Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken? ( Archived) (180)

Jan 2, 2010 1:06 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????crying
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Jan 2, 2010 1:09 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
time will heel it,im the same too ,confused
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Jan 2, 2010 1:11 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
ella1976: time will heel it,im the same too ,


Gosh....but it´s hard Ella....Thanks for answering though......teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 1:25 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
whiteflash
whiteflashwhiteflashFlint, Michigan USA3 Threads 193 Posts
In response to: Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????


How did you manage that? Maybe 1 out of 1000 on here that are taken. The other 999 are the ones you should have been talking to in the first place.
Did you know from the start?dunno frustrated
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Jan 2, 2010 1:29 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
whiteflash: How did you manage that? Maybe 1 out of 1000 on here that are taken. The other 999 are the ones you should have been talking to in the first place.
Did you know from the start?


No, I did´nt whiteflash...he was´nt taken...plus I did´nt even like him....but now I do....shoot!
Thanks for the answer dear!bouquet
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Jan 2, 2010 1:34 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
Catsy: Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????
Areyou sure he is taken? a straight forward question would clear it up.comfort hug
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Jan 2, 2010 1:39 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
itsallme112
itsallme112itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 Posts
It happens. Just like when we were younger in school and liked someone who was already taken. The same rule applies. There are some things we cannot have.comfort
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Jan 2, 2010 1:44 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Maisie
MaisieMaisielarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus4 Threads 616 Posts
There's someone I like on here but he's thousands of miles away and I don't fit his profile. sigh
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Jan 2, 2010 1:48 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
ghost007
ghost007ghost007swieqi, Majjistral Malta52 Threads 4 Polls 885 Posts
Maisie: There's someone I like on here but he's thousands of miles away and I don't fit his profile.


In what way dont you fit his profile? and even if its the case so what its only a profile ..if you like him you should go for it
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Jan 2, 2010 1:52 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
if they are taken they should let it be known,don't have to name names if you don't want grief but so they aren't persued by others it should be known, otherwise they are still looking,jmo, and you are just a back up until something better comes along..
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Jan 2, 2010 1:58 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Maisie
MaisieMaisielarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus4 Threads 616 Posts
ghost007: In what way dont you fit his profile? and even if its the case so what its only a profile ..if you like him you should go for it


Have a problem making the first approach, it's an age thing I suppose. He's never shown an interest and lives on a different continent and I think he prefers ladies who are more petite than I am. Really should be looking for someone closer to home, a LDR is not ideal.
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Jan 2, 2010 2:06 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
Maisie: Have a problem making the first approach, it's an age thing I suppose. He's never shown an interest and lives on a different continent and I think he prefers ladies who are more petite than I am. Really should be looking for someone closer to home, a LDR is not ideal.


Thanks to all of you, truly.....
Maisie, I guess i do believe in LDR...it has happened to me.
I never give up!
And, I´m too shy to mkake the first approach.....silly old me, right?
Thanks for your help all the same!
And everybody elses!hug
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Jan 2, 2010 2:09 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
if they are taken they should let it be known,don't have to name names if you don't want grief but so they aren't persued by others it should be known, otherwise they are still looking,jmo, and you are just a back up until something better comes along..[/quote

Yes, Caspatch, you hit it right on the button, I feel like a backup!doh
Thanks You anyway!sad flower
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Jan 2, 2010 2:23 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Catsy: Just curious to know this....
It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????
Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.

When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.devil professor wink
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Jan 2, 2010 2:25 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
all you can ask for is to have one to love you not love every one
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Jan 2, 2010 2:29 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
caspatch: all you can ask for is to have one to love you not love every one


Absolutely right....and Thank You....although it´s hard, I will try!dunno
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Jan 2, 2010 2:31 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
mylifewithu: Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.

When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.


Thanks Sweet.....you´re right...thing is I am too shy to be straightforward.......darn.....
very mad teddybear teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 2:32 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mylifewithu: Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.

When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.
I also should add a couple times I did find a man that wanted me as much as I wanted them, one we didn't work out and the other changed his mind about moving all the way here to me.professor laugh
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Jan 2, 2010 2:35 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
Catsy
CatsyCatsyMontevideo, Uruguay35 Threads 3 Polls 685 Posts
mylifewithu: I also should add a couple times I did find a man that wanted me as much as I wanted them, one we didn't work out and the other changed his mind about moving all the way here to me.

I know distance is pain to some people, but to this particular person, I don´t think it is....
Much less to me, I am so used to Travelling, Moving etc......
Thank you Sweet Pea anyway!teddybear
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Jan 2, 2010 2:38 PM CST Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Catsy: Thanks Sweet.....you´re right...thing is I am too shy to be straightforward.......darn.....
Sometimes it's worth stepping a little out side your comfort zone like sending a flower, you need to let the guys know somehow you are interested. And what if next week that couple might break up, if you don't step up then he will find another, and will not even know you exist.

I was shy in the beginning but push yourself it gets easier.wine professor wink bouquet
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