I am getting married for the second time and .. (35)
itsallme112Surrey, British Columbia Canada78 Threads 11 Polls 441 PostsPerhaps being saved from major hell on earth is an indication of bigger and better things later in life. It all depends on your passion, willingness and desires. CAUTION! Beware of warning signs in communication and meeting personal needs.
Well thank you, everything always has an uncanny way of working out for all the parties involved!
mychelle: A cancer survivor doesn't need to inhale cigarette smoke, as he have enough problem trying to survive. Jesus is everywhere, so you don't need to worry about selling the dog sled business with a twist.
He had testicular cancer and so my smoking should not be of a concern to him. --- tiddly dee .. He wanted it to be a Christian flavored tourist business. I think Eskimo people have been exploited enough by ill mannered indifference of the church and most people coming to a tourist resort up north with dog sled teams and all don't need a Methodist priest preaching at them out of the blue. You are right though about Jesus -- he is everywhere especially on the billboards throughout the South. I like the guy of what I hear of Him from born again folks.
A_Non_A_Moose: Life is like driving a motorhome over the edge of the Grand Canyon,...there's no way you're getting out of it alive, so you might as well enjoy the ride down!! (And remember in the next life, that regular brake maintenance IS important!)
Seriously, the first thing to do is get a small tub full of nice hot water and soak those cold feet. That might help. Make sure you have a cup of your favorite hot beverage,....drink it down and see what kind of "gut" feeling you get. That might help. Make sure the room is quiet,...no distractions,....and this is the most imporatnt part, listen to your heart,....really listen,....and if you hear it go,.."thump, thump,...thump, thump,...thump, thump",....its going to be okay. However, if you hear, "thump,.....thump, thump, THUMP,.....clunk, thump,......psssst, thump, thump,....." seek IMMEDIATE medical attention!
Its only natural to feel a bit scared the second time around,....but ultimately, the choice has to be yours! Good luck and much happiness!
Seriously, the first thing to do is get a small tub full of nice hot water and soak those cold feet. That might help. Make sure you have a cup of your favorite hot beverage,....drink it down and see what kind of "gut" feeling you get. That might help. Make sure the room is quiet,...no distractions,....and this is the most imporatnt part, listen to your heart,....really listen,....and if you hear it go,.."thump, thump,...thump, thump,...thump, thump",....its going to be okay. However, if you hear, "thump,.....thump, thump, THUMP,.....clunk, thump,......psssst, thump, thump,....." seek IMMEDIATE medical attention!
Its only natural to feel a bit scared the second time around,....but ultimately, the choice has to be yours! Good luck and much happiness!
I like like this .. God, do my feet ever get cold. As for life, I think one's soul goes on no matter what. The physical does go to hell in a hand basket.
langleygirl: If you are uncertain - listen to your heart and don't do something that you will regret later.
As well, this does seems to be quite sudden considering your recent posts about simply dating another man.
As well, this does seems to be quite sudden considering your recent posts about simply dating another man.
My heart says what the heck .. and you are right .. too sudden.
Brew01: When it comes to getting married, the very best advice I could give, would be.. Run, don't stop, and don't turn around, just head for the hills, and pray no one saw you
Sounds like you are speaking from experience .. did you lose a ton of money or a ton of sanity.
Love your posts.
gordy22222: does seem a little quick to me maybe better to take a little more time and acess the situatiun i mean it gordy
Sigh, sigh -- you give me wonderful second thoughts.
curlywolf: Best wishes.....
I can understand it being scary but think of all the reasons that made you say yes.
I can understand it being scary but think of all the reasons that made you say yes.
Age is irreversible .. my reasoning -- .
langleygirl: If you are uncertain - listen to your heart and don't do something that you will regret later.
As well, this does seems to be quite sudden considering your recent posts about simply dating another man.
As well, this does seems to be quite sudden considering your recent posts about simply dating another man.
What recent posts ah yeah the old man of another church and his xxx junk -
yuck yuck ycuk
p.s.
This one is not that way, but he is sure cheap -- the fight is on -- apparently I don't love the LORD enough for this one -- I won't give up cigarettes up for the almighty him not the LORD -- Christ I get sick of sacrifices -- Lent
Readybake101: What recent posts ah yeah the old man of another church and his xxx junk -
yuck yuck ycuk
p.s.
This one is not that way, but he is sure cheap -- the fight is on -- apparently I don't love the LORD enough for this one -- I won't give up cigarettes up for the almighty him not the LORD -- Christ I get sick of sacrifices -- Lent
yuck yuck ycuk
p.s.
This one is not that way, but he is sure cheap -- the fight is on -- apparently I don't love the LORD enough for this one -- I won't give up cigarettes up for the almighty him not the LORD -- Christ I get sick of sacrifices -- Lent
Yikes you sure know how to pick em eh?
You poor thing......
I would hold off for a bit if I was you.......
nottoo2525: Yikes you sure know how to pick em eh?
You poor thing......
I would hold off for a bit if I was you.......
You poor thing......
I would hold off for a bit if I was you.......
Ditto on the hold off for a while.
KHD100: Ditto on the hold off for a while.
If smoking is a big deal to him now .. it will only get worse once you are married. It will always be a bone of contention between the two of you.
Wait, watch, do not be in a hurry.
Why are you afraid? Is it because you will still be there? Is it because there are things about you that you still need to face on your own and you think getting married again will fix them?
If your answer to some of these questions is yes, then don't get married. Take some time find out who you are, become amazing friends with this man and then get married.
If your answer to some of these questions is yes, then don't get married. Take some time find out who you are, become amazing friends with this man and then get married.
In response to: .. I am scared to death.
I don't know you, however I will wade into this one cautiously.
Speaking From Experience:
IF something is an issue NOW it will become A BOMBSHELL after marriage. javascript:emot('
');IF you are not unsure for 1/1millionith of a second. HOLD OFF on the VOWS. IF you love each other the paper doesn't matter. it is only a court & lawyer money maker.
If you are unsure of yourself then I suggest you go on a retreat by yourself and do some soul searching and find out who and what you really are all about.
LIKES DISLIKES, WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE.
OPENING a BUSINESS if its a problem now CHRIST it will be a never ending battle. I KNOW. I DID IT.
Getting a pet can become an issue, I know I ended up with him.
ITS the SMALL things that BALLOON into MAJOR issues.
IF YOU have issues now RESOLVE THEM FIRST before going down the ISLE again
IF HE has a problem with you SMOKING, then HE is trying to CHANGE YOU. That is a type of CONTROL. RUN AND FAST.
IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO SMOKE YOU KNOW THE RISKS..
I am AN X smoker.. don't have a problem with it either.
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR ONE OF THE FOLLOWING:
A REASON (Teach you something or vice versa.
A SEASON to help you through something or vice versa.
A LIFETIME to be there through thick & thin Good and Bad, THEY ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU WITHOUT trying to CHANGE YOU.
LIFE IS ABOUT CHOICE, STOP AND MAKE THE RIGHT ONE, SMELL THE COFFEE AND ENJOY THE ROSES ALONG THE WAY.
I HAVE HAD MY SAY..
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST
AND GOD is with all of us all the time. each for different reasons.
A POSSIBLE NEW FRIEND.
In response to: .. I am scared to death.
I don't know you, however I will wade into this one cautiously.
Speaking From Experience:
IF something is an issue NOW it will become A BOMBSHELL after marriage. javascript:emot('
');IF you are not unsure for 1/1millionith of a second. HOLD OFF on the VOWS. IF you love each other the paper doesn't matter. it is only a court & lawyer money maker.
If you are unsure of yourself then I suggest you go on a retreat by yourself and do some soul searching and find out who and what you really are all about.
LIKES DISLIKES, WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE.
OPENING a BUSINESS if its a problem now CHRIST it will be a never ending battle. I KNOW. I DID IT.
Getting a pet can become an issue, I know I ended up with him.
ITS the SMALL things that BALLOON into MAJOR issues.
IF YOU have issues now RESOLVE THEM FIRST before going down the ISLE again
IF HE has a problem with you SMOKING, then HE is trying to CHANGE YOU. That is a type of CONTROL. RUN AND FAST.
IT IS YOUR CHOICE TO SMOKE YOU KNOW THE RISKS..
I am AN X smoker.. don't have a problem with it either.
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR ONE OF THE FOLLOWING:
A REASON (Teach you something or vice versa.
A SEASON to help you through something or vice versa.
A LIFETIME to be there through thick & thin Good and Bad, THEY ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU WITHOUT trying to CHANGE YOU.
LIFE IS ABOUT CHOICE, STOP AND MAKE THE RIGHT ONE, SMELL THE COFFEE AND ENJOY THE ROSES ALONG THE WAY.
I HAVE HAD MY SAY..
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST
AND GOD is with all of us all the time. each for different reasons.
A POSSIBLE NEW FRIEND.
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