I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him. My questions is...what would you do for love? Would you move to another country? If you did...was it what you expected?
Id do anything for love but ive been taken for a fool too many times. hardet part is when you love someone but they dont love you nemore and they wont let you do anything for their love. and then you cant be bitter coz you cant be mad at someone just because their feelings for you have changed. im the type of guy id do anything if i feel the girl is worth it. rarely things work out good for me though and if they do its never long term. hope things work out for you in scotland.
quaziloko: Id do anything for love but ive been taken for a fool too many times. hardet part is when you love someone but they dont love you nemore and they wont let you do anything for their love. and then you cant be bitter coz you cant be mad at someone just because their feelings for you have changed. im the type of guy id do anything if i feel the girl is worth it. rarely things work out good for me though and if they do its never long term. hope things work out for you in scotland.
Thanx! I have been here for little over a year now, so I have good hope, haha.
Hope you will find someone that loves you back the way you love her, long term! I think a lot of people would do things for love that they never thought they would do.
rodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands3,401 posts
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him. My questions is...what would you do for love? Would you move to another country? If you did...was it what you expected?
I cant move period. we all have to sacrifice freedom for loyalty sometimes.
She's movin here.
She is what I hoped for and that's more then I expected.
BOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia3,464 posts
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him. My questions is...what would you do for love? Would you move to another country? If you did...was it what you expected?
except her love with all my heart(if she s got money..of course)..
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him. My questions is...what would you do for love? Would you move to another country? If you did...was it what you expected?
Can u share ur experience of travel wth us?what do u feel to meet him?
I did and the first couple of years were good but then it didnt work out. In my case it was cultural differences!! Now I'm singing "I would do anything for love but I wouldn't do that!!"
Ladyfair: I did and the first couple of years were good but then it didnt work out. In my case it was cultural differences!! Now I'm singing "I would do anything for love but I wouldn't do that!!"
I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.
We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.
BClady: I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.
We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.
If part of your comfort level is in participating within a group, (such as a CS forum) and he is not interested in that kind of comfort and commitment, I surely would be leary.
petalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland3,101 posts
BClady: I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.
We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.
Hi BC..
As regards your own post, my feeling is mixed. I can understand why your guy doesnt wish to participate in the forums, because when you are in here, all kinds of things happen - flirting, disagreements, confrontation in some cases, and if you are "in negotiations" with someone its difficult not to take these things to heart. So I can understand why he may want to take a step back.
Alternatively, the forums ARE a great place to note people's reactions and consistency, and it IS good fun to flirt with your special guy/gal without others knowing you are in private contact. It is really down to the individuals how obvious they make it..
I personally am currently planning to travel quite a long way to meet someone; but Im lucky, I dont have committments here in Ireland, so I can do that. I appreciate some people cant.
In response to: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him. My questions is...what would you do for love? Would you move to another country? If you did...was it what you expected?
If I was footloose and fancy free I might consider it.
however I am not and won't leave my kids to live in another country.
As regards your own post, my feeling is mixed. I can understand why your guy doesnt wish to participate in the forums, because when you are in here, all kinds of things happen - flirting, disagreements, confrontation in some cases, and if you are "in negotiations" with someone its difficult not to take these things to heart. So I can understand why he may want to take a step back.
Alternatively, the forums ARE a great place to note people's reactions and consistency, and it IS good fun to flirt with your special guy/gal without others knowing you are in private contact. It is really down to the individuals how obvious they make it..
I personally am currently planning to travel quite a long way to meet someone; but Im lucky, I dont have committments here in Ireland, so I can do that. I appreciate some people cant.
That's fantastic!!!
Hope you find what you're looking for and live in happiness.
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My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?