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Mar 9, 2010 2:44 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again
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Mar 9, 2010 2:48 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
whaaat
whaaatwhaaatden, South Holland Netherlands31 Threads 5,747 Posts
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again


Nothing wrong yet, to start suspecting, don;t let it ruin something good. U could ask him, why he was interested to know.

Welcome, haven't seen u before wave wave
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Mar 9, 2010 2:50 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again


Well I am guessing you must have told him you wanted to get rid of them so maybe he is just trying to help you get shut of them. Ask him how much he thinks he could get for them. I am sure he never met you for these goods as I never saw in your profile you had lots of electrical goods to get rid of so just ask him how much they could be sold for and wait his response.
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Mar 9, 2010 2:50 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again
Hey; You dont by any chance have a spare dvd player do ya????teddybear
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Mar 9, 2010 2:51 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
thank you whaat

i know i shouldnt be suspecting anything but im afraid to get to involved in case i get trampeled on again and i really wont be able for that again
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Mar 9, 2010 2:52 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
are you selling the stuff or just getting rid of it. he may just want to offer to help you dispose of it or he may know of some needy people who would welcome itdunno dunno
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Mar 9, 2010 2:55 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
caspatch: are you selling the stuff or just getting rid of it. he may just want to offer to help you dispose of it or he may know of some needy people who would welcome it
I am needy.....roll eyes roll eyes
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Mar 9, 2010 2:56 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
i said nothin to him about getting rid of it
but he hasnt stopped talkin about it since he saw it
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Mar 9, 2010 2:56 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
xxemmaxx: thank you whaat

i know i shouldnt be suspecting anything but im afraid to get to involved in case i get trampeled on again and i really wont be able for that again


I think you are mixing two different issues together. Decide if you truly want to get rid of the stuff (give away/sell).... and decide if you like him and want to continue seeing him.

There are NO GUARANTEES in life/love - but friendship is a good place to start. Get to know him as a person and then make a decision. Right now after a couple of dates, you honestly don't know much about who he is - so at least give him that opportunity if you at least like what you know of him thus far.
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Mar 9, 2010 2:58 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
he can have it if he wants it
i just hope its not just wat he wants to be honest
cause i really want to get to know him
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Mar 9, 2010 2:59 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
How many dates have you had with this chapdunno
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Mar 9, 2010 3:00 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
conjor
conjorconjorSmithfield, North Carolina USA61 Threads 2,056 Posts
xxemmaxx: he can have it if he wants it
i just hope its not just wat he wants to be honest
cause i really want to get to know him
May hap he is afraid to talk about what is really on his mind????devil
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Mar 9, 2010 3:01 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx: he can have it if he wants it
i just hope its not just wat he wants to be honest
cause i really want to get to know him


Well...here is what you do...just for giggles:

Give him what you have now, and promise him more later...only if he's a good boy!

Just saying...just an idea!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 9, 2010 3:01 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
mickybwoy
mickybwoymickybwoysheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK31 Threads 2,075 Posts
yeah... have you seen his house?? he maybe struggling with his kidsdunno
they always say one mans waste is anothers gold..or womens!grin dunno
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Mar 9, 2010 3:04 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
about 6 in 3 weeks
been to my house 2
and msn nearly every nite
and he txts me about 10 times a day
but the calls and txts and msn always starts and ends in the stuff be mentioned
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Mar 9, 2010 3:05 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again


Some men are like that. You say something off-hand that you are going to do in the future, like get rid of some rubbish, and hey presto, they want to sort it, to please you. It's a macho thing.

Whether you want to be with him in the future is up to you, but if he is like this, then you would have to like a man who likes to fix things for you, (whether he really can fix them or not).

Just a personal observation from past experience, but people who sort things for others, sometimes don't look at themselves, and are often not good listeners, when you'd like something done your way........

peace
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Mar 9, 2010 3:06 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
xxemmaxx
xxemmaxxxxemmaxxdublin, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 17 Posts
the kids live there mam
he sees them 4 times a week which is fantasic for them and him
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Mar 9, 2010 3:08 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella
who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also

he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again


Relax. All he did was ask about the deal of the electrical goods. All it means is that he is interested in them. Coincidence.

And it does appear that he is into you, don't make something out of nothing now.

If you don't need those electrical goods, and he wants them---then give it to him by all means (pun partially intended). That's all. I do strongly suggest that if you do give him those electrical appliances, don't ask any funny questions or create some drama---unless you really need to. Hopefully he'll be understanding.
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Mar 9, 2010 3:08 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
TurkishDelight
TurkishDelightTurkishDelightDublin, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 3,998 Posts
xxemmaxx: about 6 in 3 weeks
been to my house 2
and msn nearly every nite
and he txts me about 10 times a day
but the calls and txts and msn always starts and ends in the stuff be mentioned


Have you asked him outright..face to face about this..it could be something or nothing dunno

Yet, what Ginger has said, smacks true too about the situation
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Mar 9, 2010 3:09 PM CST im not sure wats going on to be honest!!
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Box it up, stick it in a closet and tell him you've sorted it...and then go on from there.
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