SirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK4,138 posts
I think that's the hardest thing to put up with, the fact that you thought you had married for life but despite best efforts and years of trying (23 in my case) it all goes wrong and all is lost.
Try as you might to detach yourself, it is not easy.
JonquilleOPPeace is its own reward, Ontario Canada897 posts
Thanks for that remark!
He married in July but his new wife still hasn't moved in with him! She's in Toronto. First we heard she had a lease til Sept., and now she won't move in til the New Year b/c of issues with one of her kids. My daughter may be right - could be she's just after Canadian citizenship.
You are safe now. I worry for her and her kids. You said he was abusive. Has anyone given her the heads up? There should be a reference catalog for such things. I'll toast with you. Me and my wine and you with yours.
well my ex reamrried about 6 and 1/2 yrs ago the first time him and his new wife and baby came to visit i told her excattly what he was and 6mths later she called to tell me she left him
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