Couples and CS.... ( Archived) (102)

Jul 6, 2009 2:54 PM CST Couples and CS....
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??
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Jul 6, 2009 2:55 PM CST Couples and CS....
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
If I should ever find "the one"...I'd be history here, faster than you could say "who the hell was she?"
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Jul 6, 2009 2:57 PM CST Couples and CS....
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Lagoona22: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


Everybody's situation is different.......... when with somebody you love there is no need to spend time on the internet; but if a relationship includes time spent apart then it's nice to communicate with other people.

I was a prisoner 22/7 when at home and I made use of CS; now that my mother is in a nursing home I am free to go out and use CS less; if my partner was with me I'd spend time with her not on a pc.
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Jul 6, 2009 2:58 PM CST Couples and CS....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Boy Scout motto.... "BE PREPARED"..grin
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Jul 6, 2009 2:58 PM CST Couples and CS....
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
jlb684: If I should ever find "the one"...I'd be history here, faster than you could say "who the hell was she?"
who the...
...........................................................joy

hell was she
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Jul 6, 2009 2:59 PM CST Couples and CS....
dirko63
dirko63dirko63brussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium2 Threads 426 Posts
In response to: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


A very good question... personally if two people found each other on here they may stay on for the forum chat as this is one big family.

If i found someone i may stay or i may go depends on the feelings

cheers
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Jul 6, 2009 2:59 PM CST Couples and CS....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Lagoona22: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


My motivation to be here would not disappear, though I probably wouldn't be here as often anymore. I plan on remaining here for my friends and the forums, because I honestly enjoy it here. The moment that changes, I will be gone whether I'm in a relationship or not. wine
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Jul 6, 2009 3:00 PM CST Couples and CS....
prairiewoman
prairiewomanprairiewomanBrandon, Manitoba Canada11 Threads 1,397 Posts
If I had a partner right with me, I don't think I would be on here. My friends would have other ways to contact me.
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Jul 6, 2009 3:01 PM CST Couples and CS....
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA14 Threads 2,451 Posts
Well, I am not "with" him yet. But I feel what you say and he and I discussed this. No we won't be here. Maybe to come back to announce stuff, events or like that. Grand kids. But no, cuz I am packin heat in my bags. And I do not mean weapons.
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Jul 6, 2009 3:03 PM CST Couples and CS....
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I like the forums, the interaction they offer, talking to people i have met on here.

Certainly don't use it as a dating site.

When my partner is home i spend time with him, so it does not effect my relationship, and i am open and honest with him about how i spend my time here. cheers
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Jul 6, 2009 3:03 PM CST Couples and CS....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
prairiewoman: If I had a partner right with me, I don't think I would be on here. My friends would have other ways to contact me.


If I have a "partner" here, I keep my laptop on my nightstand, just in case..devil
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Jul 6, 2009 3:04 PM CST Couples and CS....
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Lagoona22: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


Hey show some love, ok !!! Thought you've fallen in love with all the characters here on CS...but i guess not to be...laugh
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Jul 6, 2009 3:09 PM CST Couples and CS....
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
In response to: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??
Well, passing time, when you are together it is not always 'let's spend as much time together as we can'

Of course, CS would dwindle if everybody hooked up and ran off into the sunset.

Sometimes, there is a good debate that we discuss over dinner and often disagree and we post our views, but that does not mean that we lead our lives for this place. We both enjoy it, we are both independent of this place and we have a balance. Spending time here does not mean that we are looking for something else. Depends on why one is here, if you are looking for the one and one finds it here, and one finds that you both should leave then fine. If one likes to be here and chat then fine.

Then of course, there are those times that is not for CS, you know, those times..... Then no person sees us for dust!
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Jul 6, 2009 3:21 PM CST Couples and CS....
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I'm just here for the free beerbeer and pizzapizza and not that often anymore.

wave
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Jul 6, 2009 3:23 PM CST Couples and CS....
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
X_REBEL: Hey show some love, ok !!! Thought you've fallen in love with all the characters here on CS...but i guess not to be...
Ooooh, you dropped in to see us... How nice Rebel...
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Jul 6, 2009 3:24 PM CST Couples and CS....
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Why have you left us mate??....confused

kidatheart: I'm just here for the free beer and pizza and not that often anymore.
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Jul 6, 2009 3:26 PM CST Couples and CS....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwkiss
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Jul 6, 2009 3:27 PM CST Couples and CS....
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Lagoona22: I have a question...personally, if I found someone, and got wrapped up in a new relationship....my considered guess is, you guys really wouldn't see much of me here....

So how come there are other well-publicised hook-ups, and these people still spend a good chunk of their free time on CS?...

No judgements, no criticism to anybody personally, but if I had a relationship in real life, my desire, motivation and reason to be here, would evaporate rather quickly....but hey, that's just me. What about you??....When YOU find that ONE and ONLY, how much of you are we likely to see here??


I was here a lot when I had a girlfriend. I like the discussions on the forums and I like to stay in touch with my internet friends.
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Jul 6, 2009 3:30 PM CST Couples and CS....
Eledhwen
EledhwenEledhwenWildeshausen, Lower Saxony Germany2 Posts
simple answer: nothing...I would "poof" almost...


and I really do agree with you about people being couples and really spending their life here... but maybe they have made friends here....
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Jul 6, 2009 3:31 PM CST Couples and CS....
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
StressFree: I was here a lot when I had a girlfriend. I like the discussions on the forums and I like to stay in touch with my internet friends.


Yeah.

I thought I would disappear whenever I got married, but I guess I'll stay, for the same reason.laugh grin
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