Secret of Happiness... (50)

Feb 17, 2010 8:24 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
Roomi
RoomiRoomiParis, Ile-de-France France17 Threads 38 Posts
Happiness may be defined as a feeling and a state of mind, characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. However, I do wonder if to be happy is as easy as it is to define happiness?

Pursuit of Happiness is an unalienable right of the man. All scientific and modern advancements were supposed to facilitate the life and make the man happier. But is it not an unfortunate that the life has got a face of a wet weekend?

life, once, was just a bowl of cherries but we have made it as a bed of thorns for ourselves. Let me put my thoughts in the nutshell; how do you think we can enjoy a happy and contented life?

Sorry, I forgot to ask you if to be happy is something which lies at the top of your wish-list!
Feb 17, 2010 8:29 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
It's an Inside Job!professor dancing cool
Feb 17, 2010 9:31 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
renepieter
renepieterrenepieterNeuchatel, Switzerland162 Posts
Emily Bronte wrote:

Whatever souls are made of,
yours and mine are the same.

If you get there with your partner than Happiness is not far away.
Feb 17, 2010 10:31 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
Found this long ago,of all places on a Computer-Help Forum!laugh


Recipe for Happiness
• 2 Heaping Cups of Patience
• 1 Heartful of Love
• 2 Hands of Generosity
• Dash of Laughter
• 1 Headful of Understanding
• Sprinkle with Kindness
• Add Plenty of Faith
Mix well.
Spread over a lifetime.
Serve to everyone

It doesn't matter who you love or how you love, but that you love."Rod McKuen"
Feb 17, 2010 11:16 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
renepieter
renepieterrenepieterNeuchatel, Switzerland162 Posts
Conrad73:
It doesn't matter who you love or how you love, but that you love."Rod McKuen"


Yeah in the mean time let's be patient:

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you'r with
"Crossby, Stills, Nash and Young"
Feb 17, 2010 11:41 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
renepieter: Yeah in the mean time let's be patient:

If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you'r with
"Crossby, Stills, Nash and Young"
especially if you're with no one!laugh dunno confused
Feb 17, 2010 11:44 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
renepieter
renepieterrenepieterNeuchatel, Switzerland162 Posts
Conrad73: especially if you're with no one!

Yeah you'r right, that shut me up drinking
Feb 18, 2010 4:24 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
An old lady, really really old, once said to me that We are never happy with what we got - that we need to look and listen to what is around us ..... No bombs falling, no screaming and crying in pain, no extreme hunger, that we have shelter and warmth .......... and only when we can be happy and content with what we have ...... THEN we get the "extras.....grin
Feb 18, 2010 4:30 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
smoky: An old lady, really really old, once said to me that We are never happy with what we got - that we need to look and listen to what is around us ..... No bombs falling, no screaming and crying in pain, no extreme hunger, that we have shelter and warmth .......... and only when we can be happy and content with what we have ...... THEN we get the "extras.....
....and then the "Extras" mess us right back up?dunno
Feb 18, 2010 4:33 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
Conrad73: ....and then the "Extras" mess us right back up?
Hey Yo!....... You get what your mind-set says you want in your life ...... Guard your mind, lest it betrays you .....

Oh hell, I see I am in Preacher Mode today .......doh .......
Feb 18, 2010 4:39 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
smoky: Hey Yo!....... You get what your mind-set says you want in your life ...... Guard your mind, lest it betrays you .....

Oh hell, I see I am in Preacher Mode today ....... .......
Well,as long as you don't don any Robes!grin
Feb 20, 2010 10:42 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
Roomi: Happiness may be defined as a feeling and a state of mind, characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. However, I do wonder if to be happy is as easy as it is to define happiness?

Pursuit of Happiness is an unalienable right of the man. All scientific and modern advancements were supposed to facilitate the life and make the man happier. But is it not an unfortunate that the life has got a face of a wet weekend?

life, once, was just a bowl of cherries but we have made it as a bed of thorns for ourselves. Let me put my thoughts in the nutshell; how do you think we can enjoy a happy and contented life?

Sorry, I forgot to ask you if to be happy is something which lies at the top of your wish-list!


Yes happiness is at the top of my wish list, but at the bottom of my hope list!

How to achieve this? cannot tell you, but I would start by banning mobile phones, and that would eliminate a great source of trouble and continuous suspicions.

Then if you could find a partner to go along with your ideas, no matter how crazy they are, then you might be on the way!
Feb 20, 2010 11:42 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
dusktodawn
dusktodawndusktodawnAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands1 Threads 14 Posts
antcus: Yes happiness is at the top of my wish list, but at the bottom of my hope list!

How to achieve this? cannot tell you, but I would start by banning mobile phones, and that would eliminate a great source of trouble and continuous suspicions.

Then if you could find a partner to go along with your ideas, no matter how crazy they are, then you might be on the way!


Ain't that the truth. I have been lucky in this. Best to you Antcus. I hope you find it with someone someday. hug

Imma
Feb 20, 2010 2:16 PM CST Secret of Happiness...
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixparis, Ile-de-France France89 Threads 23 Polls 2,325 Posts
Feb 20, 2010 2:21 PM CST Secret of Happiness...
Phoenix: Happiness is a cigar called Hamlethttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eMD_SWtPzlk&feature=related
Better pay attention to the Road!professor rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 20, 2010 2:24 PM CST Secret of Happiness...
somone4u
somone4usomone4uMarseille, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France21 Threads 5 Polls 307 Posts
Roomi: Happiness may be defined as a feeling and a state of mind, characterized by emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. However, I do wonder if to be happy is as easy as it is to define happiness?

Pursuit of Happiness is an unalienable right of the man. All scientific and modern advancements were supposed to facilitate the life and make the man happier. But is it not an unfortunate that the life has got a face of a wet weekend?

life, once, was just a bowl of cherries but we have made it as a bed of thorns for ourselves. Let me put my thoughts in the nutshell; how do you think we can enjoy a happy and contented life?

Sorry, I forgot to ask you if to be happy is something which lies at the top of your wish-list!
My teacher described me as “too poor and too happy” I always have smile on my ugly face, I do believe that I am the happiest person I ever know. and the only secret I know is to be helpful, be simple person and stop expecting good things from anyone.
Feb 20, 2010 5:47 PM CST Secret of Happiness...
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Phoenix: So you have a girly lesbi-friend some where....Can't be me cause I'm devilishy hansome....


The first one I haven’t understood.

To the second – yes, it’s not you… I like ‘em ugly, you see, bad taste or some such.

grin
Feb 21, 2010 12:15 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
gussi
gussigussiVilters-Wangs, St Gallen Switzerland12 Threads 2 Polls 4,032 Posts
Tulefel: The first one I haven’t understood.

To the second – yes, it’s not you… I like ‘em ugly, you see, bad taste or some such.


Touché

rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 21, 2010 8:00 AM CST Secret of Happiness...
Just found this on some Forum!

A merchant sent his son to learn the Secret of Happiness from the wisest of men. The young man wandered through the desert for forty days until he reached a beautiful castle at the top of a mountain. There lived the sage that the young man was looking for.

However, instead of finding a holy man, our hero entered a room and saw a great deal of activity; merchants coming and going, people chatting in the corners, a small orchestra playing sweet melodies, and there was a table laden with the most delectable dishes of that part of the world.

The wise man talked to everybody, and the young man had to wait for two hours until it was time for his audience.

With considerable patience, he listened attentively to the reason for the boy’s visit, but told him that at that moment he did not have the time to explain to him the Secret of Happiness.

He suggested that the young man take a stroll around his palace and come back in two hours’ time.

“However, I want to ask you a favor,” he added, handing the boy a teaspoon, in which he poured two drops of oil. “While you walk, carry this spoon and don’t let the oil spill.”

The young man began to climb up and down the palace staircases, always keeping his eyes fixed on the spoon. At the end of two hours he returned to the presence of the wise man.

“So,” asked the sage, “did you see the Persian tapestries hanging in my dining room? Did you see the garden that the Master of Gardeners took ten years to create? Did you notice the beautiful parchments in my library?”

Embarrassed, the young man confessed that he had seen nothing. His only concern was not to spill the drops of oil that the wise man had entrusted to him.

“So, go back and see the wonders of my world,” said the wise man. “You can’t trust a man if you don’t know his house.”

Now more at ease, the young man took the spoon and strolled again through the palace, this time paying attention to all the works of art that hung from the ceiling and walls. He saw the gardens, the mountains all around the palace, the delicacy of the flowers, the taste with which each work of art was placed in its niche. Returning to the sage, he reported in detail all that he had seen.

“But where are the two drops of oil that I entrusted to you?” asked the sage.

Looking down at the spoon, the young man realized that he had spilled the oil.

“Well, that is the only advice I have to give you,” said the sage of sages. “The Secret of Happiness lies in looking at all the wonders of the world and never forgetting the two drops of oil in the spoon.”

Paulo Coelo


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