do women want honest men or do women want liars ? (183)

hi


i am only new to connecting singles i have been going threw the profiles and the women that i have looked at say they want an honest and caring guy

hear is what puzzles me what gives when an honest man like my self who has been singl since 2000 shows intrest in a women why do they run to guys who lie who cheat and who will sleep with ther best friend or pay for it ?


why do you state you want an honest man and then get scared off when a genuin man who is honest has nothing to hide shows intrest ?


i am 41yrs old and the women i have dated or thought were being serious showed me they were not realy intrested its like they want the bad boy who beats women up who hangs out in the pub a bumb


i realy would like to hear from the females who belong to this forum this is the first time i have joined a dating site like connecting singls were i have had to set up a profile

i am like most of the guys hear i am searching i have been looking abroad for a partner mainly asia and the philippines i see how happy some of my australian friends are and my work mates i am getting to know in the security industry


i have tatoos they are evident i cant hide them i have been burnt real bad in the past i cought my best mate in bed with one of my girlfriends been scamed by a chick from russia old saying once bitten twice shy


i am not hear to play games i know what i want in a partner but when you show intrest and ask the hard questions and show you are intrested and state you are serious why do we males have to prove our selves to the women we show intrest in

i understand some have been hurt real bad i understand what it must be like for a women she alows a guy to come into her life trusts him and he just walks over her to were you get what i have been getting with a messed up women who has been used

i use to be a wild boy i have changed kids do that to you i have a 12yr old son

hope to get some honest answers from the female members who belong to this forum

this topic is not set up to pick at the females who belong to this forum

may be you can give some hints to us guys would be much apprecitated


what draws you women to liars cheats and guys who realy dont listen yet know how to get what they want from you







damo9

what she said

do you seriously believe women want liars??

if you do then you may have more luck finding a woman if you get to know them better than that

tut tut serene... don't you know us women are always to blame

You'll do well here.

I HATE LIARS, CHEATER AND PLAYERS

think thats why i am still single

hey but not desperate

thanks for the replys sorry for the spelling mistakes i just noticed i try not to hit spell checker to correct my mistakes

with the women i have dated could not answer me honestly i am very comfterbal in my own skin i have been singl for s while know

the women i see yes it makes me think they just want guys who end up hurting them

i see it in the night clubs i have bounced in being sober you see what goes on i see guys throwing the seme one liners i use to use and then i see it with the women


the guards i am getting to know we talk a lot


i will try my hardest not to make any spelling mistakes


i know people have been hurt real bad one of the reasons we come to thees sites

but what is a guy suppose to do do we have to just be patient step back and show the women you show intrest in that you are genuin i did not set this topic up to pick on the women who belong to this forum


thanks for your replys its helping





damo9