COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE, ( Archived) (106)

Jul 26, 2006 3:59 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
justabigrose
justabigrosejustabigrosegreen forest, Arkansas USA23 Threads 1,162 Posts
so why are you alone are you pickie or just not in a hurry to find someone have you been hurt so bad you cant trust anyone...so tell me hug
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Jul 26, 2006 4:05 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Don't know really. I am extremely picky. I was hurt but got over it years ago. I did have a great marriage for 21 years, so lots of good memories. Could be that I don't want to put the effort into it. Who knows. Paws
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Jul 26, 2006 4:06 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
cause i enjoy it.
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Jul 26, 2006 4:06 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
native_grl38
native_grl38native_grl38Belleville, Canada10 Threads 4,332 Posts
I'm alone because I choose to be until I find the right man for me this time.

I have had so many one-sided and dead-end, long-term relationships, that I'm not willing to settle anymore or waste my time!



conversing
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Jul 26, 2006 4:07 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
Since my divorce 10 years ago I can count the number of short term relationships on one hand. All mainly thanx to my oldest son who would do or say something to the women when introduced.

I guess it's mainly a matter of finding the right one. With Peaches, only time will tell.
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Jul 26, 2006 4:08 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
IrishLass1
IrishLass1IrishLass1Metairie, USA71 Threads 1,998 Posts
Took care of others and could never put that burden on someone else, though I have been engaged but never go through with it. Then for the last few years, tried to enjoy a life without having to worry about taking care of someone else, but miss having someone there. Now just making friends and hoping that eventually there will be that spark and a chance at for a lifetime with someone special. angel smitten
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Jul 26, 2006 4:08 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
Fdapolis
FdapolisFdapolis154 Posts
Im alone because of poor decisions that were made that cost me my relationship. Some people are hard headed and slow learners.lol.laugh
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Jul 26, 2006 4:09 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
I'm not in a hurry, so I'm taking my time in order to find someone that really WOW'S me in all ways grin

I've already got grey's coming in and I'm not getting any younger so...I guess I can't say I want someone before I'm old and grey tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 26, 2006 4:09 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
keith_male
keith_malekeith_maleFraser Lake, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 370 Posts
I must be enjoyin' it or I wouldn't be doin' it.......
I've spent more of the last 21 years alone than with someone.....

I prefer being alone to being aggravated........ Yes'm
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Jul 26, 2006 4:11 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Sure sweetie,

I made that decision, for many reasons...

The biggest reason is me and my son feeling unwanted
and ignored. It's hard when your married and raising
a little boy. Definetly hard, when you feel your
doing it all by yourself. It hurts and its hard to
get over. All I can say is I am a giver and he was
a taker...
blues
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Jul 26, 2006 4:14 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
justabigrose
justabigrosejustabigrosegreen forest, Arkansas USA23 Threads 1,162 Posts
am alone cause i was hurt and used,but am trying to move on ,if my heart will let me
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Jul 26, 2006 4:14 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
jimbhoy
jimbhoyjimbhoyHamilton, Strathclyde, Scotland UK80 Threads 2 Polls 4,142 Posts
cos not many women want to take on a 42 year old with 4 kids, even though they dont stay with me.They'll end up trying to hit on my son who's 19. I take it, it is the same for women in a similar position
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Jul 26, 2006 4:15 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Totally understand...wink
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Jul 26, 2006 4:15 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
I like this:

Happiness is as a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.
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Jul 26, 2006 4:16 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
Funnybone
FunnyboneFunnybonePomerene, Arizona USA34 Threads 574 Posts
I married forever, but when she cheated, forever came early. So now i'm here alone, looking, having fun, but wishing I had someone to love, that loved me too love
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Jul 26, 2006 4:17 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
murasakiheart
murasakiheartmurasakiheartSprings, Florida USA7 Threads 343 Posts
I dedicated all my time to my children. Now that they are a little older and I have proved that I can handle my life without a man by my side, I will not get involved with just anyone. I know whom I want to share my life with and until then I will keep it just like it is, peaceful, simple and happy!
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Jul 26, 2006 4:18 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
SHYGIRL31
SHYGIRL31SHYGIRL31Port Perry, Ontario Canada13 Threads 574 Posts
Why am i alone? That's an easy one, because my boyfriend dumped me on Saturday after 9 months together, on our 9 month anniversary....but i'm not really alone, i have a lot of wonderful friends, lots here! Things are looking up and i am moving on!applause grin
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Jul 26, 2006 4:35 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
every one who know's me know's why i am alone and i am proud to be alone at the moment for one time in my life i had the chance to really do thing's for me not for a**hole like he was ....lol angel angel angel me myself and I for now!!!love
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Jul 26, 2006 4:43 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Hi mariegold.:bye:

Glad to hear you are another strong
independent woman...
laugh wine
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Jul 26, 2006 5:15 PM CST COME TELL ME WHY YOUR ALONE,
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
I am alone because there are things that I still need to figure out in my life and deal with at this particular point and I'm not sure whether I would have the time and energy to commit to a relationship.

A committed relationship is a goal that I do have for my future but I am also at the stage where I am trying to be patient and not rush and to develop a true friendship first. I've rushed in the past and hopefully I'm learning from my mistakes because I would like a partner who will be there with me for many more years to come.
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