Should I be here? :S (52)

Feb 16, 2010 12:29 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Lou30
Lou30Lou30Riverina, New South Wales Australia24 Threads 519 Posts
If you read my profile, it clearly says I am in a relationship and only here for the forums etc. I also ask that only forum regulars message me.


So, as I am in a relationship, do you think I should still be on here?


Would love to know your thoughts before I tell you why I really want to know wink
Feb 16, 2010 12:42 AM CST Should I be here? :S
bjsss
bjsssbjsssMelbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 3,536 Posts
Lou30: If you read my profile, it clearly says I am in a relationship and only here for the forums etc. I also ask that only forum regulars message me. So, as I am in a relationship, do you think I should still be on here?Would love to know your thoughts before I tell you why I really want to know


I don`t see any problem with being on a dating site if your in a relationship. If your only here to talk with friends and your partner is cool with it then thats all that matters.cool
Feb 16, 2010 1:11 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Oh no lou please tell me its not from our forum.I would hate to think that any of our regulers are so consumed with jealousy and frustration that they would stoop to this level they must be pretty screwed up in the head to make comments like that.
I am not really looking for anyone on CS I also just come online for the forums as a lot of us do.
I for one am glad you are on here and dont you dare leave,and if it upsets anyone they can get off here right now!!! we dont need jerks like that on here. very mad very mad very mad
Feb 16, 2010 1:30 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
bjsss: I don`t see any problem with being on a dating site if your in a relationship. If your only here to talk with friends and your partner is cool with it then thats all that matters.


thumbs up Beej.

Well ive been in a relationship and on this dating site for a while now... Only contact i have is with the forum regs and chickie is fine with this..Im just here for the entertainment of the forums whats left of them. Although when no identity and infidelity is present,then there's nothing to worry about.
Feb 16, 2010 1:34 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Well everybody those who are happy please leave right now.
we do not like anyone to spread it around as it might become a habit, we only like in fighting and miseries on here, you are not allowed to give support or care about anyone as that means we might make friends.
And THAT is a definate no no as we could no longer have those sarcastic remarks and mean little digs.
Because without out that we might, just might, start to heal from our own hurt and that would never do would it. doh
Feb 16, 2010 1:38 AM CST Should I be here? :S
angelmarz
angelmarzangelmarzperth, Western Australia Australia37 Threads 1,091 Posts
hug hug 12 hugs a day....that's what they say....Well everybody those who are happy please leave right now.
we do not like anyone to spread it around as it might become a habit, we only like in fighting and miseries on here, you are not allowed to give support or care about anyone as that means we might make friends.
And THAT is a definate no no as we could no longer have those sarcastic remarks and mean little digs.
Because without out that we might, just might, start to heal from our own hurt and that would never do would it.[/quot
Feb 16, 2010 2:24 AM CST Should I be here? :S
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
I wouldn't worry about it at all, Lucy, Lou.hug

I'm in lurrrrv with my border collie, and I'm still here!smitten rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 16, 2010 2:29 AM CST Should I be here? :S
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
Lou hug

As long as you & are partner are happy & open about you been on the forums - tell any other fwits (email troublemakers-jealous arseholes) to get fuc... as you have done.

You have everyright to be one here and no one can dictate what you can & can't do.

So stick around, as you have frinds here who care, the rest of the nose outta joints can toss someone else wine

wine bouquet
Feb 16, 2010 2:30 AM CST Should I be here? :S
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
yeah speling, your missed hit some keys as rushing laugh
Feb 16, 2010 2:31 AM CST Should I be here? :S
kawai
kawaikawaiPoint Cook, Victoria Australia3 Threads 354 Posts
Absolutely you should be here. I can't believe a forum regular asked you to leave because you were happy. (if that is what happened). I consider this to be a social networking site, not simply a dating site. That is why you are able to say you are looking for friendship in your seeking criteria. If that is simply mucking about on the forum, then fine, there is nothing at all wrong with that. I have done it from time to time, when I have not been interested in looking for a man, just interacting with other people.
Feb 16, 2010 3:22 AM CST Should I be here? :S
poodle2000
poodle2000poodle2000Melbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 537 Posts
There are always idiots on any internet forum - just ignore them! I'm still a member of CS, even though I haven't posted for quite some time, and have been in a relationship for over a year now.

My lovely man & I have just bought a property in East Gippsland and will be moving there in early April - with OUR 2 Poodles!
Feb 16, 2010 3:25 AM CST Should I be here? :S
morebloodyrisks
morebloodyrisksmorebloodyrisksPERTH SOR, Western Australia Australia14 Threads 2,326 Posts
poodle2000: There are always idiots on any internet forum - just ignore them! I'm still a member of CS, even though I haven't posted for quite some time, and have been in a relationship for over a year now.

My lovely man & I have just bought a property in East Gippsland and will be moving there in early April - with OUR 2 Poodles!


Hey Poodle .. great to see you back. Good on you for being a member still .. thats what I reckon .. stay as long as you want or until you get booted like some of the others! rolling on the floor laughing devil and me in due course! wave bouquet
Feb 16, 2010 3:31 AM CST Should I be here? :S
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
Lou30: If you read my profile, it clearly says I am in a relationship and only here for the forums etc. I also ask that only forum regulars message me. So, as I am in a relationship, do you think I should still be on here?Would love to know your thoughts before I tell you why I really want to know


Lou if you are happy being on here then thats all that matters, dont pay any attention to small minded people
Feb 16, 2010 3:41 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Lou,

I wouldnt pay any attention to those people. Just sour grapes I'd say. Treat the comments with the contempt that they deserve.
Feb 16, 2010 3:45 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
poodle2000: There are always idiots on any internet forum - just ignore them! I'm still a member of CS, even though I haven't posted for quite some time, and have been in a relationship for over a year now.

My lovely man & I have just bought a property in East Gippsland and will be moving there in early April - with OUR 2 Poodles!


Hey great to see you on here missed you hon and so glad you are still with your guy.Its so good to see one of the old crew back again, gee you sound happy and that is how it should be.
Please dont be a stranger. teddybear teddybear teddybear
Feb 16, 2010 3:54 AM CST Should I be here? :S
Kittykins
KittykinsKittykinsBatemans Bay, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 254 Posts
There are many people here who are not seeking a relationship. It's stated in your profile; so that's that. . . . no correspondence entered into. It just smacks of jealousy.

Dig those heels in Lou. You've got more right to be here than any of those morons who have nothing better to do in their pathetic miserable lives.
Feb 16, 2010 3:54 AM CST Should I be here? :S
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
Of course you should stay! YOu are a delightful sweet k? So stay n have fun and ignore the fools!

grin
Feb 16, 2010 4:23 AM CST Should I be here? :S
EliteOne
EliteOneEliteOneBrisbane, Queensland Australia38 Threads 1,590 Posts
Lou30: If you read my profile, it clearly says I am in a relationship and only here for the forums etc. I also ask that only forum regulars message me. So, as I am in a relationship, do you think I should still be on here?Would love to know your thoughts before I tell you why I really want to know

I cannot tell you if you should or shouldn’t be on here but I would like to know out of curiosity why are you on here? confused
Feb 16, 2010 4:45 AM CST Should I be here? :S
portlincoln
portlincolnportlincolnport lincoln, South Australia Australia2 Threads 69 Posts
Lou30: oops,that might make it easier to read! The pink is my comment to the msgs..Not my actual reply!.


Thats classic who gives a damn if your here its none of no ones business its your life do what makes you happy and i can see why your on here there is so many gr8 people here. Shame some people cant see that
Feb 16, 2010 4:48 AM CST Should I be here? :S
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
EliteOne: I cannot tell you if you should or shouldn’t be on here but I would like to know out of curiosity why are you on here?


I thought I read Lou's explanation in English here somewhere.rolling on the floor laughing
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