Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
Well, I guess it IS polite BUT do you have enough hours in the day to be sending "thank yous" to everyone?
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
I don't do it, but it's certainly your call. If I received a "thank you for viewing my profile" message, I wouldn't see it as soft or wishy-washy. I would think it was nice and polite, but I don't think any less of the greater majority of people who don't send such messages. As previously stated, do what feels right for you.
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
I've never heard of anyone doing this, and missed that post obviously. My friends here in the forums would be getting a lot of thank yous and so would scammers. Nope, I'm not going to start doing this, but you've got to do what feels right to you. No, it's not "wishy-washy", it would be a nice gesture.
SensualVixenTampa Bay area, Florida USA1,726 posts
Grand jester, but many view profiles because someone started a thread, as you did, because someone liked what someone posted, because someone wants to just see what someone is all about. It does not always mean they are interested. So, possibly you may be wasting your time....... I also view women's profiles, doesn't mean anything...or does it?
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
Yes, I remember reading that thread and MO is that it's a waste of time. I'd think that it's just plain old "weird" and superfluous ... and I'm a stickler when it comes to being polite and respectful when you correspond with someone you don't know.
livinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland5,879 posts
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
I would never thank the people for viewing my profile They are just looking and nothing else . To thank everyone would be a bit presumptuous of me I think .I mean someone could just view my profile out of curiosity or clicked on my profile because of something I have said in the forum . It wouldn't necessarily mean that they thought I was all that or anything. If someone wants an email from me they usualy mail me first JMO.
livinglarge: I would never thank the people for viewing my profile They are just looking and nothing else . To thank everyone would be a bit presumptuous of me I think .I mean someone could just view my profile out of curiosity or clicked on my profile because of something I have said in the forum . It wouldn't necessarily mean that they thought I was all that or anything. If someone wants an email from me they usualy mail me first JMO.
I am going to view your profile right now.....just because I can!!
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
regan101: Hi all Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile . I have started to do this . What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time Have a great day Lloyd
No, not wishy-washy at all, Lloyd. I think its very gallant and certainly well-mannered.
I simply can't do that, I don't have the time (sorry, not being egotistical but I do have a huge amount view my profile but that's not to say they get in touch!).....
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Need some advise here .I was reading another members comments and they sent a thank you mail to all that had viewed their profile .
I have started to do this .
What I would like to know from the ladies is .Does this come across as being wishy washy or to soft or is just being polite and nice.
Thank you in advance for your time
Have a great day
Lloyd