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Jul 21, 2009 7:48 AM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
The guy's an idiot, plain and simple, Alison.hug wave
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Jul 21, 2009 8:24 AM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
So.... we've established he's an idiot, it would seem?!

I have re-written my profile many times, each time adding what I thought was extra clarity for the very reason that there was no mis-understanding. Not sure what else I can do?

Thanks for all your input, I truly appreciate it.... teddybear
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Jul 21, 2009 7:08 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
I think if you post in your profile "just for the forums only", people think they might be able to change your mind. You should add that you are in a committed relationship. If they pursue with that sign over your head, you owe them nothing. dunno
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Jul 21, 2009 7:44 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
SensualVixen: So in effect he really did mean "hang out"........


That makes me wanna do the free willy dance

while singing gospel.








Swing low, sweet chariot...
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Jul 21, 2009 7:47 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
rioplatense
rioplatenserioplatenseToronto, Ontario Canada3 Threads 1 Polls 326 Posts
I would vote for: His intentions were probably contrived....!!!!devil devil devil rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 22, 2009 10:16 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
HDALE
HDALEHDALEINDIANAPOLIS, Indiana USA8 Threads 1 Polls 97 Posts
It is called connecting singles ,but without connected peoples advice we would just ,,,,,,,,be single.
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Jul 22, 2009 10:19 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
BOBANBOBAN: I really dont know...

but i love to aggravate people


..............rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up ..........

J.Dgrin devil
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Jul 22, 2009 10:28 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
roseofsharon: About 3-4 days ago I had a pic of me and my fella as my primary pic for a little over 24 hours.

During this time, I had a guy contact me. Quite goodlooking, I guess, asking how my "larking about on the Forums" was going. He seemed friendly enough, I replied politely and he responded saying I seemed like a laugh. I got back to him, all very courteously, but also pointing out I was spoken for but always happy to make new friends.

The e-mail I got was "This site is called Connectingsingles, stop wasting everyone's time"!!!

Whoooaaa....

I remarked what a nice guy he seemed (Hmmm...) and pointed out that there are many members here that are attached and on the site/Forums for varying reasons, it was not against the rules (T&Cs clearly state the crtieria as being unmarried and over 18 years of age).

I also pointed out to him that my profile clearly states "not looking, here for the Forums" at least 3 times as there does seem to be some difficulty in understanding what that means.... huhh??!! It also stipulates I am here for "Friends/Hang Out", and not forgetting the pic.....

Not sure what the difficulty is.... but there couldn't possibly be any confusion?!

What on earth to I have to do with my profile that would make it clearer?

I do suspect, though, that his intentions in contacting me may have been contrived...?! I am still at a loss to comprehend why those who behave in such a way are on a dating site?! Dunno.... any ideas?

What do you guys and gals think? Your viewpoints welcomed, of course, peeps.

Thanks....


When I'm not looking, I respond with such. If I'm actually in a relationship, I don't bother responding at all. And from what I've read from others here, get used to it. There are many who will get disgruntled over it, most of whom probably wouldn't have interested you anyway. hug
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Jul 22, 2009 10:30 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
roseofsharon: So.... we've established he's an idiot, it would seem?!

I have re-written my profile many times, each time adding what I thought was extra clarity for the very reason that there was no mis-understanding. Not sure what else I can do?

Thanks for all your input, I truly appreciate it....


Nothing. Obviously these idiots aren't reading your profile, so there's no way to make it clearer. You've done all you can do, so just ignore the idiots. wine
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Jul 22, 2009 10:30 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
roseofsharon: About 3-4 days ago I had a pic of me and my fella as my primary pic for a little over 24 hours.

During this time, I had a guy contact me. Quite goodlooking, I guess, asking how my "larking about on the Forums" was going. He seemed friendly enough, I replied politely and he responded saying I seemed like a laugh. I got back to him, all very courteously, but also pointing out I was spoken for but always happy to make new friends.

The e-mail I got was "This site is called Connectingsingles, stop wasting everyone's time"!!!

Whoooaaa....

I remarked what a nice guy he seemed (Hmmm...) and pointed out that there are many members here that are attached and on the site/Forums for varying reasons, it was not against the rules (T&Cs clearly state the crtieria as being unmarried and over 18 years of age).

I also pointed out to him that my profile clearly states "not looking, here for the Forums" at least 3 times as there does seem to be some difficulty in understanding what that means.... huhh??!! It also stipulates I am here for "Friends/Hang Out", and not forgetting the pic.....

Not sure what the difficulty is.... but there couldn't possibly be any confusion?!

What on earth to I have to do with my profile that would make it clearer?

I do suspect, though, that his intentions in contacting me may have been contrived...?! I am still at a loss to comprehend why those who behave in such a way are on a dating site?! Dunno.... any ideas?

What do you guys and gals think? Your viewpoints welcomed, of course, peeps.

Thanks....


I would simply block them and any others.
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Jul 22, 2009 10:56 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i constantly get mail from scammers and regular guys too
even tho my HEADLINE says i am married and my pics have the 2 of us together

i dont bother answerin anymore

my time here is precious
is they cant read screw em
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Jul 22, 2009 10:57 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
IF they cant readdoh grin
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Jul 22, 2009 11:03 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
mindfful: i constantly get mail from stripping scammers and regular stripping guys too
even tho my HEADLINE says i am married and my pics have the 2 of us stripping together

i dont bother answerin anymore

my stripping time here is precious
is they cant read screw em




My god I couldnt reeeeesssssiiiiiist .Wifey ,forgive me then smile bouquet You know ya wanna .Il be better in the morning .Promise lips
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Jul 22, 2009 11:04 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
dillydally: My god I couldnt reeeeesssssiiiiiist .Wifey ,forgive me then smile You know ya wanna .Il be better in the morning .Promise
mumbling tired of ye promishesh

haverin you are-non stop!
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Jul 22, 2009 11:06 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
SummerUK: Hiya

Its bloody scary actually when you get an email from a guy who appears to be ever so sweet and charming and then when you respond and say thank you but you're not actually looking then they turn into the spawn of the devil

Maybe we who are looking should refuse everyone then respond to the ones who give you a polite reply...sorting the wheat from the chaffe so to speak lol


thanks god, i never play nice and sweet here to the ladieslaugh
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Jul 22, 2009 11:13 PM CST What on Earth Do You Make of This? !!
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
mindfful: tired of ye promishesh

haverin you are-non stop!






rolling on the floor laughing


She wuvs me
she wuvs me not kiss
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