Question for women with kids !!!! (36)
chinny39kitchener, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4 PostsLadies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
Oh what a lovely idea
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
Using a romantic holiday to send gifts to someone's daughters could well be misinterpreted as a strange man having a sick interest in them.......
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
i think you should respect the ladies wishes and leave the kids out of it ...
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Well i dont think it "wrong" to send a flower for the kids, however, i would not advise you to do that if you were not properly introduced to the kids yet. As a mother myself of three girls too, i can understand her not wanting to introduce you to her kids yet so maybe doing the flower thing would not be acceptable by her either. JMO
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I agree send them to her shes the one youre interested in.
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That is a very thoughtful thing to do. It is sure to win you brownie points. Send candy for the kids instead of flowers. Good luck!
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Oh for godsake, why is every kind gesture viewed with suspicion?
I have 2 daughters and think it is a lovely idea.
I have 2 daughters and think it is a lovely idea.
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
personally, if a guy I was dating sent my daughter flowers I would think it strange... even from cupid..
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
Bad move. If she doesn´t want to introduce you to her girls yet, don´t even try introducing yourself to them.
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chinny39: Ladies can you help??? I have been dating a lady for about a month now. She has 3 beautiful girls!! She does not want to introduce me to her kids just yet as she would like to see where this is going , which is perfectly understandable. When i send her flowers on valentines is it wrong to send a flower for her daughters too from cupid of course?? Thank you ladies!!!
Although it's a nice gesture on your part....If she doesn't wish to have her kids involved for now I think you should just send her something if that is your wish.But as form her children I wouldn leave them out for now until she says otherwise cause you wouldn't want to ruin your relationship with their mother.
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weeboomboom: the OP has alraedy says she doesnt want him involved with the kids....that alone shouild answer the question...
He also said the flowers would be from cupid not him, I know my girls would be delighted to get flowers.
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Kalimera: Oh for godsake, why is every kind gesture viewed with suspicion?
I have 2 daughters and think it is a lovely idea.
I have 2 daughters and think it is a lovely idea.
its not just suspicion...
but if they get flowers from ''cupid'' this year.. then next year they dont, they might question why...
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somechick: Although it's a nice gesture on your part....If she doesn't wish to have her kids involved for now I think you should just send her something if that is your wish.But as form her children I wouldn leave them out for now until she says otherwise cause you wouldn't want to ruin your relationship with their mother.
my sentiments aswell
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JAN_is: Bad move. If she doesn´t want to introduce you to her girls yet, don´t even try introducing yourself to them.
Absolutely not.If you were to send anything to her children you would be undermining her.
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weeboomboom: still not our decision ...if the mum says no contact then no contact it should be...
Well the OP asked for opinions hun so I gave mine, I think it is a lovely sweet gesture and would be delighted if a guy did this for my girls.
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Kalimera: Well the OP asked for opinions hun so I gave mine, I think it is a lovely sweet gesture and would be delighted if a guy did this for my girls.
Im not saying its not a nice gesture just that he should respect the mums decision and not have any contact with her kids ..
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He said they were girls, but didn't say how old they are. They could be pre-pubescent.
Mothers usually have very good "instincts" about who and when to let people near their kids.
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