What do people "REALLY" want?? (72)
I already know this question has been asked a hundred times, I just want people to think..
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Ready, willing and able 
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jbibiza: Ready, willing and able
How many are, REALLY???????
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Also, long ago I learned that we could never truly love or be friends with another until we learned to love and be friends to ourselves...
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HJFinAZ: Profiles say one thing, our actions show another. I am sure all (at least most of us) really do enjoy the forums for the most part. I choose now. i am here to kill time while i take a break from my domestic engineering. I am looking forward to finding a partner. Sooner or later . It is all good
But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?
I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".
But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?
I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".
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I was guilty of residing in the past but then I learned that I can no longer do that.I also realized that noone is responsible for making me happy that I have to do the work myself.
I've often asked myself the question of why I bother even staying on the forums.
I have no problem taking the risk again I just haven't found anyone I'm really and truly interested in.
I've often asked myself the question of why I bother even staying on the forums.
I have no problem taking the risk again I just haven't found anyone I'm really and truly interested in.
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somechick: I was guilty of residing in the past but then I learned that I can no longer do that.I also realized that noone is responsible for making me happy that I have to do the work myself.
I've often asked myself the question of why I bother even staying on the forums.I have no problem taking the risk again I just haven't found anyone I'm really and truly interested in.
I've often asked myself the question of why I bother even staying on the forums.I have no problem taking the risk again I just haven't found anyone I'm really and truly interested in.
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seems like even if everything is "perfect" something always gets in the way. sometimes we get in our own way.
sometimes dynamics develop. sometimes it is just life.
sometimes we forget why we started in the first place. you might know what you want to begin with, then it gets complicated.
sometimes dynamics develop. sometimes it is just life.
sometimes we forget why we started in the first place. you might know what you want to begin with, then it gets complicated.
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I want LOVE and my world will function perfectly 
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I would agree with your assessment as I thought I really tried to make a relationship work but it all ended in tears two months ago. I came to see that my partner gradually looked on our relationship through the prism of what fullfilled her needs in a selfish way. If I contradicted her she would go into a rage in a very short time. This is behaviour I find unacceptable.
I think in her eyes I became the abusing ex husband even though I never raised my voice or got spiteful.
There must be a reason why I end up with women who hold on to their painful pasts in a way that sabotages the present.
I think in her eyes I became the abusing ex husband even though I never raised my voice or got spiteful.
There must be a reason why I end up with women who hold on to their painful pasts in a way that sabotages the present.
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HJFinAZ: Profiles say one thing, our actions show another. I am sure all (at least most of us) really do enjoy the forums for the most part.
But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?
I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".
Actually they'd like to make a Fist without Fingers!But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?
I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".
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gleneagle: I would agree with your assessment as I thought I really tried to make a relationship work but it all ended in tears two months ago. I came to see that my partner gradually looked on our relationship through the prism of what fullfilled her needs in a selfish way. If I contradicted her she would go into a rage in a very short time. This is behaviour I find unacceptable.
I think in her eyes I became the abusing ex husband even though I never raised my voice or got spiteful.
There must be a reason why I end up with women who hold on to their painful pasts in a way that sabotages the present.
Maybe you need to look in the Mirror,and examine your own Character-Traits!I think in her eyes I became the abusing ex husband even though I never raised my voice or got spiteful.
There must be a reason why I end up with women who hold on to their painful pasts in a way that sabotages the present.
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Conrad73: Maybe you need to look in the Mirror,and examine your own Character-Traits!
aw, come on. you could say that about any one and it would be true.
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In total honesty, I wouldn't feel comfortable meeting a woman from a dating site, I'm sure and aware that relationships have been made through dating sites but personally I'd need to meet someone face to face first. I enjoy the forums and the banter though 
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HJFinAZ: I already know this question has been asked a hundred times, I just want people to think..
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pikengren: aw, come on. you could say that about any one and it would be true.
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Conrad73: Yeah,that Fellow In the Looking-Glass.
finally, someone i can blame that won't point the finger back at me and...........
damnit! he did too!
the buck stops no where, i tell ya
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I want someone to play with.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: I want someone to play with.
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But why do we REALLY stay? Is it our longing to be loved? How many would truly be "WILLING" to take the risk that is required to make a loving relationship work?
I have often stated that BOTH parties must be "available" emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally.. How many are, and how many still CHOOSE to hang on to the past hurts or hang on to "what might be".