g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
Ok... here goes the scenario folks: Someone from your current flame's circle of friends accidentally let it slip that he was quite a party boy way back and used to date 3 women at a time. What would you do? Ask him about it or just shrug it off and forget about it? there you go peoples! dig in!
I think, if the person used to but has grown up and no longer does it. You can't really hold it against the person. We were all young and dumb at some point. While I believe in being with one person at a time, I have done my share of stupid things lol.
CaptainBeirutIIILondon, Greater London, England UK1,186 posts
g33kgurl: Ok... here goes the scenario folks: Someone from your current flame's circle of friends accidentally let it slip that he was quite a party boy way back and used to date 3 women at a time. What would you do? Ask him about it or just shrug it off and forget about it? there you go peoples! dig in!
Do you mean three women at once, like Hugh Hefner, or having three girlfriends at the same time each not knowing about the other?
IN all Honesty I was quite the party girl at one time. If you ask about my past I will tell you, you may not like what you hear, if that is the case, refrain from asking in the first place.
As for a guy, we all have a past, its what he would like to do with me in the future that matters.
I will ask a guy about his past but like me if I don't want the truthful answer don't ask in the first place.
I believe that the past is just that "the past", to me the future is the most important thing in a relationship and pasts should not spill onto the future..
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
sxc666: IN all Honesty I was quite the party girl at one time. If you ask about my past I will tell you, you may not like what you hear, if that is the case, refrain from asking in the first place.
As for a guy, we all have a past, its what he would like to do with me in the future that matters.
I will ask a guy about his past but like me if I don't want the truthful answer don't ask in the first place.
yes definitely would love to ask - AND get a truthful answer.
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
goodfriend: I believe that the past is just that "the past", to me the future is the most important thing in a relationship and pasts should not spill onto the future..
g33kgurlOPMelbourne, Victoria Australia1,995 posts
bamma882: I think, if the person used to but has grown up and no longer does it. You can't really hold it against the person. We were all young and dumb at some point. While I believe in being with one person at a time, I have done my share of stupid things lol.
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Someone from your current flame's circle of friends accidentally let it slip that he was quite a party boy way back and used to date 3 women at a time. What would you do? Ask him about it or just shrug it off and forget about it?
there you go peoples! dig in!