Why Do Men Always Cheat? ( Archived) (24)

Feb 3, 2010 1:46 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Why Men Cheat

First of all, men don't always cheat, but when they do, here are some possible reasons:


1. They are not ready to have commitments.
2. They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
3. They are concerned aobut their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.
4. They like various sex partners.
5. They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
6. They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.
7. Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
8. Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
9. Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
10. Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
11. Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
12. The woman's sex drive isn't what it was when you first got married.
13. Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
14. Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships
15. The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.
16. Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
17. other people are something new and different
18. you have no old baggage with someone new
19. maybe they want something with ''no strings''
20. different people have different likes and dislikes
21. their spouses might not be interested in doing the s*xual things the men want to try out (e.g. o*al, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.
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Feb 3, 2010 1:55 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,914 Posts
Load of Tosh.

People cheat because...........
































They want to.



sad flower
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Feb 3, 2010 1:57 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967: Load of Tosh.

People cheat because...........They want to.
comfort laugh laugh
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Feb 3, 2010 2:00 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1,411 Threads 6 Polls 15,903 Posts
vinny1967: Load of Tosh.

People cheat because...........They want to.
If men cheat who are the cheating with............. dunno or is it both men and women cheat........ or do you count sheep as cheatingdevil devil grin
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Feb 3, 2010 2:02 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,864 Posts
Its only considered to be cheating if you get caught ....devil
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Feb 3, 2010 2:02 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967: Load of Tosh.

People cheat because...........They want to.



........and choose to.
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Feb 3, 2010 2:03 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK70 Threads 3 Polls 11,699 Posts
Let me guess.... you compiled that yourself, didn't you?!
grin

And what the heck is "Greek" sex?!dunno Though I've got a feeling I shouldn't ask.....
uh oh
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Feb 3, 2010 2:04 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada141 Threads 13,973 Posts
Some men just don't know
when to keep Mr.Rising in his pants.roll eyes
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Feb 3, 2010 2:07 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
roseofsharon: Let me guess.... you compiled that yourself, didn't you?!


And what the heck is "Greek" sex?! Though I've got a feeling I shouldn't ask.....


b]Hey...I didn't write it...I just copied it! I guess you could say that these could fit both men and women!
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Feb 3, 2010 2:10 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,914 Posts
twinself: ........and choose to.


thumbs up
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Feb 3, 2010 2:11 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,914 Posts
Polarbutterfly: Some men just don't know
when to keep Mr.Rising in his pants.


And some women dont know how to stop reachin for said Mr Rising....wink

laugh hug
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Feb 3, 2010 2:12 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
redkayak
redkayakredkayakStuart, Florida USA8 Threads 1 Polls 881 Posts
Men cheat for only two reasons:

1)because we're always h*rny
2)because we can

Sex is just a primal instinct for us......Give it up and give it up often and your chances of being cheated on are drastically reduced.....If I'm in your bed gettin' some I certainly can't be is some other womans bed...... doh drinking
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Feb 3, 2010 2:14 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada141 Threads 13,973 Posts
The b*tches!very mad
vinny1967: And some women dont know how to stop reachin for said Mr Rising....
cool
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Feb 3, 2010 2:16 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
texasgirl8585
texasgirl8585texasgirl8585Fort Worth, Texas USA14 Threads 566 Posts
At the risk of sounding naive, what is greek?
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Feb 3, 2010 2:19 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
redkayak
redkayakredkayakStuart, Florida USA8 Threads 1 Polls 881 Posts
texasgirl8585: At the risk of sounding naive, what is greek?


Probably a typo, perhaps it is suppose to be "Geek" sex...You know, having sex with the guy that shows up to fix your computer.
drinking
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Feb 3, 2010 2:22 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,914 Posts
Polarbutterfly: The b*tches!


laugh

You see you get it...........if the cheated woman didnt give the man an excuse, and the cheating woman didnt participate..dunno

Its never our fault anyway......tongue
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Feb 3, 2010 2:24 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada141 Threads 13,973 Posts
Damn it,you're making sense.
So,stop that!tongue
vinny1967: You see you get it...........if the cheated woman didnt give the man an excuse, and the cheating woman didnt participate..

Its never our fault anyway......
kiss
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Feb 3, 2010 2:30 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
It's indeed a two way street, but since I only really know the guys' point of view I can tell you it's about home-life. Look, please don't misintrepret this, either. If he is not getting intimacy and sensuous nurturing from significant other, he will find it elsewhere. Enough said? All of the happy women I know seem to understand without a doubt that keeping their man content in the bedroom is what he wants. Incidentally, healthy and virile men, young and old, need/benefit from it DAILY. I shit you not.
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Feb 3, 2010 2:37 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
Iseult_1
Iseult_1Iseult_1Baile Atha Claith, Dublin Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 501 Posts
TheresMyFriend: Why Men Cheat

First of all, men don't always cheat, but when they do, here are some possible reasons:

1. They are not ready to have commitments.
2. They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship.
3. They are concerned aobut their financial/living situation if they end the relationship, but do not feel fulfilled in it.
4. They like various sex partners.
5. They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
6. They need to feel desired and their partner does not fulfill that need.
7. Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
8. Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
9. Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
10. Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
11. Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
12. The woman's sex drive isn't what it was when you first got married.
13. Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
14. Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationships
15. The man perceives that the partner is bored with or no longer interested in sex.
16. Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
17. other people are something new and different
18. you have no old baggage with someone new
19. maybe they want something with ''no strings''
20. different people have different likes and dislikes
21. their spouses might not be interested in doing the s*xual things the men want to try out (e.g. o*al, greek, 3-ways, etc.) or even afraid or morally against such kinks.



Looks like some sort of fairy-tale list which fell out of a politicians briefcase laugh

Guys cheat because they want to .... (& so do girls)........
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Feb 3, 2010 2:40 PM CST Why Do Men Always Cheat?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland152 Threads 1 Polls 13,318 Posts
There are no excuses for cheatin....if you want to cheat stay on your own....wink
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