If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move? ( Archived) (81)

Jul 20, 2006 9:21 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Men probably make the first move more than women do on here - but what do you all think? Would you show YOUR interest in someone FIRST?
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Jul 20, 2006 9:24 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
blushing I'm too shy to make the first move......I would'nt have the nerve.........blushing... but each to their own..........grin
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Jul 20, 2006 9:24 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
bailey_beez
bailey_beezbailey_beezNiagara Falls, Ontario Canada12 Threads 1,118 Posts
I did and I would!
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Jul 20, 2006 9:27 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I'm like Trish..I can be shy until I get to know someone and I also think I have some old fashioned values...where I like the guy to make the first move!

Don't ask me where I got them and sometimes they can be a reeeeeaaaal pain! lol

cheers
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Jul 20, 2006 9:29 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
i would and i have
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Jul 20, 2006 9:30 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Hawk, in most cases, if we didn't, we'd sit here forever. I wish women would make more first moves. A few days ago, I met a woman in person at a local pub, she was sitting with people that I know. After chatting with her for quite a while, I offered her my phone #, for the next time that she would be in town. She refused it. 2 days later I got a call from one of the other people that were present that night, offering me her Phone # on her behalf. The explanation; she was old fashioned, and believes that a woman should never call a man. I believe otherwise, so, my voice will not be heard on her phone. Paws
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Jul 20, 2006 9:55 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Assets52
Assets52Assets52Littleton, New Hampshire USA125 Threads 2,174 Posts
I don't have a problem letting a man know I'm interested. Not old fashioned - not shy! Raging flirt!

Hi Leo :bye:
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Jul 20, 2006 9:58 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Hi baby. Paws
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Jul 20, 2006 10:02 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
elcreko
elcrekoelcrekoadelaide, Australia3 Threads 52 Posts
if i force it by her ..then yes i doangel
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Jul 20, 2006 10:09 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Well, like my user name states...i am a shy girl! In other words, NO, i would not generally make the first move. However, when there's something i truly want, i go after it!
As it turns out, that's how it happened with my guy, i made the first move, first time in my life and it really paid off! It was not something i would have ever thought i could do, but i took a risk, put myself out there...and voila!...nine months later and still going strong. grin
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Jul 20, 2006 10:13 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
If you don't ask for what you want, you'll never get it. Good for you hon. Paws
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Jul 20, 2006 10:20 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
bluewarrior
bluewarriorbluewarriorPaola, Xlokk Malta22 Threads 96 Posts
I would definitely make the first move after I made sure that there's grounds for a relationship.

I don't usually like to keep my interest to myself unless of course there are other circumstances (here I refer to the real world) where we have to keep back but I've grown confident over the years...

After all, what's the worse that can happen?

That said, I agree that it would be nice to see more women taking the initiative.

cheers
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Jul 20, 2006 11:49 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Of course I would make the first move and have. Sometimes the guy
isn't sure so go for it ladies. Just like asking your banker for a
they will either laugh in your face for even thinking that would
happen or toss the papers on the table and say sign here baby. Guess
the banker would'nt call you baby, now would he?
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Jul 20, 2006 11:50 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Oops that is asking your banker for a loan !!!!
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Jul 20, 2006 11:53 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
I would love to have the girl make the first move,but now that I put my pix up,I'am lucky if I get 10 move.
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Jul 20, 2006 11:55 AM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Hi Mastic, Your pic looks fine. wink wink
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Jul 20, 2006 12:00 PM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
I have, I did...and I am sooooooooooooooooooooo happy I took that chance. kiss
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Jul 20, 2006 12:02 PM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
Yep,and have,nothing to loss and possibly something to gain,even if gaining is a friendship,my lover should be my friend first anyhow.
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Jul 20, 2006 12:13 PM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
Sure why not... nothing to loose kiss
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Jul 20, 2006 12:15 PM CST If YOU were interested in someone on CS - would YOU make the FIRST move?
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
i'm not exactly shy.
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