Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship (23)

Aug 26, 2009 5:55 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
Iamthinking
IamthinkingIamthinkingDublin, Ireland31 Threads 205 Posts
I am interested in getting the views of both men and women on this topic.

From the men

I would like to know what your experience in this situation has brought you? And from that experience have you any gems of wisdom to pass on?

Have you found yourself in a relationship where the woman has suddenly transformed into a totally different person whom you have never met before?

Or perhaps she has transformed into an alien type personality very similiar to a Being who inhabitated her body a month or two previously. A being who seems connected to her by some strange technology unknown to man?

From The Women.

I will be evry so grateful if in a calm un-distressed fashion ye could enlighten us men as to what exactly goes on.

Why for instance in a very good relationship does a woman suddenly emit fire from her eyes and act in a very adverserial way toward a man she was so 'in love' with only a few days earlier?

And why oh why can a woman not talk about it when it is happening, that is to say, talk about it in a way that does not have her head doing a 360 degree turn?

I hope this thread will throw some light into the dark room of ignorance us men are so often forced to sit in regarding this topic.

And can I say without any woman taking this in a personal way, professor perhaps if when you are reading this, you are in the throes of PMT - perhaps you will give it a few days before replying.

Thanking ye all in a advance - both men and women ... and even the aliens among us.

teddybear teddybear teddybear
Aug 26, 2009 6:03 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
gweniverre
gweniverregweniverreshannon, Clare Ireland14 Threads 1 Polls 136 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing women suffering preMENstrual tension (PMT), or preMENstrual syndrome (PMS)
What's the difference between a terrorist and a woman with PMT?, At least you can negotiate with a terrorist.
crying
Aug 26, 2009 6:03 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
From a woman's perspective...

Every woman is different. Some change drastically, some barely change at all.

Then there are some women who in reality don't change much but use PMT as an excuse to act out! (I personally know at least 2 women who do this and it pisses me off)

Why do women not talk about it? We do... to other women.
Men do NOT want to hear about it. They tune out or walk out if we mention it. Yes..ALL men.



roll eyes roll eyes
Aug 26, 2009 6:09 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
TheSecretPenguin
TheSecretPenguinTheSecretPenguinDublin, Ireland31 Threads 883 Posts
It seems to me that all of women's problems start with MEN








MENstration
MENapause
MENtal illness

rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 26, 2009 6:13 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
TheSecretPenguin: It seems to me that all of women's problems start with MENMENstration
MENapause
MENtal illness


FINALLY!!!!!

A man who understands!!!

laugh laugh laugh
Aug 26, 2009 6:14 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
laugh laughed when i read this,as just said to the other half this morning,its a mans world,and his answer was in a jokingly way ,is it that time againlaugh

As much as i said that this morning,like wexlady said,i think a lot of women uses it,okay granted some can have it really bad,,but in reality,its nothing new,to them,so they should be able to understand their mood swings etc,and let the other half know,that its that time of mth again,and not to heed heruh oh
Aug 26, 2009 6:16 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
Iamthinking
IamthinkingIamthinkingDublin, Ireland31 Threads 205 Posts
wexlady41: From a woman's perspective...

Every woman is different. Some change drastically, some barely change at all.

Then there are some women who in reality don't change much but use PMT as an excuse to act out! (I personally know at least 2 women who do this and it pisses me off)

Why do women not talk about it? We do... to other women.
Men do NOT want to hear about it. They tune out or walk out if we mention it. Yes..ALL men.



Very honest Wex and great feedback. I have met a woman or two who I 'suspected' as using it as an excuse to act out. But woe to the man who should even suggest such a horrible thing-and double or treble woe to him if he's right! frustrated

Oh and the men walking out bit - again have to say to ya that regarding men you can never say 'all' until you can say you have met 'all' men. comfort
Aug 26, 2009 6:19 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Iamthinking: Very honest Wex and great feedback. I have met a woman or two who I 'suspected' as using it as an excuse to act out. But woe to the man who should even suggest such a horrible thing-and double or treble woe to him if he's right!

Oh and the men walking out bit - again have to say to ya that regarding men you can never say 'all' until you can say you have met 'all' men.


Well let me clarify..

ALL men that I have met, or my mother met, or my siters have met, or my sisters-in-law have met, or my friends have met.


laugh laugh

As I said..we talk about it with other women.
Aug 26, 2009 6:22 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
wexlady41: Well let me clarify..

ALL men that I have met, or my mother met, or my siters have met, or my sisters-in-law have met, or my friends have met.

As I said..we talk about it with other women.
confused not always though Clodagh,,i would talk about it if in a relationship,,and have,as i think,even though it effects all women different,maybe from mood swings,pain,tearful etc,then its only fair that u talk to the man in your life about it jmo
Aug 26, 2009 6:24 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
derrywoman: not always though Clodagh,,i would talk about it if in a relationship,,and have,as i think,even though it effects all women different,maybe from mood swings,pain,tearful etc,then its only fair that u talk to the man in your life about it jmo


I would too. But they don't want to know. The usual response is ..

roll eyes talk to hand motorcycle
Aug 26, 2009 6:27 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
wexlady41: I would too. But they don't want to know. The usual response is ..
laugh You just met the wrong ones then,,there is some out there that would listen,,and even be sympathic at the time if neededgrin
Aug 26, 2009 6:30 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
I notice we are getting no mens' responses to this one. Could that be an indication of their willingness to discuss it?

dunno
Aug 26, 2009 6:46 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
wexlady41: See? It's not that difficult to understand!!
doh laugh clodagh are you on PMTlaugh laugh
Aug 26, 2009 6:56 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
derrywoman: clodagh are you on PMT


Maybe..maybe not.



laugh laugh laugh
Aug 26, 2009 7:00 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
Iamthinking
IamthinkingIamthinkingDublin, Ireland31 Threads 205 Posts
derrywoman: not always though Clodagh,,i would talk about it if in a relationship,,and have,as i think,even though it effects all women different,maybe from mood swings,pain,tearful etc,then its only fair that u talk to the man in your life about it jmo




hug teddybear
Aug 26, 2009 7:04 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
derrywoman: not always true,you see you judging all women the same too


Yes Dear, No Dear, Three Bags Full Dear......rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 26, 2009 7:14 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
Iamthinking
IamthinkingIamthinkingDublin, Ireland31 Threads 205 Posts
derrywoman: not always true,you see you judging all women the same too



It seems to me there are no 'universal types' either in the male or female species.

There are particular good women who accept themselves as they are and are willing to explain what is going on for them (when they are not feeling good) to their male partners, without dumping on them.

On the other side of the fence there are good men who accept they dont understand the comlete and complex makeup of their woman, but they are willing to understand (even if they find it difficult to undersatnd because it keeps changing)if they are treated with due respect.

If they are presented with the truth even if that truth is 'you will never understand but I still want you to listen' then 'good man' shall listen! Man is after all, either 'with' or 'not with' his woman. When 'good man' is 'with'his woman he will go anywhere she needs to go -its in his genes!


teddybear teddybear teddybear
Aug 26, 2009 7:42 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
Ok guys imagine when your fave footy team are in the finals it goes to a penatly shoot out imagine the high when your team score and the low when they miss one that high dropped down to a low imagine that but mulitply it by 100 and thats somewhere near what its like when your hormones control your body the ups and downs and if all else fails cuddles,chocolate and a hot water bottle always work wave
Aug 26, 2009 7:58 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
ladylumps: Ok guys imagine when your fave footy team are in the finals it goes to a penatly shoot out imagine the high when your team score and the low when they miss one that high dropped down to a low imagine that but mulitply it by 100 and thats somewhere near what its like when your hormones control your body the ups and downs and if all else fails cuddles,chocolate and a hot water bottle always work


well put sineadwave
Aug 26, 2009 8:07 AM CST Has Woman's PMT Ever Caused You To give Up On A Relationship
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
ladylumps: Ok guys imagine when your fave footy team are in the finals it goes to a penatly shoot out imagine the high when your team score and the low when they miss one that high dropped down to a low imagine that but mulitply it by 100 and thats somewhere near what its like when your hormones control your body the ups and downs and if all else fails cuddles,chocolate and a hot water bottle always work


So all the Liverpool fans had PMS last season? confused rolling on the floor laughing
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