3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
Nothing wrong yet, to start suspecting, don;t let it ruin something good. U could ask him, why he was interested to know.
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xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
Well I am guessing you must have told him you wanted to get rid of them so maybe he is just trying to help you get shut of them. Ask him how much he thinks he could get for them. I am sure he never met you for these goods as I never saw in your profile you had lots of electrical goods to get rid of so just ask him how much they could be sold for and wait his response.
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
Hey; You dont by any chance have a spare dvd player do ya????
are you selling the stuff or just getting rid of it. he may just want to offer to help you dispose of it or he may know of some needy people who would welcome it
caspatch: are you selling the stuff or just getting rid of it. he may just want to offer to help you dispose of it or he may know of some needy people who would welcome it
i know i shouldnt be suspecting anything but im afraid to get to involved in case i get trampeled on again and i really wont be able for that again
I think you are mixing two different issues together. Decide if you truly want to get rid of the stuff (give away/sell).... and decide if you like him and want to continue seeing him.
There are NO GUARANTEES in life/love - but friendship is a good place to start. Get to know him as a person and then make a decision. Right now after a couple of dates, you honestly don't know much about who he is - so at least give him that opportunity if you at least like what you know of him thus far.
about 6 in 3 weeks been to my house 2 and msn nearly every nite and he txts me about 10 times a day but the calls and txts and msn always starts and ends in the stuff be mentioned
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
Some men are like that. You say something off-hand that you are going to do in the future, like get rid of some rubbish, and hey presto, they want to sort it, to please you. It's a macho thing.
Whether you want to be with him in the future is up to you, but if he is like this, then you would have to like a man who likes to fix things for you, (whether he really can fix them or not).
Just a personal observation from past experience, but people who sort things for others, sometimes don't look at themselves, and are often not good listeners, when you'd like something done your way........
xxemmaxx: 3 weeks ago i went on a date and i met this lovely fella who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off he said he would ring he did he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses as i really dont want to be hurt again
Relax. All he did was ask about the deal of the electrical goods. All it means is that he is interested in them. Coincidence.
And it does appear that he is into you, don't make something out of nothing now.
If you don't need those electrical goods, and he wants them---then give it to him by all means (pun partially intended). That's all. I do strongly suggest that if you do give him those electrical appliances, don't ask any funny questions or create some drama---unless you really need to. Hopefully he'll be understanding.
xxemmaxx: about 6 in 3 weeks been to my house 2 and msn nearly every nite and he txts me about 10 times a day but the calls and txts and msn always starts and ends in the stuff be mentioned
Have you asked him outright..face to face about this..it could be something or nothing
Yet, what Ginger has said, smacks true too about the situation
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who has 3 kids which is perfect cause im not sure if i want anymore kids since i have 3 also
he says he wants to see me again as we really hit it off
he said he would ring he did
he said he will come over when my kids dad has them he did
but he noticed that i had a lot of electrical goods in the house i wanted to get rid of
now he txts me or rings me to find out what im doing with it all
now im not so sure he is interested me or the stuff
wat do i do wait and see or cut my losses
as i really dont want to be hurt again