Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
In response to: Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
How did you manage that? Maybe 1 out of 1000 on here that are taken. The other 999 are the ones you should have been talking to in the first place. Did you know from the start?
whiteflash: How did you manage that? Maybe 1 out of 1000 on here that are taken. The other 999 are the ones you should have been talking to in the first place. Did you know from the start?
No, I did´nt whiteflash...he was´nt taken...plus I did´nt even like him....but now I do....shoot! Thanks for the answer dear!
Catsy: Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
Areyou sure he is taken? a straight forward question would clear it up.
itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada441 posts
It happens. Just like when we were younger in school and liked someone who was already taken. The same rule applies. There are some things we cannot have.
if they are taken they should let it be known,don't have to name names if you don't want grief but so they aren't persued by others it should be known, otherwise they are still looking,jmo, and you are just a back up until something better comes along..
ghost007: In what way dont you fit his profile? and even if its the case so what its only a profile ..if you like him you should go for it
Have a problem making the first approach, it's an age thing I suppose. He's never shown an interest and lives on a different continent and I think he prefers ladies who are more petite than I am. Really should be looking for someone closer to home, a LDR is not ideal.
Maisie: Have a problem making the first approach, it's an age thing I suppose. He's never shown an interest and lives on a different continent and I think he prefers ladies who are more petite than I am. Really should be looking for someone closer to home, a LDR is not ideal.
Thanks to all of you, truly..... Maisie, I guess i do believe in LDR...it has happened to me. I never give up! And, I´m too shy to mkake the first approach.....silly old me, right? Thanks for your help all the same! And everybody elses!
if they are taken they should let it be known,don't have to name names if you don't want grief but so they aren't persued by others it should be known, otherwise they are still looking,jmo, and you are just a back up until something better comes along..[/quote
Yes, Caspatch, you hit it right on the button, I feel like a backup! Thanks You anyway!
Catsy: Just curious to know this.... It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it! What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him.... Something different maybe?????
Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.
When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.
mylifewithu: Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.
When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.
Thanks Sweet.....you´re right...thing is I am too shy to be straightforward.......darn.....
mylifewithu: Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.
When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.
I also should add a couple times I did find a man that wanted me as much as I wanted them, one we didn't work out and the other changed his mind about moving all the way here to me.
mylifewithu: I also should add a couple times I did find a man that wanted me as much as I wanted them, one we didn't work out and the other changed his mind about moving all the way here to me.
I know distance is pain to some people, but to this particular person, I don´t think it is.... Much less to me, I am so used to Travelling, Moving etc...... Thank you Sweet Pea anyway!
Catsy: Thanks Sweet.....you´re right...thing is I am too shy to be straightforward.......darn.....
Sometimes it's worth stepping a little out side your comfort zone like sending a flower, you need to let the guys know somehow you are interested. And what if next week that couple might break up, if you don't step up then he will find another, and will not even know you exist.
I was shy in the beginning but push yourself it gets easier.
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It is happening to me...but can´t do anything about it!
What should I do...obviously you will all say forget about him....
Something different maybe?????