Does being in the military hurt my chances with women? ( Archived) (31)

Jul 31, 2009 2:05 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
alot of men and women in the service arnt faithful to their girlfriends or wives. not saying that all men and women are not faithful just saying there is alot. im young and interested in finding someone that will support me while i serve my country. have the women and men of our armed forces hurt my chances of finding my special someone?
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Jul 31, 2009 2:08 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
jrock598: alot of men and women in the service arnt faithful to their girlfriends or wives. not saying that all men and women are not faithful just saying there is alot. im young and interested in finding someone that will support me while i serve my country. have the women and men of our armed forces hurt my chances of finding my special someone?




I seen a few women state they feel truckers in general aren't faithfull. Can't say I've heard them complain much about service men.
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Jul 31, 2009 2:19 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
yea i could only imagine what truckers go through.
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Jul 31, 2009 2:19 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
yea i could only imagine what truckers go through.
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Jul 31, 2009 2:19 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
yea i could only imagine what truckers go through.
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Jul 31, 2009 3:39 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
I was with someone in the army it was a good relationship,but he was killed in Afghanistan on duty .... when i was much younger..Its a lot of presure for your partner but it wont stop a female wanting you..it just takes effort ..
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Jul 31, 2009 3:43 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
I don't think its about worrying you would be unfaithful, that can happen in any walk of life, but it must be hard for a partner to be constantly worried for your safety wine
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Jul 31, 2009 3:48 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
this all makes good sense. ty
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Jul 31, 2009 7:16 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
morgan5: I don't think its about worrying you would be unfaithful, that can happen in any walk of life, but it must be hard for a partner to be constantly worried for your safety




My sentiments exactly!thumbs up
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Jul 31, 2009 8:11 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
Kristine1
Kristine1Kristine1Abilene, Texas USA2 Threads 381 Posts
no, not for some. My ex was Navy and for the first 4 years of our marriage we barely saw each other..barely. We did end up splitting up because of his infidelity, but that was his bad choice- not because of being military. For me a military guy or off shoreman is kinda a bonus for me, because I'm so independent and I like to have time for myself, for some women this is not for them being separated from their loved ones for months at a time- they want their man home every night. Just makes the homecoming that much sweeter. And allot of women love a man in uniform, so it's not a retracted JMHO. Thanks for serving BTW! hug
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Jul 31, 2009 8:12 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
Kristine1
Kristine1Kristine1Abilene, Texas USA2 Threads 381 Posts
laugh early for me too..detraction
but it takes a strong trust bong on both partners..for the one in the service away from home, and the one at home with the partner away.
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Jul 31, 2009 8:21 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
whosyourdaddy69
whosyourdaddy69whosyourdaddy69Tucson, Arizona USA1 Threads 2 Posts
if your a woman, yes
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Jul 31, 2009 9:30 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
whosyourdaddy69: if your a woman, yes
why?? confused
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Jul 31, 2009 11:30 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
jrock598
jrock598jrock598ft eustis, Virginia USA1 Threads 14 Posts
thank u kristine1
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Jul 31, 2009 11:33 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
I have spent much time around vets and one good thing is that the military teaches then discipline and responsibility. On the other hand, many vets suffer from trauma that is so unbearable they become forever violent and self-abusive with alcohol and drugs. I think overall though, military men are keepers. They served our country and we ought to be grateful. cheering
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Jul 31, 2009 11:33 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
i dont think its just military..policemen..firemen etc..

They are very dangerous jobs and are afraid one day they
may lose them..

I really dont think its so much to do with unfaithfulness..

Just their life in General..

Hang in there..good luck
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Jul 31, 2009 11:36 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
kissmedeeply: i dont think its just military..policemen..firemen etc..

They are very dangerous jobs and are afraid one day they
may lose them..

I really dont think its so much to do with unfaithfulness..

Just their life in General..

Hang in there..good luck




Spot on Joannethumbs up wave
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Jul 31, 2009 11:39 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
hopefloats: Spot on Joanne
hellowave
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Jul 31, 2009 11:41 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
Ocee35: I seen a few women state they feel truckers in general aren't faithfull. Can't say I've heard them complain much about service men.





it depends who you talk to, I am one and have many friend who are also drivers. we are just the same as the rest, trying to make a living for our familys. we are in general no more or less faithful than the rest, we just get a bad rap from what people percieve that we do.
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Jul 31, 2009 11:43 AM CST Does being in the military hurt my chances with women?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
slim1977: it depends who you talk to, I am one and have many friend who are also drivers. we are just the same as the rest, trying to make a living for our familys. we are in general no more or less faithful than the rest, we just get a bad rap from what people percieve that we do.



Exactly! Being stereo-typed absolutely sucks!mumbling doh very mad
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