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Many of us have been broken, or hurt, people at some point or another, or we wouldn't be here. But have you truly done the work to heal and be prepared to move into a healthy relationship? Or do you still have work to do?
Why do those who are still broken, or still hurting, seek relationships with others before finishing their inner work? I know it happens, because the fall-out happens here in threads about "if someone did this to you...", the "why do all men/women" threads, and also in the bitterness that others spew onto us all at times.
Just some thoughts that a friend and I have been discussing, and I wanted to see what others had to say.