What would you do for love? ( Archived) (22)

Jun 17, 2009 5:28 AM CST What would you do for love?
Babz1979
Babz1979Babz1979Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 14 Posts
I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him.
My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?
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Jun 17, 2009 5:43 AM CST What would you do for love?
quaziloko
quazilokoquazilokoCork, Ireland1 Posts
Id do anything for love but ive been taken for a fool too many times. hardet part is when you love someone but they dont love you nemore and they wont let you do anything for their love. and then you cant be bitter coz you cant be mad at someone just because their feelings for you have changed. im the type of guy id do anything if i feel the girl is worth it. rarely things work out good for me though and if they do its never long term. hope things work out for you in scotland.
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Jun 17, 2009 5:45 AM CST What would you do for love?
Babz1979
Babz1979Babz1979Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 14 Posts
quaziloko: Id do anything for love but ive been taken for a fool too many times. hardet part is when you love someone but they dont love you nemore and they wont let you do anything for their love. and then you cant be bitter coz you cant be mad at someone just because their feelings for you have changed. im the type of guy id do anything if i feel the girl is worth it. rarely things work out good for me though and if they do its never long term. hope things work out for you in scotland.


Thanx! I have been here for little over a year now, so I have good hope, haha.

Hope you will find someone that loves you back the way you love her, long term!
I think a lot of people would do things for love that they never thought they would do.
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Jun 17, 2009 5:48 AM CST What would you do for love?
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him.
My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?
I cant move period.
we all have to sacrifice freedom for loyalty sometimes.

She's movin here.

She is what I hoped for and that's more then I expected.
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Jun 17, 2009 5:48 AM CST What would you do for love?
BOBANBOBAN
BOBANBOBANBOBANBOBANPozarevac City, Central Serbia Serbia8 Threads 3,464 Posts
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him.
My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?


except her love with all my heart(if she s got money..of course)..grin
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Jun 17, 2009 5:48 AM CST What would you do for love?
Babz1979: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him.
My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?
Can u share ur experience of travel wth us?what do u feel to meet him?confused
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Jun 17, 2009 5:55 AM CST What would you do for love?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
rodolpho: I cant move period.
we all have to sacrifice freedom for loyalty sometimes.

She's movin here.

She is what I hoped for and that's more then I expected.


Congratulations Rod thumbs up I didn't know you had landed yer fish. Nice one, all the best of luck to the two of you cheers
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Jun 17, 2009 5:57 AM CST What would you do for love?
rodolpho
rodolphorodolphoamsterdam, North Holland Netherlands30 Threads 3,401 Posts
RDM59: Congratulations Rod I didn't know you had landed yer fish. Nice one, all the best of luck to the two of you
Thanks brothumbs up grin cheers
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Jun 17, 2009 8:45 AM CST What would you do for love?
Ladyfair
LadyfairLadyfairEspoo, Southern Finland Finland4 Posts
I did and the first couple of years were good but then it didnt work out. In my case it was cultural differences!! Now I'm singing "I would do anything for love but I wouldn't do that!!"
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Jun 17, 2009 3:22 PM CST What would you do for love?
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
Ladyfair: I did and the first couple of years were good but then it didnt work out. In my case it was cultural differences!! Now I'm singing "I would do anything for love but I wouldn't do that!!"


I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.

We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.
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Jun 17, 2009 10:37 PM CST What would you do for love?
eastieguy
eastieguyeastieguylondon, Greater London, England UK3 Threads 41 Posts
depends on what it is i will not commit myself unless i really have to
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Jun 17, 2009 10:43 PM CST What would you do for love?
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
BClady: I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.

We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.


If part of your comfort level is in participating within a group, (such as a CS forum) and he is not interested in that kind of comfort and commitment, I surely would be leary.

uh oh
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Jun 17, 2009 11:26 PM CST What would you do for love?
chughtayejee
chughtayejeechughtayejeeburewala, Punjab Pakistan59 Threads 51 Polls 95 Posts
when one gets in ture love, everything is based on emotions..... i mean no thinking before doing anything. so expectations are set before...........
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Jun 18, 2009 1:20 AM CST What would you do for love?
pebblesbamban
pebblesbambanpebblesbambanPennsylvania, USA3 Threads 4,038 Posts
Everything depends on the location being people. In every head there is different world... This is a big problem and a big decision.....cool
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Jun 18, 2009 6:57 AM CST What would you do for love?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
BClady: I am corresponding with someone who is a member of CS, but he doesn't participate in the forums. I wish he would. It would make communicating with him so much more personable. But he wants our communication to be private. He says all the right things and so far I haven't "caught" him in a lie, but as luck would have it, He lives and works in Europe.

We haven't discussed relocating but we have discussed visitations. If he were to suggest I move to Europe, I know I would be paralyzed to give him an answer. I really do like him and there is that connection I feel with him, (i know we could be so good together). But relocating...That is a huge step for both of us either way.


Hi BC..

As regards your own post, my feeling is mixed. I can understand why your guy doesnt wish to participate in the forums, because when you are in here, all kinds of things happen - flirting, disagreements, confrontation in some cases, and if you are "in negotiations" with someone its difficult not to take these things to heart. So I can understand why he may want to take a step back.

Alternatively, the forums ARE a great place to note people's reactions and consistency, and it IS good fun to flirt with your special guy/gal without others knowing you are in private contact. It is really down to the individuals how obvious they make it..dunno

I personally am currently planning to travel quite a long way to meet someone; but Im lucky, I dont have committments here in Ireland, so I can do that. I appreciate some people cant.
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Jun 18, 2009 6:59 AM CST What would you do for love?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
In response to: I met my boyfriend here on the website and I moved to Scotland to be with him.
My questions is...what would you do for love?
Would you move to another country?
If you did...was it what you expected?
If I was footloose and fancy free I might consider it.

however I am not and won't leave my kids to live in another country.
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Jun 18, 2009 12:06 PM CST What would you do for love?
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
Believe me darlin' I am. Thanxcheers
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Jun 18, 2009 12:09 PM CST What would you do for love?
BClady
BCladyBCladySurrey, British Columbia Canada15 Threads 354 Posts
petalbabe: Hi BC..

As regards your own post, my feeling is mixed. I can understand why your guy doesnt wish to participate in the forums, because when you are in here, all kinds of things happen - flirting, disagreements, confrontation in some cases, and if you are "in negotiations" with someone its difficult not to take these things to heart. So I can understand why he may want to take a step back.

Alternatively, the forums ARE a great place to note people's reactions and consistency, and it IS good fun to flirt with your special guy/gal without others knowing you are in private contact. It is really down to the individuals how obvious they make it..

I personally am currently planning to travel quite a long way to meet someone; but Im lucky, I dont have committments here in Ireland, so I can do that. I appreciate some people cant.


That's fantastic!!!

Hope you find what you're looking for and live in happiness.teddybear
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Jun 18, 2009 12:11 PM CST What would you do for love?
petalbabe
petalbabepetalbabeOgdensburg, New York, Cork Ireland61 Threads 1 Polls 3,101 Posts
BClady: That's fantastic!!!

Hope you find what you're looking for and live in happiness.


Hi BC...

I assume the man you were talking about before is the man you have called his bluff on???

grin
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Jun 18, 2009 12:13 PM CST What would you do for love?
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
not just u feel love u will decide too quick,first think a lot then if u will,do the best for the name of love,enjoy and be happy.thumbs up
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