Don't know really. I am extremely picky. I was hurt but got over it years ago. I did have a great marriage for 21 years, so lots of good memories. Could be that I don't want to put the effort into it. Who knows. Paws
Since my divorce 10 years ago I can count the number of short term relationships on one hand. All mainly thanx to my oldest son who would do or say something to the women when introduced.
I guess it's mainly a matter of finding the right one. With Peaches, only time will tell.
Took care of others and could never put that burden on someone else, though I have been engaged but never go through with it. Then for the last few years, tried to enjoy a life without having to worry about taking care of someone else, but miss having someone there. Now just making friends and hoping that eventually there will be that spark and a chance at for a lifetime with someone special.
The biggest reason is me and my son feeling unwanted and ignored. It's hard when your married and raising a little boy. Definetly hard, when you feel your doing it all by yourself. It hurts and its hard to get over. All I can say is I am a giver and he was a taker...
cos not many women want to take on a 42 year old with 4 kids, even though they dont stay with me.They'll end up trying to hit on my son who's 19. I take it, it is the same for women in a similar position
I married forever, but when she cheated, forever came early. So now i'm here alone, looking, having fun, but wishing I had someone to love, that loved me too
I dedicated all my time to my children. Now that they are a little older and I have proved that I can handle my life without a man by my side, I will not get involved with just anyone. I know whom I want to share my life with and until then I will keep it just like it is, peaceful, simple and happy!
Why am i alone? That's an easy one, because my boyfriend dumped me on Saturday after 9 months together, on our 9 month anniversary....but i'm not really alone, i have a lot of wonderful friends, lots here! Things are looking up and i am moving on!
every one who know's me know's why i am alone and i am proud to be alone at the moment for one time in my life i had the chance to really do thing's for me not for a**hole like he was ....lol me myself and I for now!!!
I am alone because there are things that I still need to figure out in my life and deal with at this particular point and I'm not sure whether I would have the time and energy to commit to a relationship.
A committed relationship is a goal that I do have for my future but I am also at the stage where I am trying to be patient and not rush and to develop a true friendship first. I've rushed in the past and hopefully I'm learning from my mistakes because I would like a partner who will be there with me for many more years to come.
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).