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Jan 10, 2010 12:16 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?
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Jan 10, 2010 12:29 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
Lakie
LakieLakieAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands1 Threads 80 Posts
willow51: Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?


YES If one of them not have proof of baptism Unbaptized person may not be married in traditional churches.
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Jan 10, 2010 12:32 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
willow51: Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?


Marketing, recruitment ......dunno
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Jan 10, 2010 12:36 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
willow51: Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?


I don't know the official answer, of course, but I feel he/she is not under any obligation to marry anyone. Therefore, marrying a couple would most likely be at his/her discretion? If one doesn't like the idea of filling out the form, I'm sure its their prerogative to get married elsewhere...?

bouquet
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Jan 10, 2010 12:37 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
knew a pastor that insisted you be chaperoned on your dates till marriage...innocent
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Jan 10, 2010 12:49 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
SatelliteServer: knew a pastor that insisted you be chaperoned on your dates till marriage...




Wow, that could be ......uncomfortable, loldoh
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Jan 10, 2010 12:51 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
Lakie: YES If one of them not have proof of baptism Unbaptized person may not be married in traditional churches.


ummmm, not to be rude but what does that have to do with the question???dunno
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Jan 10, 2010 1:00 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
willow51: Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?

what do you mean???

what compatibilities ????
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Jan 10, 2010 1:03 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
Boban1: what do you mean???

what compatibilities ????




it means if the couple can get along well enough with each other to be married.
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Jan 10, 2010 1:05 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
willow51: Do you think a priest, pastor, reverend, etc.. has the right to make you fill out a questionare about your compatability as a couple before he will marry you?


No why should he or she grin
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Jan 10, 2010 1:09 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
No!

But as a person he can do what his consience tells him.....right or wrong!!!
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Jan 10, 2010 1:09 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
willow51: it means if the couple can get along well enough with each other to be married.


Hmmmmmm...........

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............

I'd have to have a trial marriage to make sure! rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 10, 2010 1:10 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Boban1: what do you mean???

what compatibilities ????


Need you ask, Sir knobly bobbly Boban? smoking
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Jan 10, 2010 1:13 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
RDM59: Marketing, recruitment ......


Good point!

Priests/ministers/whatever should really give advice on how to indulge in immaculate, holy, spiritually rewarding lovemaking............. and should also be well qualified and experienced to be able to give such useful advice.
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Jan 10, 2010 1:15 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
RobertC2: Need you ask, Sir knobly bobbly Boban?




you do have a way with words sir Robert, lol wave
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Jan 10, 2010 1:15 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
willow51: I kind of agree with you, i dont think your personal stuff between you and your mate to be is any business of the priests or anyone else for that matter.


We agree then?

No kissing and telling when we get married - ok? teddybear
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Jan 10, 2010 1:17 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
willow51: you do have a way with words sir Robert, lol


Ahhhhh... but your beauty makes me almost speechless! blushing
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Jan 10, 2010 1:17 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
RobertC2: We agree then?

No kissing and telling when we get married - ok?



I wont tell if you wont,wink tongue
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Jan 10, 2010 1:18 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
willow51
willow51willow51hazleton, Pennsylvania USA24 Threads 181 Posts
RobertC2: Ahhhhh... but your beauty makes me almost speechless!




I can make you speechless in many ways, wink hug
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Jan 10, 2010 1:20 PM CST whats your thoughts on this?
laura139
laura139laura139Broomfield, Colorado USA11 Threads 1 Polls 668 Posts
roseofsharon: I don't know the official answer, of course, but I feel he/she is not under any obligation to marry anyone. Therefore, marrying a couple would most likely be at his/her discretion? If one doesn't like the idea of filling out the form, I'm sure its their prerogative to get married elsewhere...?


I agree...part of the protocol, to see where your beliefs are. They don't want to preform marriages that don't have the basis
of what their church stands for.sad flower
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