Unrequited Love... ( Archived) (21)

Sep 5, 2009 12:58 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Ever fallen in love with someone, but they just didn't feel the same?...share your story...




I Can't Make You Love Me lyrics
Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me.
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't.
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holdin me
Mornin will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight.
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't.
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Sep 5, 2009 1:17 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
A... my story...i was 6... and she was 40..or something... she was my Kindergarthen teacher ... grin
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Sep 5, 2009 1:18 PM CST Unrequited Love...
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Boban1: A... my story...i was 6... and she was 40..or something... she was my Kindergarthen teacher ...


Cradle snatcher then!rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 5, 2009 2:10 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I think almost everyone alive must have loved someone who didn't love them back..... This is the issue with our hearts, they are not controlled by our brains.
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Sep 5, 2009 2:16 PM CST Unrequited Love...
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Big_John: I think almost everyone alive must have loved someone who didn't love them back..... This is the issue with our hearts, they are not controlled by our brains.


True. If we left hearts unfettered they would just give out endless love to everyone and experess it in every way possible.

What a strange world we'd be living in then huh?laugh
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Sep 5, 2009 2:27 PM CST Unrequited Love...
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
gingerb: True. If we left hearts unfettered they would just give out endless love to everyone and experess it in every way possible.

What a strange world we'd be living in then huh?


It seems you do that more often than most....rolling on the floor laughing

How you doing hun?

It's odd but I think I have turned things around and my
head rules my heart these days, either that or I have no
heart left...dunno

bouquet devil
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Sep 5, 2009 4:01 PM CST Unrequited Love...
ladyfingers
ladyfingersladyfingersclovis, nm, New Mexico USA261 Threads 1 Polls 5,456 Posts
It really sucks, doesn't it.moping
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Sep 5, 2009 4:09 PM CST Unrequited Love...
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
SirenLydia: It seems you do that more often than most....

How you doing hun?

It's odd but I think I have turned things around and my
head rules my heart these days, either that or I have no
heart left...




Doing fine Lydia.hug wave wink

Well if I had a penny for evey time I was called heartless on here...rolling on the floor laughing Nobody really knows anyone. They just think they do. wine
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Sep 5, 2009 5:41 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Tori71
Tori71Tori71wollongong, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 143 Posts
Love can be cruel
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Sep 13, 2009 6:03 PM CST Unrequited Love...
the7thanswer
the7thanswerthe7thanswerorlando, Florida USA48 Posts
happened to me twice, the final nail in my coffin is jun 5th of next year.
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Sep 13, 2009 6:07 PM CST Unrequited Love...
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Unrequited Love?confused You quit love, then you requit...and un-re-quited....that means you un requit once but that leaves the quited love to start with......so!......you quited...love.


Don't give up!confused I think!frustrated
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Sep 13, 2009 6:08 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Lagoona22: Ever fallen in love with someone, but they just didn't feel the same?...share your story...

Can't Make You Love Me lyrics
Turn down the lights
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me.
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't.
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holdin me
Mornin will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight.
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
Cause I can't make you love me if you don't.



Yup I sure have but I'll get over the hurt.I'm a big girl.But I won't become a bitter woman because of it.
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Sep 13, 2009 6:15 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
Never. I am fortunate I suppose.

I have suffered the reverse though, more than once. It is difficult to tell somebody you do not care for them in the same way, particularly for somebody like me who hates hurting another persons feelings.

Cowardly perhaps on my part, or perhaps too caring. dunno
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Sep 13, 2009 6:54 PM CST Unrequited Love...
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Jan1305: Never. I am fortunate I suppose.

I have suffered the reverse though, more than once. It is difficult to tell somebody you do not care for them in the same way, particularly for somebody like me who hates hurting another persons feelings.

Cowardly perhaps on my part, or perhaps too caring.


I wouldn't know, but if giving your opinion causes hurt then you appear to have no problem.

Relationships are based on trust. Truth plays an important part in that trusting process.

The truth hurts, but less than lies and if you pretended to love somebody or at least pretended to feel for them more than you actually did then that's insincere behaviour and not nice and living a lie and going to cause ultimately more hurt than the truth.
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Sep 13, 2009 6:59 PM CST Unrequited Love...
sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 Posts
I am fortunate in that although love has failed it was something we both felt when it began. grin
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Sep 13, 2009 7:00 PM CST Unrequited Love...
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
RobertC2: I wouldn't know, but if giving your opinion causes hurt then you appear to have no problem.

Relationships are based on trust. Truth plays an important part in that trusting process.

The truth hurts, but less than lies and if you pretended to love somebody or at least pretended to feel for them more than you actually did then that's insincere behaviour and not nice and living a lie and going to cause ultimately more hurt than the truth.


Why are you being so idiotic with me tonight?

I did not say that I had lied, nor pretended to love anybody, I said that it was difficult to tell somebody that your feelings were not as strong as theirs. It is possible to have a relationship where one is more enamoured than the other, no?. I´m sure you have experienced this in your long dating history. I bow to your experience. I met my ex husband at 16 and stayed with him until my forties. I do not seem to have your track record so enlighten me.
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Sep 13, 2009 8:14 PM CST Unrequited Love...
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I did fall deeply in love with someone. I thought she felt the same about me...at least she said she did.

In the end, I don't think she really did love me. It took me a long time to figure that out and it has helped. But the months of pain I went through when she broke my heart was real.

I am not sure if that was technically unrequited love, but it was close.
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Sep 13, 2009 8:46 PM CST Unrequited Love...
MEDTECH662
MEDTECH662MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA12 Threads 641 Posts
Everybody plays the fool sometime,no exception to the rule
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Sep 13, 2009 8:50 PM CST Unrequited Love...
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
MEDTECH662: Everybody plays the fool sometime,no exception to the rule


..................Very correct.....well said Lady...thumbs up


J.Dgrin devil
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Sep 13, 2009 8:53 PM CST Unrequited Love...
MEDTECH662
MEDTECH662MEDTECH662Ity Bity, Tennessee USA12 Threads 641 Posts
Great song too
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