My mother... (56)
Now I'm already 41 years old. She also always scold me.
Anyway my everything is bad in her eyes.
She gave me birth and raised me. but why she always hurt me so deeply. I'm not her thing, I'm a human being wiht my self esteem.
Sometimes I really can't stand her.
I don't know waht to do with her.
Anyway my everything is bad in her eyes.
She gave me birth and raised me. but why she always hurt me so deeply. I'm not her thing, I'm a human being wiht my self esteem.
Sometimes I really can't stand her.
I don't know waht to do with her.
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I always come back from my parents home with my tears full of my eyes.
I dislike to go there but I must I have to. because they are my parents. because they raise me.
I can't argue with them, I can't talk back to them. what I can do is that tolerance tolerance.
But I know very clearly they love me. But why they show their love in this way?????
I dislike to go there but I must I have to. because they are my parents. because they raise me.
I can't argue with them, I can't talk back to them. what I can do is that tolerance tolerance.
But I know very clearly they love me. But why they show their love in this way?????
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Awwwww Amenda 
I'm sure they really do love you very much but sadly some people cannot show their love. They just don't know how to because their parents didn't show them any
I'm sure they really do love you very much but sadly some people cannot show their love. They just don't know how to because their parents didn't show them any
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I can't forget those dark days when I was a little girl.
I was so frightened when they fight each other. I cried to beg them: stop stop but ...terrible childhood indeed.
I remember when i was about 11 years old. That day they fighted again. I shouted at them: if you don't stop, I'll leave and never come back..they were shocked there and stop...
They really rarely fighted since then.
I know they love me...
I think the most terrible thing in the world is that they kill you with love.
I was so frightened when they fight each other. I cried to beg them: stop stop but ...terrible childhood indeed.
I remember when i was about 11 years old. That day they fighted again. I shouted at them: if you don't stop, I'll leave and never come back..they were shocked there and stop...
They really rarely fighted since then.
I know they love me...
I think the most terrible thing in the world is that they kill you with love.
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I ran away from home a few times because mine argued.. They were always so stressed out with their businesses. They don't realise the pain and hurt they can inflict.
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Tough love?
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SummerUK: Awwwww Amenda
I'm sure they really do love you very much but sadly some people cannot show their love. They just don't know how to because their parents didn't show them any
I'm sure they really do love you very much but sadly some people cannot show their love. They just don't know how to because their parents didn't show them any
Dear summer, you don't know how sad I am. In fact my face is full of tears now.
I can't express well in English.
I'm a person who see money very light. but they ..
I'm very wide minded. but they say i'm silly
My niece will get married tomorrow.
my brother and sister in law divorced a few years ago.
In fact my parents home and my niece home is very close, only walk about 5 minutes. My sisterin law ask me to tell my parents to walk to their home and I said yes.
After i came back to tell my monter about this. my mother scolded me hardly. she said I'm silly. I should ask to my sisterin law to send a car to pick them up....
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Marriage ceremony is not easy to hold. My ex sister in law is not easy to busy with this or that. why they still ask those useless thing...
I must say that my mother really narrow minded though I dislike to admit this.
I must say that my mother really narrow minded though I dislike to admit this.
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Yes, we can select everything but parents.
I promise don't go there but i know I'll break my promise again.
Only because they are my parents...
Every time when I go out of their dooe. I would have a deep breath. oh dear
I promise don't go there but i know I'll break my promise again.
Only because they are my parents...
Every time when I go out of their dooe. I would have a deep breath. oh dear
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Amenda: Dear summer, you don't know how sad I am. In fact my face is full of tears now.
I can't express well in English.
I'm a person who see money very light. but they ..
I'm very wide minded. but they say i'm silly
My niece will get married tomorrow.
my brother and sister in law divorced a few years ago.
In fact my parents home and my niece home is very close, only walk about 5 minutes. My sisterin law ask me to tell my parents to walk to their home and I said yes.
After i came back to tell my monter about this. my mother scolded me hardly. she said I'm silly. I should ask to my sisterin law to send a car to pick them up....
I can't express well in English.
I'm a person who see money very light. but they ..
I'm very wide minded. but they say i'm silly
My niece will get married tomorrow.
my brother and sister in law divorced a few years ago.
In fact my parents home and my niece home is very close, only walk about 5 minutes. My sisterin law ask me to tell my parents to walk to their home and I said yes.
After i came back to tell my monter about this. my mother scolded me hardly. she said I'm silly. I should ask to my sisterin law to send a car to pick them up....
You know what? Its times you stood up for yourself. You can't let them do this to you. They may not even know that they are hurting you so much. Maybe you should sit down and talk to them and tell them how you feel.
Sometimes people don't realise unless its spelled out to them.
I did it eventually and its very liberating. You will feel better within yourself even if they don't react in a positive way when you tell them.
If you don't want to confront them directly write them a letter. sometimes its better to do that because you can pour out your heart without any interruptions
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Amenda: I learned too much from my parents ...
I know how to treat my daughter. I always encourage her, and made her a confidence person.
I know how to treat my daughter. I always encourage her, and made her a confidence person.
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My now sister in law is a mean person, she always ask my brother to make trouble to my old ex sister in law.
really boring, I really don't like that kind of person.
They ask me to go to my niece home to lead a car to pick my parents. I said NO. I dislike to do that.
Sometimes I'm very stubborn I think.
Maybe they will ask my second brother to lead the car.
Non of my business, don't like to mix in that kind of thing.
really boring, I really don't like that kind of person.
They ask me to go to my niece home to lead a car to pick my parents. I said NO. I dislike to do that.
Sometimes I'm very stubborn I think.
Maybe they will ask my second brother to lead the car.
Non of my business, don't like to mix in that kind of thing.
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SummerUK: You know what? Its times you stood up for yourself. You can't let them do this to you. They may not even know that they are hurting you so much. Maybe you should sit down and talk to them and tell them how you feel.
Sometimes people don't realise unless its spelled out to them.
I did it eventually and its very liberating. You will feel better within yourself even if they don't react in a positive way when you tell them.
If you don't want to confront them directly write them a letter. sometimes its better to do that because you can pour out your heart without any interruptions
Sometimes people don't realise unless its spelled out to them.
I did it eventually and its very liberating. You will feel better within yourself even if they don't react in a positive way when you tell them.
If you don't want to confront them directly write them a letter. sometimes its better to do that because you can pour out your heart without any interruptions
oh, dear. I'm not afraid being laughed by you.
They can't read letters....
Really not easy to communicate with them
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This is another reason for me want to leave here, never come back. the farther the better...
I always look down on myself in fact. what I can only do is escape...
I always look down on myself in fact. what I can only do is escape...
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If a person always say you are nothing you are just a fool.
What will you become into?
You will find that you are really nothing and only a fool one day.
What will you become into?
You will find that you are really nothing and only a fool one day.
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Amenda: oh, dear. I'm not afraid being laughed by you.
They can't read letters....
Really not easy to communicate with them
They can't read letters....
Really not easy to communicate with them
Honey I'd never laugh at you OR your parents
Its a difficult situation for you but I think you should concentrate on the thoughts that you are obviously a good mother yourself and are determined not to bring your own child up the same way.. You should be proud of yourself
That makes you a strong and loving person who is to be admired
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Amenda: This is another reason for me want to leave here, never come back. the farther the better...
I always look down on myself in fact. what I can only do is escape...
I always look down on myself in fact. what I can only do is escape...
I'm always trying to run away..
Maybe we should swap. You come here and I'll go there
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SummerUK: Honey I'd never laugh at you OR your parents
Its a difficult situation for you but I think you should concentrate on the thoughts that you are obviously a good mother yourself and are determined not to bring your own child up the same way.. You should be proud of yourself
That makes you a strong and loving person who is to be admired
Its a difficult situation for you but I think you should concentrate on the thoughts that you are obviously a good mother yourself and are determined not to bring your own child up the same way.. You should be proud of yourself
That makes you a strong and loving person who is to be admired
If you are really in front of me, I would throw myself into your arms and let my tears out and out and out freely...
So kind of you to say this kind of words and
also thanks to all the people here to comfort me...
I'm really not that bat that useless, I can do a lot good things...
Yes, now my daughter like me very much, she speaks all in her mind to me. we are ust like friends. I often make her laugh and she too. we are really very happy ...
That's the only hope I still have I think.
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SummerUK: I'm always trying to run away..
Maybe we should swap. You come here and I'll go there
Maybe we should swap. You come here and I'll go there
I laugh with tears on my face.
Summer, You can't live here for even one minute...
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I'm not good at telling a lie, she said I'm silly
I'm not good at manage money, I didn't manage money when I was together with my ex. I even didn't know how much money we had, she said I'm silly.
She has so many rules, in fact she had so many rules when I was a young girl. she used to scolded me in front of other person...
She loves me I know but her love can make me die!!!!!
She never come to see and taste my dishes I made but she said I'm stupid I'm not good at cooking. In fact my daughter likes my dished very much....
oh, dear. I really want to leave here, never come back...
I think I'm lucky I'm still a normal person in the shadow she made for me...