vindictiveness in groups ( Archived) (173)

Jan 25, 2010 5:39 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
angelface123
angelface123angelface123somewhere, Arkansas USA3 Threads 350 Posts
Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of youtongue lips this !
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Jan 25, 2010 5:47 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !
yes i kinda see now where ur comming from ,u should not leave because of some ,yes alot of bullyin can happen here very fast ,like tigers waitin 2 punce,and what u had with that man is no1s business ,hold ur head high love ,comfort where all not thick skined ,but i think u have 2 be heremoping
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Jan 25, 2010 5:49 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
bohdiprana
bohdipranabohdipranaLondon, Ontario Canada32 Threads 1,493 Posts
When ya give em hell, ya gotta come from hell to do it. Not that there's anything wrong with that. laugh
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Jan 25, 2010 6:02 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
G8one
G8oneG8oneNOYB, Florida USA48 Posts
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !


Well I don't know of you or your situation, but I'm very happy for the both of you. Let me just say this, it has been my experience, that when two people really make a go of these kinda sites and meet someone, and by the grace of God fall in love and start a relationship, the haters come out in droves. Misery loves company as it were. My advice to all that read this, is to keep your business between you and the person that your starting a relationship with. It really is no one else's business but the two of you, anyway. Shame that something as beautiful as love must be kept away, but when your heart is pure, the devil's in your face. wine
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Jan 25, 2010 6:03 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !


That´s life on CS for you.

As a bit of a lone soul here, I know what you mean about group attacks, I´ve personally experienced it too. I also read them when perpetrated on others, but I try to avoid them, in this particular case I stayed out of it.

You have to admit though, that he did ask for a lot of what he got here. Some of his posts/threads were cruder than crude and ruder than rude!
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Jan 25, 2010 6:30 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
navygirl1
navygirl1navygirl1Calgary, Alberta Canada6 Threads 1,586 Posts
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !


I too am sorry that you got attacked and I do hope your mom is better. Some rather nasty folks on these threads. Live your life with great happiness and forgot about the jerks that hurt you on this site. teddybear
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Jan 25, 2010 6:42 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
I know what you mean, some people just seem to enjoy making personal attacks.
For instance there's one guy on here who keeps creating
new profiles just to stir up trouble, attack and upset many
women on here.

Shouldn't be allowed really...you have all my sympathy.


mumbling
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Jan 25, 2010 9:35 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
adamisk
adamiskadamiskraleigh, Mississippi USA34 Threads 4 Polls 1,325 Posts
i missed it but really it's easy to ignore ppl on here i do it all the time some of them you kinda have to but regardless if its good or bad comments you can't let other ppl dictate your life decisions
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Jan 25, 2010 10:08 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
RayfromUSA
RayfromUSARayfromUSAvienne, Rhone-Alpes France86 Threads 29 Polls 6,611 Posts
It's a tough lesson, but one well worth learning.

If you have something good in your life, only tell people you know you can trust. Going public about your private affairs is an open invitation to the jerks of this world to get involved.
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Jan 25, 2010 10:16 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
bohdiprana
bohdipranabohdipranaLondon, Ontario Canada32 Threads 1,493 Posts
vindictiveness just tends to like being in the same group. typing
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Jan 25, 2010 10:48 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
BlainX
BlainXBlainXmansfield, Ohio USA205 Threads 188 Polls 1,424 Posts
bohdiprana: vindictiveness just tends to like being in the same group.


I think her details are Sketchy...

She made a comment "IT Made Both Of us Cry"?
What the Haiti's is she talking about?
confused
Besides look how we've responded to her today???
It's all postive?drinking
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Jan 25, 2010 10:54 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
BlainX: I think her details are Sketchy...

She made a comment "IT Made Both Of us Cry"?
What the Haiti's is she talking about?

Besides look how we've responded to her today???
It's all postive?



She's referring to a guy who's been posting under several screen names and he was attacked today.Even though this guy did throw the first blow by insulting women on here.That's why there are these threads showing up.
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Jan 25, 2010 11:10 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
somechick: She's referring to a guy who's been posting under several screen names and he was attacked today.Even though this guy did throw the first blow by insulting women on here.That's why there are these threads showing up.




Putin ? confused
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Jan 25, 2010 11:11 PM CST vindictiveness in groups
jvaski: Putin ?



No someone else besides him.
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Jan 26, 2010 12:28 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !


Well, we're sorry you had a bad day ..........and certainly there are some here who like to gang-up and attack , but really- is it worth getting upset over ? It's a free dating forum dunno

If I lost sleep over all the rude comments and digs at me I'de be a basket case ....shock

Not worth it .......dust yourself off and get back in the ring thumbs up devil
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Jan 26, 2010 12:30 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
angelface123: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !


Huh? confused
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Jan 26, 2010 12:31 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
jvaski: Well, we're sorry you had a bad day ..........and certainly there are some here who like to gang-up and attack , but really- is it worth getting upset over ? It's a free dating forum

If I lost sleep over all the rude comments and digs at me I'de be a basket case ....

Not worth it .......dust yourself off and get back in the ring


You're not a basket case... your pic proves it! tongue
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Jan 26, 2010 12:36 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
In response to: Anyone who has ever wanted to say something else hurtful to me and about my relationship with a certain person SPEAK UP.
The remarks my fomer fiance' & I have gotten finally worked. I could never post anything without a smart aleck remark fron all of you. You hurt us when we announced and made both of us cry. I know it was a bad time for me my mom was in the hospital and (he)was trying to cheer me up by announcing. So GIVE IT A GO,I MAY NOT ANSWER. I KNOW YOU"LL BE HAPPY I"M LEAVING. Good luck and I hate you all too. NEXT VICTIM WAITING FOR U SOMEWHERE !!?x€¢$£s all of you this !



Angel if you leave who comes out the winner?

If I'd let what other other people say about or to me get to me I'd been a nervous wreak along time ago.I'm not at all that concerned about what strangers may choose to say or think about me.Cause when they're so busy pointing fingers at other people they're pointing 3 more right back at themselves.
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Jan 26, 2010 12:44 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
somechick: Angel if you leave who comes out the winner?

If I'd let what other other people say about or to me get to me I'd been a nervous wreak along time ago.I'm not at all that concerned about what strangers may choose to say or think about me.Cause when they're so busy pointing fingers at other people they're pointing 3 more right back at themselves.


I hate groups acting with a 'herd instinct'.

I prefer to be vindictive all on my own.

To tell the truth, I prefer NOT to be vindictive at all and be a nicer person...... it's not easy though........ little, baby steps but eventually I'll get there!

Ciao happy people! wave
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Jan 26, 2010 12:47 AM CST vindictiveness in groups
RobertC2: I hate groups acting with a 'herd instinct'.

I prefer to be vindictive all on my own.

To tell the truth, I prefer NOT to be vindictive at all and be a nicer person...... it's not easy though........ little, baby steps but eventually I'll get there!

Ciao happy people!


Nite nite Robert I'm about ready to hit the hay myself.wave
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