What is the matter with people on this site........... ( Archived) (37)

Dec 14, 2009 11:14 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
gopi59
gopi59gopi59chennai, Tamil Nadu India20 Threads 2 Polls 260 Posts
They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:16 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
wulfen
wulfenwulfenCospicua, Xlokk Malta3 Threads 1 Polls 810 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


Some answer, some don't, it's the way it is.

I found that since I started posting on the forums I have gotten much more interest and even started receiving mails instead of me doing 'first contact'.

Good luck in your search beer
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:18 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
somone4u
somone4usomone4uMarseille, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France21 Threads 5 Polls 307 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


they do respond but with very slow speed and not always YES WE CAN, i guess that is why we all still hererolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:19 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
gopi59
gopi59gopi59chennai, Tamil Nadu India20 Threads 2 Polls 260 Posts
wulfen: Some answer, some don't, it's the way it is.

I found that since I started posting on the forums I have gotten much more interest and even started receiving mails instead of me doing 'first contact'.

Good luck in your search


Thanks mate! I make it a point to respond to each and every mail/flower/friend request i get, so it is bloody irritating that people dont respond one way or another......

cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:19 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


except the warning notes that i had from the CS mods ...nada

probably cos i sent too many pictures of my nide body to all the women on CS ...grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:21 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


dunno Perhaps they are not gay ! ...........rolling on the floor laughing tongue
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:24 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......
Well;My thoughts on the subject is that if they do not have the common courtesy to send some kind of reply then you do not need that sort of person in your life anyway,and then just forget it!Those people have not matured enough to know what friendship is or even what life is about so dont sweat it man.peace
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:26 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
gopi59
gopi59gopi59chennai, Tamil Nadu India20 Threads 2 Polls 260 Posts
conjor: Well;My thoughts on the subject is that if they do not have the common courtesy to send some kind of reply then you do not need that sort of person in your life anyway,and then just forget it!Those people have not matured enough to know what friendship is or even what life is about so dont sweat it man.


Thank you! cheers
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 11:50 AM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
gopi59
gopi59gopi59chennai, Tamil Nadu India20 Threads 2 Polls 260 Posts
Boban1: except the warning notes that i had from the CS mods ...nada

probably cos i sent too many pictures of my nide body to all the women on CS ...
scold not the done thing on this site you know......instead you should be sending money to all those lovely scammers.........laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:00 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
I have given up on dating. So I no longer reply to messages and flowers or eCards. I, like many, have lingered on to read posts from the insane, silly and downright nutz....myself included when I decide to post.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:04 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
Sometimes it is hard to reply especially if you are busy and the days tick on and more arrive on top etc etc. I do try to reply to ones that have made up their own words and not used the drop down lists. But I guess some get away...... conversing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:06 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Goddess4u: Sometimes it is hard to reply especially if you are busy and the days tick on and more arrive on top etc etc. I do try to reply to ones that have made up their own words and not used the drop down lists. But I guess some get away......


Lord - it must be so hard being a Goddess and having so much freaking mail.......... sigh grin wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:08 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
LaVerdad: Same here, now I do not bother replying to email unless I know the person from the forums. Even if you say you are not looking or are in a relationship some people will still ignore this. Delete and block is my motto of unwanted people lurking in the corridors of CS.


I refuse to email women who have the temerity to be in a relationship with any other guy than me, myself or I! tongue

Except for friends......... I'll email a friend I guess...... ~sniff~

laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:10 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
solsticemoon: ah but Im trying to convince you that it would be fun to have you above me!


We could swop!

It gets windy in the upstairs appartment (so I hear).

(it's an 'in' joke folks..... sol is trying to rent me her appartment and I'm trying to negotiate 'payment in kind'..... so far paying the rent in cash is a LOT cheaper! moping )
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:10 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Don't wish too hard friend....as you may find yourself inundated with 'would love to meet you' mail from incredibly nice looking 26 year olds doing the rounds on here...

rolling on the floor laughing

...but seriously....stick to the forums first and it will happen...

wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:21 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
RobertC2: Lord - it must be so hard being a Goddess and having so much freaking mail..........


Yes, quite, its not all milk and honey, you know professor wink
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:23 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
solsticemoon
solsticemoonsolsticemoonjavea, Valencia Spain64 Threads 4,504 Posts
Here we go..typical example from this afternoon..
a guy mails me wanting to meet up next week.
.A I don't know him so no chance
B I did'nt find him attractive to me..so I politely replied thanks but Im dating and just here for the forums...
He then emails back...well your a dishonest woman and I wouldnt be interested in you..change ur profile and stop lying..
and a few more decidedly umpleasant mails since..why can't guys just accept no for an answer and move on?doh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:27 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Hummingbird4U
Hummingbird4UHummingbird4UDenver, Colorado USA86 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


I have emailed a few & gotten return emails. And I return them. It is a courtesy. I'm new to this site, howerver, and not real good at navigating it.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:29 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
Michael211_2000
Michael211_2000Michael211_2000Houston, Texas USA22 Threads 5 Polls 775 Posts
gopi59: They just dont even bother to reply to youe e-mails,flowers or friend requests.........is it not a courtesy, to reply with a thank you, but no thanks.......courtesy e-mail?

What has been your experience......pleased to hear......


This is the typical single male experience on this and similar sites. You don't have to read very far into the Forums on CS to find many similar complaints from single men on here. I've never had a bit of luck on here and I've been active on CS for over 2 years now... yet my profile mainly gets viewed from women on the other side of the planet, and almost never from anybody from my state much less my general area.

A couple weeks ago I happened to spot a woman's profile that wasn't very far from me that was actually "Online Now" for a change (most havent been online in over 4 weeks, ergo they'll probably never come back on here... I wish the site would just delete people who don't log in in over a month as they're a waste of time). Anyhows I sent her a nicely thought out but concise message. The next day I saw that she'd actually viewed my profile, but have I ever gotten a reply back? Guess! frustrated

So as I said, your experience is about the norm for single men on CS and similar sites. I have no better ideas what to do... I ran out of better ideas many years ago now. help

- Michael moping
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dec 14, 2009 12:30 PM CST What is the matter with people on this site...........
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
All I have to say is that there are a hell of a lot of crazy people on this site....

If you dont expect you wont be dissapointed....

Hi Gopi....wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,956 Views
36 Comments
Created: Dec 2009
Last Viewed: 28 mins ago
Last Commented: Dec 2009

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here