Sometimes you just can't get the courage to even give it your all when your all has been given so many times...What's bad is spilling your guts to someone and then they give up and leave after a couple of weeks...Looking for some good advice how and when to "throw your trash out in the streets"?
If you haven't dumped your trash then you aren't ready to move on to another relationship. I don't think that you necessarily have to spill your guts to anyone about your past...think beforehand if it is going to do any good to bring it up. And if you do, you have to be sure thats where it will remain.
Wayne I don't know you that well but from what little I pick up on the forums, you seem to be still living your unpleasant past. And you seem to find the need to dwell on it. I know it's real and frustrating for you but others don't need to hear it, especially if you are trying to start another relationship.
Can't you just say yeah my past sucked and move on with the new, exciting and fun stuff?
Iam....just so you know....my response was just from my past experience and self-realization that, first, you have to know when you're ready to move on, and second, sometimes too much info given to others isn't always a good thing.
My mistake....but KY girl is another story....sorry,if you meant well Assets....I have personal feelings about this subject and was seeking advice cause it is MY nature to tell friends/girlfriends too much too soon and I did tell alot about myself to Kathy cause after all,she was helping me in a tough situation that delt with some stuff from my past...so,lesson learned
you devoted this to me.You dont see me telling things you took me in your confidence and that does mean something.Im not against you not even close.We have different opinions on things and so.No it just kind bothered me that you didnt use what i told you to.Go clerk get copy transcript.Apersons past should be that unless he keeps living it over and thats not fair to you or your kids.Do you need all these court documents back or what.
Hey Assets....just to let ya know, Wayne has gone thru alot, but he hasn't let it stop him from pursuing what we all want....which is a new love in life! He's moved on and in a big way!
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