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ukrainegary48Donetsk, Uzbekistan63 Threads 1,113 Postsi have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
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Do you mean that when you have wanted a relationship and have slept with someone on the first date it never works out ????
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............And I though I was the 'King' as in the 'Stirrer of Pot' on here..... 
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J.D
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ukrainegary48: i have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
can you send me her address please .....
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yes every time i have slept with a women on the first date. it has never worked out.
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ukrainegary48: i have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
I have a few rules
-don`t wear jeans with a zipper when you drink beer
- don`t piss on a electric fence
-Pretend you know her name........ in the morning
-don`t mix vodka and beer ...with wine
-don`t piss on a electric fence again
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but don't really have to worry about that rule in Ukraine. the odds of getting laid on first date are not real good.
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ukrainegary48: i have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
Good grief! Is it a test? You try your best to get your date into bed in order to fail your test if she does or pass if she refuses?
Why even try to entice your date into your bed if you think so poorly of women who comply on the first date? That´s just selfish, and you are acting in the same way......no, actually worse than your date if she agrees to sleep with you.
You´re in a relationship anyway aren´t you? That being the case, you no longer have to apply your silly rules.
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JMO . anyone who wants a relationship is not going to sleep with you on the first date . And any one that has done this know's that .
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Jan1305: Good grief! Is it a test? You try your best to get your date into bed in order to fail your test if she does or pass if she refuses?
Why even try to entice your date into your bed if you think so poorly of women who comply on the first date? That´s just selfish, and you are acting in the same way......no, actually worse than your date if she agrees to sleep with you.
You´re in a relationship anyway aren´t you? That being the case, you no longer have to apply your silly rules.
Why even try to entice your date into your bed if you think so poorly of women who comply on the first date? That´s just selfish, and you are acting in the same way......no, actually worse than your date if she agrees to sleep with you.
You´re in a relationship anyway aren´t you? That being the case, you no longer have to apply your silly rules.
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Was waiting for you show up Jan..... 
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So what's the magic number, then? 3rd date? 6th? 4 months? A year? This "rule" people impose upon themselves (or others) is ridiculous. I agree completely with Jan. You set some sort of standard, yet you are perfectly content with allowing the woman to break YOUR standard for your own satisfaction and selfish gratification, then you turn around and basically blame her for being the reason that you can't or won't have a relationship with her.
Here's a tip....
Don't take her to your bed, don't encourage, don't lead her on. If you do these things, the problem is yours. If you want a relationship with a woman but feel that this won't be possible if you sleep with her on the first date....then, for Christ's sake, DON'T SLEEP WITH HER!
Own up, man up, and stop putting the blame on the woman!
Here's a tip....
Don't take her to your bed, don't encourage, don't lead her on. If you do these things, the problem is yours. If you want a relationship with a woman but feel that this won't be possible if you sleep with her on the first date....then, for Christ's sake, DON'T SLEEP WITH HER!
Own up, man up, and stop putting the blame on the woman!
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Jan1305: Good grief! Is it a test? You try your best to get your date into bed in order to fail your test if she does or pass if she refuses?
Why even try to entice your date into your bed if you think so poorly of women who comply on the first date? That´s just selfish, and you are acting in the same way......no, actually worse than your date if she agrees to sleep with you.
You´re in a relationship anyway aren´t you? That being the case, you no longer have to apply your silly rules.
Why even try to entice your date into your bed if you think so poorly of women who comply on the first date? That´s just selfish, and you are acting in the same way......no, actually worse than your date if she agrees to sleep with you.
You´re in a relationship anyway aren´t you? That being the case, you no longer have to apply your silly rules.
Exactly..
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This all presumes that women who sleep with a man on the first date is a slag and so respect is lost. However have you ever thought that the respect for ourself is missing. I heard a saying that men fall in love with their eyes and women with their ears. If a man seduces a woman on the first date may just mean you have swept her off her feet not that this is a common event for her. So maybe it is a lack of confidence or self esteem that a man assumes 'if she will sleep with me she will sleep with anyone'.
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scousedon: This all presumes that women who sleep with a man on the first date is a slag and so respect is lost. However have you ever thought that the respect for ourself is missing. I heard a saying that men fall in love with their eyes and women with their ears. If a man seduces a woman on the first date may just mean you have swept her off her feet not that this is a common event for her. So maybe it is a lack of confidence or self esteem that a man assumes 'if she will sleep with me she will sleep with anyone'.
Blimey..do we have a guy with brains in the house??
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Then stop sleeping with them on the first date.
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So they are good enough to use for your own gratification but not good enough for anything more?
Are they unworthy of a great guy like you because they slept with you the first time you tried to get them in bed?
You are unbelievable.
Are they unworthy of a great guy like you because they slept with you the first time you tried to get them in bed?
You are unbelievable.
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If you are really looking for a long term relationship, discarding those attracted to you sounds counter productive. I generally hold off on making a pass until I want an exclussive relationship with someone. My policy is simple keep it in your pants until you are serious about someone and your problem goes away.
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ukrainegary48: i have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
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ukrainegary48: i have a rule in dating. if i get her in bed on the first date, i will never go out with her again. for me over the years. it has never worked in a relationship.
It does sound dumb.
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And let me ask this---do you tell the prospective bedee of the rule beforehand? Or is this a secret rule?
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