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Aug 16, 2009 12:23 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
my young looking is a mistake?laugh
Or I'm too good to believe??? I hope you can think with your high IQ brain. What purpose of me to update a fake photo on my profile? If I meet a man here in person, I cover my face with my fake photo???rolling on the floor laughing

Nothing can make me telling a lie here. Of course I hope to meet one good man here. But at same time I come here is also for relax, don't want to be too tired. Real life has made me a little tired. Here is a good place to have a rest...
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Aug 16, 2009 12:28 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
YesWho
YesWhoYesWhoWoodbury, New Jersey USA2 Threads 2,322 Posts
There is nothing to hidemyou do not need to post a fake picture.YOU ARE BEUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE.
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Aug 16, 2009 12:30 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Da10th
Da10thDa10thThree Springs, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,744 Posts
Amenda: my young looking is a mistake?
Or I'm too good to believe??? I hope you can think with your high IQ brain. What purpose of me to update a fake photo on my profile? If I meet a man here in person, I cover my face with my fake photo???

Nothing can make me telling a lie here. Of course I hope to meet one good man here. But at same time I come here is also for relax, don't want to be too tired. Real life has made me a little tired. Here is a good place to have a rest...



Never waste time on those of whom doubt you, instead invest the time into those that trust.
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Aug 16, 2009 12:32 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
and what if you doubt yourself ?
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Aug 16, 2009 12:40 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
avecaim: and what if you doubt yourself ?


There are not only one man doubt about my photo and my age. Just want to say something about this. Or I would be very uncomfortable. I am just this kind of person, at least online I don't like hiding anything in my heart. Dig out my heart to show you!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 16, 2009 12:41 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Well your still smiling, your paintings look bright forward looking. Without make up your really cute, and you appear to post sensible subject matter. Keep on using this web and pour out your trouble if you feel comfortable doing that.

I'll listen
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Aug 16, 2009 12:42 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
YesWho: There is nothing to hidemyou do not need to post a fake picture.YOU ARE BEUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE.


Exactly, in fact I even don't like to make up myself. Of course I will make up myself to more beautiful for a party.
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Aug 16, 2009 12:44 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
robplum: Well your still smiling, your paintings look bright forward looking. Without make up your really cute, and you appear to post sensible subject matter. Keep on using this web and pour out your trouble if you feel comfortable doing that.

I'll listen


oh, dear, if I said your post make my eyes filled with tears. do you believe? But that's true. I am very easy to be moved. I like to write prosed in Chinese before. too much feelings in my heart. I don't like this kind of characters in fact. not strong at all.

Anyway, thank you so much!!hug
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Aug 16, 2009 12:46 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
Amenda: oh, dear, if I said your post make my eyes filled with tears. do you believe? But that's true. I am very easy to be moved. I like to write prosed in Chinese before. too much feelings in my heart. I don't like this kind of characters in fact. not strong at all.

Anyway, thank you so much!!


prose and poems I mean
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Aug 16, 2009 12:51 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Oh come on, your at least good minded person, that you like your self is enough
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Aug 16, 2009 12:56 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
robplum: Oh come on, your at least good minded person, that you like your self is enough


Sometimes I hate myself. very easy to shed tears.

My daughter read David Copperfeild at sametime. Sometimes I shed tears because of some moving passage but my daughter doesn't at all. Plus she laugh at me so muchlaugh At last when we reach the most moving part she stopped reading but watching my eyes then laugh and laugh.

That isn't good, but that's true me. real me. No matter I like or not...
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Aug 16, 2009 12:58 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
maybe your shedding tears feeling your feelings, not because you dislike yourself at all
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Aug 16, 2009 1:01 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
robplum: maybe your shedding tears feeling your feelings, not because you dislike yourself at all


Maybe, they say my characters sould be a good writer or a good artist. or maybe last life I was a writer or an artist who have rich feelings in heart.
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Aug 16, 2009 1:05 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
theres nothing wrong with being sentimental , sometimes i cry for the weirdiest things i can't explain it it just happens.. it just depends on what moves us in our hearts i guess. nothing to do with not liking ourselves.
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Aug 16, 2009 1:06 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Helping others takes us away from our own self interest, in my studies i found life is truly suffering, deeper we look inside our own minds the more we are able to see how alone we actually are.
So better to engage as much as possible in benefiting others and stop dwelling on self
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Aug 16, 2009 1:09 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
wildkitty
wildkittywildkittymt.view, Oklahoma USA34 Threads 1 Polls 1,308 Posts
robplum: Helping others takes us away from our own self interest, in my studies i found life is truly suffering, deeper we look inside our own minds the more we are able to see how alone we actually are.
So better to engage as much as possible in benefiting others and stop dwelling on self
very well said thumbs up
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Aug 16, 2009 1:10 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
robplum: Helping others takes us away from our own self interest, in my studies i found life is truly suffering, deeper we look inside our own minds the more we are able to see how alone we actually are.
So better to engage as much as possible in benefiting others and stop dwelling on self


Exactly
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Aug 16, 2009 1:12 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
your paintings show a desire you clearly feel. Well you've put that out, given it legs, its on its way, back to benefiting others cause the seeds have been sown
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Aug 16, 2009 1:13 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
robplum: Helping others takes us away from our own self interest, in my studies i found life is truly suffering, deeper we look inside our own minds the more we are able to see how alone we actually are.
So better to engage as much as possible in benefiting others and stop dwelling on self


I have to go now. thanks everybody here.
see you laterwave
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Aug 16, 2009 1:14 AM CST I need a place to pour out my trouble!!!
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
hi Amenda

be very cautious about pouring anything out here, won't you? its not an easy place to rest. most of us come in with a deep desire for connection or to heal pain of past relating failures. but, to dare to bare your heart here is likely to attract a stake right through it.

i relate to your words. it is the same for all of us once we get tired of the messes we make and seek better and i wish you well on your journey. be careful, won't you? there is compassion in a few hearts in here, but still, all i want to say is:

be careful!

and test your feelings all the way. we will only give you words. what you do with them then is up to you. please don't let them hurt or make decisions about replies leading to hurt. there is certainly more hurt than love in these places but they are a supermarket of potential relationships all the way too.

that said, they do temper us and test us away from our fears and inept stupidities for the duration, don't they? keep your kind honest heart and never stray toward lesser. the lessons can be immediate and lasting when we do, in here or anywhere else, yes?

try to remain useful and fearless and uplifting, but, it may not fill that need in your heart you are really expressing for your post's theme title and there is little purpose of value in anybody presenting themselves as fake anything. no conncetions of use can come from them ever, can they?

good luck.



wave
In response to: my young looking is a mistake?
Or I'm too good to believe??? I hope you can think with your high IQ brain. What purpose of me to update a fake photo on my profile? If I meet a man here in person, I cover my face with my fake photo???

Nothing can make me telling a lie here. Of course I hope to meet one good man here. But at same time I come here is also for relax, don't want to be too tired. Real life has made me a little tired. Here is a good place to have a rest...
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