Crazy woman ( Archived) (13)

I met this young lady I thought was a gift from God. She was good to my daughter helping her with her homework, taking her out, buying her gifts etc. She was equally good to me and the first time I felt I had found the love of my life. This delusion lasted for a few months before her true colours came to the fore. She did some crazy things to me that caused even her friends to resent and criticize her behaviour. She went to my workplace and tried to embarrass me. She initiated frequent arguments and when I tried to walk out of an argument she walked behind me hurling insults. She called me derogatory names and threatened me. When I told her it was over she refused to move out until I considered moving out myself as I could not continue to live in the hell house. Things got so bad that I dreamed I was single and happy then woke up and wished I could go on dreaming. Living with her was the nightmare. Eventually she left after a few heated arguments and fights that left us both injured after she tried to attack me with a weapon - the same weapon that injured her when I tried to disarm her. The police got involved and I got arrested. The charges were eventually dropped. Even then she refused to leave. Eventually she said she hated me packed both our stuffs and left. I celebrated that day and vowed not to hitch up with another crazy woman. Months later she calls me telling me she wanted forgiveness for her deeds. Having been forgiven she now calls me very often telling me that there are a lot of people including her family and exs who are out to get her with the use of black magic............. Just want to share this tale with you.

I've been to your country many,many times, not as a tourist in some fenced in resort but seeing the country....My question to you is this: Does her behavior really surprise you? She's just possessed with Duppy's and you need to tell her she needs to pour a little more overproof in the sand for them.....You know how those Duppy's love their rum.......

why the hell were you living with her after knowing her only a few months? trying to find a new mother for your child?

Time time time is what you got to have to get to know a person especially when you have kids involved
and moving in is a no no no no no
so sorry this had to happen to you
but I bet it taught you something and you will be much careful in the furture
people are not what they seem
they can only keep the mask on for so long time time time I will keep saying it all over these forums time give your self time

I was living with for a few months before she began acting up. I knew for over a year before she came to live with me and my daughter really needed some one who could be a mother figure in her life as her biological mother was not giving the care and attention she required and it was good while it lasted.

I learned that I should be very careful in choosing as even the ones who seem to be Gods gift to men can turn out to be the devil in disguise. That experienced has not dampened my spirit however I still have hope that there are good women for me. I just need to take the time to know who they really are. I need to look into their background, look carefully into who they grew up with and the influence their environment has on their lives.

life goes forward man, by way of lessons learned, hopefully we grow

There are "Bunny Boilers" all over the world...... Sorry you had to find one !

you might have to refresh his memory about the movie, he may not know the term "bunny boiler"...