They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
Some answer, some don't, it's the way it is.
I found that since I started posting on the forums I have gotten much more interest and even started receiving mails instead of me doing 'first contact'.
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
they do respond but with very slow speed and not always YES WE CAN, i guess that is why we all still here
wulfen: Some answer, some don't, it's the way it is.
I found that since I started posting on the forums I have gotten much more interest and even started receiving mails instead of me doing 'first contact'.
Good luck in your search
Thanks mate! I make it a point to respond to each and every mail/flower/friend request i get, so it is bloody irritating that people dont respond one way or another......
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
except the warning notes that i had from the CS mods ...nada
probably cos i sent too many pictures of my nide body to all the women on CS ...
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
Well;My thoughts on the subject is that if they do not have the common courtesy to send some kind of reply then you do not need that sort of person in your life anyway,and then just forget it!Those people have not matured enough to know what friendship is or even what life is about so dont sweat it man.
conjor: Well;My thoughts on the subject is that if they do not have the common courtesy to send some kind of reply then you do not need that sort of person in your life anyway,and then just forget it!Those people have not matured enough to know what friendship is or even what life is about so dont sweat it man.
I have given up on dating. So I no longer reply to messages and flowers or eCards. I, like many, have lingered on to read posts from the insane, silly and downright nutz....myself included when I decide to post.
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
Sometimes it is hard to reply especially if you are busy and the days tick on and more arrive on top etc etc. I do try to reply to ones that have made up their own words and not used the drop down lists. But I guess some get away......
Goddess4u: Sometimes it is hard to reply especially if you are busy and the days tick on and more arrive on top etc etc. I do try to reply to ones that have made up their own words and not used the drop down lists. But I guess some get away......
Lord - it must be so hard being a Goddess and having so much freaking mail..........
LaVerdad: Same here, now I do not bother replying to email unless I know the person from the forums. Even if you say you are not looking or are in a relationship some people will still ignore this. Delete and block is my motto of unwanted people lurking in the corridors of CS.
I refuse to email women who have the temerity to be in a relationship with any other guy than me, myself or I!
Except for friends......... I'll email a friend I guess...... ~sniff~
solsticemoon: ah but Im trying to convince you that it would be fun to have you above me!
We could swop!
It gets windy in the upstairs appartment (so I hear).
(it's an 'in' joke folks..... sol is trying to rent me her appartment and I'm trying to negotiate 'payment in kind'..... so far paying the rent in cash is a LOT cheaper! )
Don't wish too hard friend....as you may find yourself inundated with 'would love to meet you' mail from incredibly nice looking 26 year olds doing the rounds on here...
...but seriously....stick to the forums first and it will happen...
Here we go..typical example from this afternoon.. a guy mails me wanting to meet up next week. .A I don't know him so no chance B I did'nt find him attractive to me..so I politely replied thanks but Im dating and just here for the forums... He then emails back...well your a dishonest woman and I wouldnt be interested in you..change ur profile and stop lying.. and a few more decidedly umpleasant mails since..why can't guys just accept no for an answer and move on?
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
I have emailed a few & gotten return emails. And I return them. It is a courtesy. I'm new to this site, howerver, and not real good at navigating it.
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?
What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
This is the typical single male experience on this and similar sites. You don't have to read very far into the Forums on CS to find many similar complaints from single men on here. I've never had a bit of luck on here and I've been active on CS for over 2 years now... yet my profile mainly gets viewed from women on the other side of the planet, and almost never from anybody from my state much less my general area.
A couple weeks ago I happened to spot a woman's profile that wasn't very far from me that was actually "Online Now" for a change (most havent been online in over 4 weeks, ergo they'll probably never come back on here... I wish the site would just delete people who don't log in in over a month as they're a waste of time). Anyhows I sent her a nicely thought out but concise message. The next day I saw that she'd actually viewed my profile, but have I ever gotten a reply back? Guess!
So as I said, your experience is about the norm for single men on CS and similar sites. I have no better ideas what to do... I ran out of better ideas many years ago now.
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