whether my counterpart is serious or not, whether he means what he says and how much of what he says is true… But it is the same from his point of view, I guess: as he doesn’t know me, he cannot evaluate what is true and what is false in my words.
And you never will know until you’ve met in person and spent some time together…
You just have to take some risks, rely upon your intuition (or the lack of it), and have some luck… as simple as that.
kizzy27: Unless your prepared to meet soon I wouldnt touch it Im sorry but I really ccannot see the point WHEN YOU MEET FOR REAL ITS A LOT DIFFERENT TO ONLINE
I like to be able to wrap my legs I mean arms around the guy I love ! JMO Kizzy
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Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?
Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....
Thank you....
Len