Sassy's Good Bye Coffee Thread ( Archived) (37)

This will be the last of my coffee threads and yet it will not have much to say about coffee. Except to say pull up a chair, grab a cup of coffee from HJ's huge coffee pot,have a doughnut or piece of fruit and a chat if you would like.

As most know, I have been gone for a few days. I intended on leaving it that way. But, lo and behold, a very dear friend gave me a wee bit of a scolding, thank you sis, and I am back to say goodbye. It has been great, highs and yes some lows also.

I took time to think, which is dangerous for Sassy. Here is what I came up with. I am no longer 30, 40 or 50, but 60. What the heck am I doing on a dating site? Yes, I have some dear friends and we have shared e-mail addresses to keep in touch. The thing is, I am one of the romantic ones who always walks around with stars in her eyes, thinking, I know he is on here and we will eventually connect. Time to face reality Sassy and understand it isn't going to happen this way. I need to get back to taking care of business in my personal life. This is extremely difficult for me and I will take time to send a few personal mails to some who have touched my life in a special way.

When I leave I will not be returning for other reasons besides the above mentioned. I will be undergoing 3 surgeries in the next 12 months. Not something I am looking forward to, but I can either have the surgeries or become a cripple. Not a hard choice there. Yes, I am scared and I would be a damn liar if I said I am fine without having that man by my side. I would like nothing more than to have his face be the last one I see before they cart me away. But this is not the way I want to start a relationship off. So please if you can all just remember that Sassy gets a little too emotional at times, but she really cares about all of you.

Charli, thank you so much for asking some to keep me in their prayers. I love you girlfriend and I will keep in touch.

aww you were so loved here..

take time for urself...

and hopefully here from you again soon

miss ya girl, never really talked to ya, but really enjoyed your posts and stuff!

Sassy u will sure be missed, good luck with the surgeries u wil lbe in my prayers.

Yes this is a dating site but also place to meet and steam off discuss and learn from others.

All the best dear sassy

Best of everything to you Linda........

No stop whining about being 60, life is in infancy...

Stick around, tell the truth, see who you can piss off..

Best wishes! And I love capucinos myself, they make me feel warm n tingly :)

Will miss you immensely Sassy , but it is understandable. You will truly be in my thoughts and I will be wishing you nothing but the best. I hope everything works out with your surgeries, please keep in touch and keep me updated about your progress. Thankyou for having been always a positive influence for us all here on CS.

Take care Sassy;you're words of wisedom kept me grounded.

I was just wondering about where you'd gone to the other day...

I understand that you need your "me" time through your surgeries. But also remember, we can be your support group when needed my sweet darling friend. Take care of yourself.
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