Need some advise!!! (17)

I have just move to spain earlier this year from England to start of a new life. Last week I recieved contact from a girl, who I used to love and I still have the same feeling about her. But when we were together, we lived separately, and she totally disappeared without any notice or warning, with no phone call or letter to me letting me know what was happening, I was really angry with this, and it really hurt me alot, I went out in the middle of the night many times looking for her, I went to the police to see if they could help me, and I went to all the nearest hospitals to check that she has not been admitted for some reason, I tried to do everything I could to track her down, but I was not successful. It really felt like that she died but without any funeral stuff So I moved on and I move to Spain and now 6months on she has contact me with an apology and she saying that she loves me, and saying that she wants me to move back to England and we can be together, because she doesn´t want to come to Spain, but now I am living in Spain, and I am working in a good job, and I have easy life, and everything is working out well for me now and Im living a bit of a life ambition. But I still have feelings for this girl, and since she has contacted me, I can´t stop thinking about her and I am angry but I am also happy to hear from, for me to give up my good life in spain and to go back to my country for love would be a huge sacrifice.
Is it worth giving up want I my life in Spain for love?

run ....run for yoru life and dont look back ..this sort of person will play fast and lose and will want you when you are not around ...and the fact that you still have feelings for her puts you in a very vulnerable position....move on a look for someone who can provide you with the commitment you are looking for ....

If she loves you and is genuinely sorry she'd at least visit you in Spain; she doesn't sound too genuine to me.

Talk is easy. You should ignore everything she says and pay attention to what she does. (Action is the ONLY thing that counts.)

You have a simple choice:

If you want her to control you and dump you, go back to the UK.

If you want to be free to live your new life and find true love... delete her emails unread.

I agree.

Action speaks louder than words; when do we meet up?

I'd slow down....send a message anad say 'Hi'...In a few weeks it's chrimbo...if you have a few days off..Go back to the UK and see her.

Trying to sort it out over the net or on phones..All you're going to do is make it worse. ANd give yourself unneccessary heart aches.. You need you eyeball her...

*****Typo******** You need to eye ball her.

if she loves you she can visit you in Spain sometimes,or you can visit her, you don't have to live together at all to love each other