Why would "you" tell a lie? ( Archived) (45)

Jan 20, 2010 7:23 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Two questions here that I would love to hear what others have to say about them...

1. Why would "you" tell a lie?

2. What is the "reasoning/motive" behind it?

Maybe these are one in the same...dunno


Please share your thoughts.conversing professor


Thanks,
Merky
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Jan 20, 2010 7:28 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
hopefloats: Two questions here that I would love to hear what others have to say about them...

1. Why would "you" tell a lie?

2. What is the "reasoning/motive" behind it?

Maybe these are one in the same... Please share your thoughts. Thanks,
Merky


I am
a/ A lawyer

b/ A politician

c/ A banker now hat was the question you wanted me to avoidrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing bouquet
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Jan 20, 2010 7:29 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
patmac: I am
a/ A lawyer

b/ A politician

c/ A banker now hat was the question you wanted me to avoid



Great one Patmac!rolling on the floor laughing tongue wave innocent
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Jan 20, 2010 7:41 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
deacon6347
deacon6347deacon6347Amado, Arizona USA10 Threads 757 Posts
In response to: Two questions here that I would love to hear what others have to say about them...

1. Why would "you" tell a lie?

2. What is the "reasoning/motive" behind it?

Maybe these are one in the same... Please share your thoughts. Thanks,
Merky
aren't lies usually told in an attempt to either gain something or to cover up some indiscretion...examples being politicians, televangilists, and small boys going after Mums fresh batch of cookiesgrin
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Jan 20, 2010 7:46 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
hopefloats: Two questions here that I would love to hear what others have to say about them...

1. Why would "you" tell a lie?

2. What is the "reasoning/motive" behind it?

Maybe these are one in the same... Please share your thoughts. Thanks,
Merky

WHY you ask...????
I cannot speak for others....dunno
as for myself..??professor
well, I, personaly would NEVER tell a lie..blushing
except when I want someone to believe something
I am telling them that I know is not true..
other then that..
I am a very honest and truthful person... angel
--SoldierByte---dancing dog
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Jan 20, 2010 7:49 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
deacon6347: aren't lies usually told in an attempt to either gain something or to cover up some indiscretion...examples being politicians, televangilists, and small boys going after Mums fresh batch of cookies


I'd say these are the top two for the list:
1.for gain's sake
2.covering up an indiscretion


conversing
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Jan 20, 2010 7:51 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
scoutmaster
scoutmasterscoutmasterGranite falls, Washington USA29 Threads 6 Polls 1,100 Posts
lie, Id never lie, with my private yat next to my private island in the caribian where brad pit and george kluney often visit I have no neet to lie.
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Jan 20, 2010 7:52 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
SoldierByte: WHY you ask...????
I cannot speak for others....
as for myself..??
well, I, personaly would NEVER tell a lie..
except when I want someone to believe something
I am telling them that I know is not true..
other then that..
I am a very honest and truthful person...
--SoldierByte---



Long time, no see SB!wave

The reason WHY I ask is because I want to know if others are thinking the same way as I do, or if I'm just warped in the head.laugh I'm always willing to learn something new IF there is something new to be learned. Especially since I don't know everything yet...roll eyes conversing
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Jan 20, 2010 7:52 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
scoutmaster: lie, Id never lie, with my private yat next to my private island in the caribian where brad pit and george kluney often visit I have no neet to lie.




rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Jan 20, 2010 7:53 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
I'd say to stroke someone's fragile ego.
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Jan 20, 2010 7:57 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
newinsouth: I'd say to stroke someone's fragile ego.



So their feelings aren't hurt....roll eyes
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Jan 20, 2010 7:59 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
hopefloats: So their feelings aren't hurt....


Yep angel
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Jan 20, 2010 8:01 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
newinsouth: I'd say to stroke someone's fragile ego.


Surely you can stroke a fragile ego without having to lie ? dunno
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Jan 20, 2010 8:03 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
Englishman55: Surely you can stroke a fragile ego without having to lie ?



hmmm
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Jan 20, 2010 8:06 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
Englishman55: Surely you can stroke a fragile ego without having to lie ?


That was during the stupid phase of my life when I sacrificed my feelings to protect someone else's.
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Jan 20, 2010 8:08 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
newinsouth: That was during the stupid phase of my life when I sacrificed my feelings to protect someone else's.




NOW I see...lightbulb Thank you!cheers
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Jan 20, 2010 8:12 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
Englishman55
Englishman55Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK31 Threads 2 Polls 6,405 Posts
newinsouth: That was during the stupid phase of my life when I sacrificed my feelings to protect someone else's.


So, it could be said that you were actually lying to yourself aswell ?
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Jan 20, 2010 8:13 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
hopefloats: Two questions here that I would love to hear what others have to say about them...

1. Why would "you" tell a lie?

2. What is the "reasoning/motive" behind it?

Maybe these are one in the same... Please share your thoughts. Thanks,
Merky



I believe there's two types of dishonesty.THE first is when you bulls.hit somebody, and the second one is witholding information or truth from somebody who deserves to know it.


However,I DO believe that the only time it's o.k to withhold truth,is when telling the truth or being honest it causes the person involved more damage than good,or being honest with somebody TO GET RID OF ONES own GUILT....and leave the other person hurt.

Tricky.
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Jan 20, 2010 8:16 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
hopefloats
hopefloatshopefloatsSlim's Lady, Tennessee USA51 Threads 6,660 Posts
thewall2: I believe there's two types of dishonesty.THE first is when you bulls.hit somebody, and the second one is witholding information or truth from somebody who deserves to know it.However,I DO believe that the only time it's o.k to withhold truth,is when telling the truth or being honest it causes the person involved more damage than good,or being honest with somebody TO GET RID OF ONES own GUILT....and leave the other person hurt.

Tricky.



Thank you Wall. Let me ponder on this.....popcorn
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Jan 20, 2010 8:17 PM CST Why would "you" tell a lie?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Hi Merky, You have a good one going here g/fhug When I was much younger I told lies to get kids to like me more. Usually did not work as most found out the truth and they would like me even less. I also told a few lies during my 36 years of marriage. Had nothing to do with affairs but still doesn't mean it was the right thing to do.help Now in the past few years when I was with my ex for 2 years I lied to my kids about what was going on more times than I can even remember. Why I always would tell myself they are just little fibs so they aren't so bad, I will never know. A lie is a lie is a lie, no other way to define it. dunno
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