I met a Lady on a dating site. We emailed and talked on the phone constantly. I fell for her fast. We finally met and she was beautiful. I knew I had found my partener for life. She said she felt the same way.
THEN, She told me there was something she had to tell me. She said she was MARRIED! She said her Husband and Her lived in the same house, and were'nt married long, only 7 years. It was her 4th marriage, she was 56 and he was 64. Hubby was sick and on oxygen and he didnt have long to live. She reassured me she wasnt in love with him but wanted to stay with him till he died.
Then she said, she knew she should have told me in the beginning and she should'nt have been on a dating site. Then she asked me if I would continue to see her on the side and wait for her husband to pass away so we could be together.
Please give me your views on what really happened here??
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
BIGEASY: I met a Lady on a dating site. We emailed and talked on the phone constantly. I fell for her fast. We finally met and she was beautiful. I knew I had found my partener for life. She said she felt the same way.
THEN, She told me there was something she had to tell me. She said she was MARRIED! She said her Husband and Her lived in the same house, and were'nt married long, only 7 years. It was her 4th marriage, she was 56 and he was 64. Hubby was sick and on oxygen and he didnt have long to live. She reassured me she wasnt in love with him but wanted to stay with him till he died.
Then she said, she knew she should have told me in the beginning and she should'nt have been on a dating site. Then she asked me if I would continue to see her on the side and wait for her husband to pass away so we could be together.
Please give me your views on what really happened here??
BIGEASY: Now why would you say something like that...I thought it would be an interesting thread to share and get opinions...Excuse me for living.
Why..?? well.. for starters.. you say you got a decent gal you LOVE and just waiting for her "hubby to check out".. yet you are on a date site "searching".. your profile reeks of such a sweet lil rascal.. one wonders just why you are alone.. THEN.. you post this attention seeking thread in the hopes that some lil gal will "take your bait".. That is WHY...!!! Now... MY suggestion.....?? Find someone whom might believe your "story".. Most us forum brats... been there, done that, seen it, have it, heard it, and have tried it before.. Search, READ, look for ANY gal you find "interesting".. and then compose a nice emailn't Isn't THAT the way one REALLY searchs..??
scousedonLiverpool, Cheshire, England UK1,643 posts
BIGEASY: Yo Boban...Wuz Sup.......Thanks but thats not an option Id like to take. Wheres all the unattached, normal, girl next door ladies hiding??....lol
BIGEASY: I met a Lady on a dating site. We emailed and talked on the phone constantly. I fell for her fast. We finally met and she was beautiful. I knew I had found my partener for life. She said she felt the same way.
THEN, She told me there was something she had to tell me. She said she was MARRIED! She said her Husband and Her lived in the same house, and were'nt married long, only 7 years. It was her 4th marriage, she was 56 and he was 64. Hubby was sick and on oxygen and he didnt have long to live. She reassured me she wasnt in love with him but wanted to stay with him till he died.
Then she said, she knew she should have told me in the beginning and she should'nt have been on a dating site. Then she asked me if I would continue to see her on the side and wait for her husband to pass away so we could be together.
Please give me your views on what really happened here??
She Lived wth him for 7 years wthout love she is waiting for his death and giving a wrong hope to u. Negative,it is very negative not fair for anybody A clearcut answer is you should not continue wth her
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
BIGEASY: I met a Lady on a dating site. We emailed and talked on the phone constantly. I fell for her fast. We finally met and she was beautiful. I knew I had found my partener for life. She said she felt the same way.
THEN, She told me there was something she had to tell me. She said she was MARRIED! She said her Husband and Her lived in the same house, and were'nt married long, only 7 years. It was her 4th marriage, she was 56 and he was 64. Hubby was sick and on oxygen and he didnt have long to live. She reassured me she wasnt in love with him but wanted to stay with him till he died.
Then she said, she knew she should have told me in the beginning and she should'nt have been on a dating site. Then she asked me if I would continue to see her on the side and wait for her husband to pass away so we could be together.
Please give me your views on what really happened here??
Wasn't there one yesterday you were trying to give the gentle heave ho, now today you got one hoping her hubby takes the big heave ho?
SoldierByte: Why..?? well.. for starters.. you say you got a decent gal you LOVE and just waiting for her "hubby to check out".. yet you are on a date site "searching".. your profile reeks of such a sweet lil rascal.. one wonders just why you are alone.. THEN.. you post this attention seeking thread in the hopes that some lil gal will "take your bait".. That is WHY...!!! Now... MY suggestion.....?? Find someone whom might believe your "story".. Most us forum brats... been there, done that, seen it, have it, heard it, and have tried it before.. Search, READ, look for ANY gal you find "interesting".. and then compose a nice emailn't Isn't THAT the way one REALLY searchs..??
---SoldierByte---
This was just an experience that happened 2 years ago....sorry but Im not seeing that woman. Not seeking attention either...but then again your the genius...Guess I never should have posted that thread. I didnt want to get bashed by people like you who dont even know what they are talking about....If you read the thead, It doesnt say Im still seeing her or waiting for her hubby to die. So before you speak your GENIOUS get the facts first.
ali110: She Lived wth him for 7 years wthout love she is waiting for his death and giving a wrong hope to u. Negative,it is very negative not fair for anybody A clearcut answer is you should not continue wth her
BIGEASY: This was just an experience that happened 2 years ago....sorry but Im not seeing that woman. Not seeking attention either...but then again your the genius...Guess I never should have posted that thread. I didnt want to get bashed by people like you who dont even know what they are talking about....If you read the thead, It doesnt say Im still seeing her or waiting for her hubby to die. So before you speak your GENIOUS get the facts first.
trust me my "bigeasy" friend.. I GOT the facts, HAD the facts.. and KNOW the facts... BEFORE I post.. Now... YOU go get MY facts.. then -- see if you wanna "play".. YOU asked for an "opinion" on your crappy story.. and when you GOT it.. you are unhappy. PLENTY of folks on here for you to "debate" with.. TRUST me... I am NOT one of em........ ---SoldierByte---
BIGEASY: Yo Boban...Wuz Sup.......Thanks but thats not an option Id like to take. Wheres all the unattached, normal, girl next door ladies hiding??....lol
ok ok ok .... we need a another scenario
you find a Indian witch doctor , who will cure her husband ....ans put a curs on her
SoldierByte: you are correct Mr.rohaan and as astute as ever..!! Mr. "easy" is a basically nice lonely guy.. I have NO quarrels with him.. Just voicing my opinion.. were I so perfect.. I'd not be here questioning his dream.. err.. I mean story.. ---SoldierByte---
Hey thanx a bunch, SB. I think you are so cool, Bud.
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THEN, She told me there was something she had to tell me.
She said she was MARRIED!
She said her Husband and Her lived in the same house, and were'nt married long, only 7 years. It was her 4th marriage, she was 56 and he was 64.
Hubby was sick and on oxygen and he didnt have long to live.
She reassured me she wasnt in love with him but wanted to stay with him till he died.
Then she said, she knew she should have told me in the beginning and she should'nt have been on a dating site.
Then she asked me if I would continue to see her on the side and wait for her husband to pass away so we could be together.
Please give me your views on what really happened here??