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Oct 30, 2009 7:07 PM CST Best Friend
RoeDeVinna
RoeDeVinnaRoeDeVinnaDublin, Ireland27 Threads 9 Polls 913 Posts
How do I get over loosing one of my best friends crying
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.
crying
I still cant believe it. in total shock crying crying
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Oct 30, 2009 7:15 PM CST Best Friend
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock


a memory last forever it never does die true friends stay together and never say goodbye
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Oct 30, 2009 7:23 PM CST Best Friend
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock


Sorry to hear that your going through this. comfort I really don't know anything that will take your pain away. But I'm sure if you think back on all your good times together a smile will be on your face. Wishing you well. handshake
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Oct 30, 2009 8:01 PM CST Best Friend
Karlstad
KarlstadKarlstadKarlstad, Varmland Sweden1 Threads 2 Posts
Friends Never Die!
They can never be forgoten. Keep him in your prayers. God bless you.
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Oct 30, 2009 8:04 PM CST Best Friend
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
You don't get over it. Sorry! This will be part of you forever. Time will change it, but situations, events and other things will bring it back over and over. Accept your emotions and realized it just means you loved/liked the person very much and this is the joy of you doing so.
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Oct 30, 2009 8:04 PM CST Best Friend
GMC04
GMC04GMC04pleasantville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 25 Posts
comfort he`s in a better place
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Oct 30, 2009 8:06 PM CST Best Friend
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
Stay strong. Help others friends who are going through it with you. hug
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Oct 30, 2009 8:07 PM CST Best Friend
rk696969
rk696969rk696969Springfield, Tennessee USA13 Threads 293 Posts
RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock


I am so sorry to hear that Hun !!!crying
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Oct 31, 2009 5:15 AM CST Best Friend
goodfriend
goodfriendgoodfriendglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK2 Threads 2,573 Posts
In response to: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock


Jeez Roe lass my heart goes out to you, i too lost my best friend three years ago,so unexpectedly,she is always on my mind and still i cry.bouquet bouquet for you lass.
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Oct 31, 2009 5:39 AM CST Best Friend
Arverni
ArverniArverniRed Deer, Alberta Canada38 Posts
I have to agree with Big John.

You never really get over it. There will be small things throughout life that will bring the memory of your friend flashing back with a clarity you may wish you could forget, be it a song, a scent, or a certain saying. As painful as these memories may be, hold onto to them, commit them to memory, for you will treasure them later on. If you ever have difficulty in remembering your friend, think of him in context, joyful memories will usually follow.

That is what works me. I lost 5 friends in one accident, the light plane they were passengers in collided with a mountain near Golden BC.

You will occasionally think of your friend over the years, and it may bring a tear to your eye. This will just show what an amazing impact this person had on your life.

And I am sorry that a friend was taken out of your life, no one deserves that sorrow. comfort


Take care,

Sean (aka Arverni)
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Oct 31, 2009 6:27 AM CST Best Friend
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Baby, I'm so sorry to hear that...
It will be painful for a while, try to be strong!
Prayers for her/himsad flower
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Oct 31, 2009 6:44 AM CST Best Friend
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock



comfort sigh
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Oct 31, 2009 7:37 AM CST Best Friend
Anuna
AnunaAnunaUB, Mongolia18 Threads 168 Posts
comfort bE STRONG
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Oct 31, 2009 7:40 AM CST Best Friend
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
Time and pray, you must think of the good times you had shared. Don't think or dwell on the pain so much, sorry for your loss. God bless you and yoursangel hug peace
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Oct 31, 2009 7:48 AM CST Best Friend
DonDon67
DonDon67DonDon67Columbus, Georgia USA19 Threads 2 Polls 692 Posts
DonDon67: Time and pray, you must think of the good times you had shared. Don't think or dwell on the pain so much, sorry for your loss. God bless you and yours

I hope this helps you for it helped me when my mother died
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Oct 31, 2009 7:48 AM CST Best Friend
scorpiochi
scorpiochiscorpiochiAlbuquerque , NM, New Mexico USA16 Threads 2 Polls 342 Posts
Death is an inevitable thing in everyones life . We must all go at some point . Hopefully to a better place . I have lost two good friends in the last couple years . They were pretty young .
I still feel them around . I don't think they ever go away .
I drank a lot when one passed away .

But also knew at the same time that it is not a good way to deal with it . I think it is one of the most challenging life lessons .

Charish them and appreciate them . May you know that they love you .
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Oct 31, 2009 8:21 AM CST Best Friend
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
OMG hug hug hug Thats really sad...Times cures everything as they say....But i can imagine how painful it is sad flower
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Oct 31, 2009 8:24 AM CST Best Friend
kratos
kratoskratospoint fortin, Point Fortin Trinidad and Tobago3 Threads 206 Posts
RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends
One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.

I still cant believe it. in total shock
sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower
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Oct 31, 2009 9:47 AM CST Best Friend
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
So sorry for your loss. I know the feeling. I lost my sister recently. It is a life changing event, physically and emotionally. Time eases the pain but never the sense of loss.
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Oct 31, 2009 9:48 AM CST Best Friend
krisha
krishakrishatokyo, Kanto Japan76 Threads 6,375 Posts
its hurt and we dont like this happen to anyone,but just accept that he is gone and think that is his luck..
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