PrincessForYou: Last year I had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend. He was living with me. I came home from work and his was in bed with another women.
My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
I think it is a good idea what do you all think?
Have a yard sale, and use the money to come up here and see me. I'll make sure you never think about him again.
PrincessForYou: Last year I had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend. He was living with me. I came home from work and his was in bed with another women.
My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
Keep something and put it where u dont see it every day and IN TIME just take it out and look at it and think how lucky u are u are not with him as he hurt u so . Plus pray hard that something he NEEDS falls off . I hope u are at a good time in your life now Princess
PrincessForYou: Last year I had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend. He was living with me. I came home from work and his was in bed with another women.
My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
I think it is a good idea what do you all think?
I'd have a yard sale and invite him to sit and watch as you sell the items.
scoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA1,100 posts
personaly I see no reason to be vindictive, if it is usefull then use it, if it is not then dont, a grage sale is a good idea then the money is usefull. It has been a year, he is gone, dont let it eat you up. Anger, resentment, vindictiveness, all that only hurts you and the way you will relate to the next guy. yes he is an idiot and a jurk but that should have no reflexion on you, be better than that.
do whatever you want with it me personally never get rid of anything i might not remember how i got it or where it is but i am sure i still got some old gifts around here somewhere .
on the other hand if the stuff is valuable i would sell it and go on a cruise . lol
In response to: Last year I had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend. He was living with me. I came home from work and his was in bed with another women.
My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
I think it is a good idea what do you all think?
Question I have is why you've waited so long to ask all of us what you ought to do with all the things he gave you, and why ask us anyway, what do you want to do with the stuff is the real question
PrincessForYou: Last year I had a horrible breakup with my boyfriend. He was living with me. I came home from work and his was in bed with another women.
My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
I think it is a good idea what do you all think?
It a good idea, and hey depending on what there is you may make a profit from the cheat. alternativly why not have a burning ritual, have a fire and throw in his stuff as a way of healing :)
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My family and friends tell me to get rid of everything my ex gave me.
I think it is a good idea what do you all think?