Ok we see this in movies all the time, but we all know it is real. You are a married man or woman in an office and you have to contend with a very attractive single person everyday. You and that person operate in the same work space. How do you deal with the situation?
harrydre: Ok we see this in movies all the time, but we all know it is real. You are a married man or woman in an office and you have to contend with a very attractive single person everyday. You and that person operate in the same work space. How do you deal with the situation?
what is your problem...cant u work with attractine people
harrydre: Ok we see this in movies all the time, but we all know it is real. You are a married man or woman in an office and you have to contend with a very attractive single person everyday. You and that person operate in the same work space. How do you deal with the situation?
Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
If I was married and temptation entered my mind whenever I see an attractive woman, I would look but don't touch, And I would call my wife to tell her "I love her."
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
Totally agree with the above.... or at least have the guts to finish with your wife first before starting another relationship. If you can't do that, then you shouldn't be messing around !
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
Lago, very good post. My father is a retired airline pilot, and was surrounded by beautiful women with great personalities all day long, sleeping in hotels across the country with the crews. He never cheated on my mother. (Yes, I know my father, and he'd never do that...he didn't take communion for years because he had a vasectomy to save her life, and that was birth control.) They always had an agreement that looking was a given part of being human, but touching was off-limits.
umm well I tend to wait for the "new" fresh-meat hot feelings to wear down, and I guess nit-pick, find something how ever minor and let it get under your skin so you get turned off, and it's worked for me before.
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
starshinebrightRiverside, California USA6,305 posts
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
In response to: Ok we see this in movies all the time, but we all know it is real. You are a married man or woman in an office and you have to contend with a very attractive single person everyday. You and that person operate in the same work space. How do you deal with the situation?
Personally I recently found out my wife cheated on me over 200 times with multiple men so all bets are off be it in the office,in the laundry mat,in the line at the bank don't matter to me anymore.
starshinebrightRiverside, California USA6,305 posts
TBoardman: Personally I recently found out my wife cheated on me over 200 times with multiple men so all bets are off be it in the office,in the laundry mat,in the line at the bank don't matter to me anymore.
Wow, that has to be very painfull! Sorry to hear that,
TBoardman: Personally I recently found out my wife cheated on me over 200 times with multiple men so all bets are off be it in the office,in the laundry mat,in the line at the bank don't matter to me anymore.
I'm sorry to hear that. I'll suggest that you have healing to do before you start dating anyone because right now you'd find it difficult to trust anyone, and without trust, there is no relationship. Not all women are like that, TB.
TBoardman: Personally I recently found out my wife cheated on me over 200 times with multiple men so all bets are off be it in the office,in the laundry mat,in the line at the bank don't matter to me anymore.
Lagoona22: Honest question: How would you feel if you had read this post, and your wife was the author??.... Temptation is a constant in life. By entertaining thoughts of infidelity, you do a disservice to your marriage and your wife. There's a very old saying, "You can't have your cake, and eat it too.." Have some character and discipline, and show some respect to your wife and partner. You must have had a reason for marrying her, right?....She's stuck by you thru thick and thin, now it's your turn to deliver...
There's nothing wrong at looking at the menu - so long as you go home for dinner, and keep your eyes off the desert tray
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