RoeDeVinna: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.
I still cant believe it. in total shock
Sorry to hear that your going through this. I really don't know anything that will take your pain away. But I'm sure if you think back on all your good times together a smile will be on your face. Wishing you well.
You don't get over it. Sorry! This will be part of you forever. Time will change it, but situations, events and other things will bring it back over and over. Accept your emotions and realized it just means you loved/liked the person very much and this is the joy of you doing so.
In response to: How do I get over loosing one of my best friends One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.
I still cant believe it. in total shock
Jeez Roe lass my heart goes out to you, i too lost my best friend three years ago,so unexpectedly,she is always on my mind and still i cry. for you lass.
You never really get over it. There will be small things throughout life that will bring the memory of your friend flashing back with a clarity you may wish you could forget, be it a song, a scent, or a certain saying. As painful as these memories may be, hold onto to them, commit them to memory, for you will treasure them later on. If you ever have difficulty in remembering your friend, think of him in context, joyful memories will usually follow.
That is what works me. I lost 5 friends in one accident, the light plane they were passengers in collided with a mountain near Golden BC.
You will occasionally think of your friend over the years, and it may bring a tear to your eye. This will just show what an amazing impact this person had on your life.
And I am sorry that a friend was taken out of your life, no one deserves that sorrow.
DonDon67: Time and pray, you must think of the good times you had shared. Don't think or dwell on the pain so much, sorry for your loss. God bless you and yours
I hope this helps you for it helped me when my mother died
scorpiochiAlbuquerque , NM, New Mexico USA342 posts
Death is an inevitable thing in everyones life . We must all go at some point . Hopefully to a better place . I have lost two good friends in the last couple years . They were pretty young . I still feel them around . I don't think they ever go away . I drank a lot when one passed away .
But also knew at the same time that it is not a good way to deal with it . I think it is one of the most challenging life lessons .
Charish them and appreciate them . May you know that they love you .
So sorry for your loss. I know the feeling. I lost my sister recently. It is a life changing event, physically and emotionally. Time eases the pain but never the sense of loss.
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One of my best friends took his own life yesterday.
I still cant believe it. in total shock